How do you know if your in love?

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im not talkin abut love at 1st sight

im sayin proper love, ended in tatters.....does it help for next time? is it possible to love to the same extent again? or is it never the same? are u bound 2 keep on comparing to ur past experiences? is that comparison a good thing?

dunno y im askin, but jus wanna knw peoples opinions Lol

The Lover is ever drunk with love;
He is free, he is mad,
He dances with ecstasy and delight.

Caught by our own thoughts,
We worry about every little thing,
But once we get drunk on that love,
Whatever will be, will be.

ɐɥɐɥ

"Darth V-Hayder" wrote:
im not talkin abut love at 1st sight

im sayin proper love, ended in tatters.....does it help for next time? is it possible to love to the same extent again? or is it never the same? are u bound 2 keep on comparing to ur past experiences? is that comparison a good thing?

dunno y im askin, but jus wanna knw peoples opinions Lol

Hayder what you feel for one person, you'll never experience it again bcoz love is different every single time. You may get burnt the first time but that will just make you more careful. Altho you may never feel the same thats not to say it wont be as strong the next time.

IMO its not a good idea to compare one relationship with another as the only thing common to the two is you. The other person will be difference, the "love" you feel for them will be different, and even you'l be a little different.

Back in BLACK

"Seraph" wrote:
Hayder what you feel for one person

hope ur not implyin something, im already boxxed off Dirol

The Lover is ever drunk with love;
He is free, he is mad,
He dances with ecstasy and delight.

Caught by our own thoughts,
We worry about every little thing,
But once we get drunk on that love,
Whatever will be, will be.

ɐɥɐɥ

Salam

Med is right.

Love is for one time.

One cannot love two.

Omrow

"Omrow" wrote:
Salam

Med is right.

Love is for one time.

One cannot love two.

Omrow

im on abt the true love. You can love again, but never like the first time, IMO. You can marry another, spend years with them, be entirely comfortable with them but never love them or any1 like u did ur first TRUE love. not lust.

I think in life u only feel really deep abt som1 once, the way they talk, the things they like to eat, the way they change their expression when they feeling cheeky, all these things are noted only once. After that u may be able to read another person but u wont FEEL it.

Ya ALLAH Madad.
Haq Chaar Yaar

i disagree with most of the love palava that has been mentioned in this thread

and I reiterate-I hate Romeo's

i find them weak and lacking in self control

"Darth V-Hayder" wrote:
im sayin proper love, ended in tatters.....does it help for next time? is it possible to love to the same extent again? or is it never the same? are u bound 2 keep on comparing to ur past experiences? is that comparison a good thing?

dunno y im askin, but jus wanna knw peoples opinions Lol

well my opinion is

lovesick romeo's/juliets are pathetic

they need to move on and get on with life

nothing is more unnattractive then a person hung up over his/her "true love" and doesnt move on and get on with things

A REAL man (and woman) GETS over things after they been rejected/dumped or whatever

"MuslimSisLilSis" wrote:

A REAL man (and woman) GETS over things after they been rejected/dumped or whatever

is this the voice of experience? have u been rejected lol.

Ya ALLAH Madad.
Haq Chaar Yaar

"Med" wrote:
"MuslimSisLilSis" wrote:

A REAL man (and woman) GETS over things after they been rejected/dumped or whatever

is this the voice of experience? have u been rejected lol.

Never.

But I do know and have heard of plenty of pathetic people in this situation.

I have no sympthay for them.

wheres all ur compassion gone cavewoman. LOL, if the people who I agree with came out with that line, then ur bunch wud say oh u so harsh cavewoman, tut tut tut

Ya ALLAH Madad.
Haq Chaar Yaar

whats this "ur bunch" and "people i agree with"? :roll:

The Lover is ever drunk with love;
He is free, he is mad,
He dances with ecstasy and delight.

Caught by our own thoughts,
We worry about every little thing,
But once we get drunk on that love,
Whatever will be, will be.

ɐɥɐɥ

ur bunch is the ppl who refer to me and others as caveppl, hayder. my ppl are the ones called caveppl by ur bunch. lol

hope dats clear.

Ya ALLAH Madad.
Haq Chaar Yaar

i only thought it was you Lol

p.s. theres no sides, groups or clans that im aware of

disagreeing is a beauty

The Lover is ever drunk with love;
He is free, he is mad,
He dances with ecstasy and delight.

Caught by our own thoughts,
We worry about every little thing,
But once we get drunk on that love,
Whatever will be, will be.

ɐɥɐɥ

"Darth V-Hayder" wrote:
i only thought it was you
p.s. theres no sides, groups or clans that im aware of

disagreeing is a beauty

i refer u to ur hurtful comments yesterday to other forum members, hayder.

Ya ALLAH Madad.
Haq Chaar Yaar

ah yes, i was anegered by your interference and your comments

but nonethless, it was silly of me to take it to that extent

as i apologised to Naj, i apologise too thee Med Sire Smile

The Lover is ever drunk with love;
He is free, he is mad,
He dances with ecstasy and delight.

Caught by our own thoughts,
We worry about every little thing,
But once we get drunk on that love,
Whatever will be, will be.

ɐɥɐɥ

thine apology is fully accepted fair lady. ! lol

Ya ALLAH Madad.
Haq Chaar Yaar

lol

it wouldnt hurt to aplogise too you know.... Wink

takes two to tango lol

The Lover is ever drunk with love;
He is free, he is mad,
He dances with ecstasy and delight.

Caught by our own thoughts,
We worry about every little thing,
But once we get drunk on that love,
Whatever will be, will be.

ɐɥɐɥ

"Darth V-Hayder" wrote:

takes two to tango lol

astaghfirullah, chi chi chi, tut tut tut. does the fair lady want me to tango with her?!!

lol. Im sorry aswell brother.

Ya ALLAH Madad.
Haq Chaar Yaar

ah but the night is young, and this dance is yours..... Wink

Sister Yashmaki was spot on, were gona disagree on a few topics, differ on opinion slightly on others ...but there aint no point in accusing each other, getting personal (weve all done that), slandering, and...yeah u knw what i mean

Allah Subhanalla Wa'Taala knows best

im gona stick to do what i do best, waffle Smile

The Lover is ever drunk with love;
He is free, he is mad,
He dances with ecstasy and delight.

Caught by our own thoughts,
We worry about every little thing,
But once we get drunk on that love,
Whatever will be, will be.

ɐɥɐɥ

love is for sissys we men get married because its practical , i expect food, babies and clean house first , the love can come after

lol

funny guy Lol

The Lover is ever drunk with love;
He is free, he is mad,
He dances with ecstasy and delight.

Caught by our own thoughts,
We worry about every little thing,
But once we get drunk on that love,
Whatever will be, will be.

ɐɥɐɥ

"Raf786" wrote:
love is for sissys we men get married because its practical , i expect food, babies and clean house first , the love can come after

lol, hope ALLAH keeps u like that bro. But sometimes even the men find love first but dnt get the food and babies and house cos they dnt get the wife.

Ya ALLAH Madad.
Haq Chaar Yaar

"Darth V-Hayder" wrote:
lol

funny guy Lol

No. He's being serious. :shock:

"Med" wrote:
no doubt Holy Prophet salallahu alayhi wa sallam DID love Ammi Aisha radhiyallahu anha. But even then, Sayyidatuna Aisha radhiyallahu anha has narrated that Holy Prophet salallahu alayhi wa sallam loved Ammi Khadeejah tul Kubra radhiyallahu anha the most.

so true!

Actions speak louder than words!

Salam

I know that Prophet loved many people.

But is there a saying from the Prophet which actually has the words: " I love you."

I don't think he ever said those words to any of his 13 wives.

Makes one wonder.

Omrow

"Omrow" wrote:
Salam

I know that Prophet loved many people.

But is there a saying from the Prophet which actually has the words: " I love you."

I don't think he ever said those words to any of his 13 wives.

Makes one wonder.

Omrow

Anyone can say "i love u" but to truly mean it is another thing, love can come from ones' actions i.e pleasing their beloved to do what makes them happy and to refrain from things that dont make them happy etc.

"angel" wrote:

Anyone can say "i love u" but to truly mean it is another thing, love can come from ones' actions i.e pleasing their beloved to do what makes them happy and to refrain from things that dont make them happy etc.

good point

love is more action and less talk

"MuslimSisLilSis" wrote:
"Darth V-Hayder" wrote:
im sayin proper love, ended in tatters.....does it help for next time? is it possible to love to the same extent again? or is it never the same? are u bound 2 keep on comparing to ur past experiences? is that comparison a good thing?

dunno y im askin, but jus wanna knw peoples opinions Lol

well my opinion is

lovesick romeo's/juliets are pathetic

they need to move on and get on with life

nothing is more unnattractive then a person hung up over his/her "true love" and doesnt move on and get on with things

A REAL man (and woman) GETS over things after they been rejected/dumped or whatever

ah spoke like a true cynic.

or a realist masquerading as a cynic

who is secretly an optimist.

Back in BLACK

you know you are very callous and cold, a woman after my own heart

"MuslimSisLilSis" wrote:
"angel" wrote:

Anyone can say "i love u" but to truly mean it is another thing, love can come from ones' actions i.e pleasing their beloved to do what makes them happy and to refrain from things that dont make them happy etc.

good point

love is more action and less talk

that was to you by the way

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