Submitted by Sirus on 19 October, 2005 - 18:52 #271
im not talkin abut love at 1st sight
im sayin proper love, ended in tatters.....does it help for next time? is it possible to love to the same extent again? or is it never the same? are u bound 2 keep on comparing to ur past experiences? is that comparison a good thing?
dunno y im askin, but jus wanna knw peoples opinions
—
The Lover is ever drunk with love;
He is free, he is mad,
He dances with ecstasy and delight.
Caught by our own thoughts,
We worry about every little thing,
But once we get drunk on that love,
Whatever will be, will be.
ɐɥɐɥ
Submitted by Seraphim on 19 October, 2005 - 18:57 #272
"Darth V-Hayder" wrote:
im not talkin abut love at 1st sight
im sayin proper love, ended in tatters.....does it help for next time? is it possible to love to the same extent again? or is it never the same? are u bound 2 keep on comparing to ur past experiences? is that comparison a good thing?
dunno y im askin, but jus wanna knw peoples opinions
Hayder what you feel for one person, you'll never experience it again bcoz love is different every single time. You may get burnt the first time but that will just make you more careful. Altho you may never feel the same thats not to say it wont be as strong the next time.
IMO its not a good idea to compare one relationship with another as the only thing common to the two is you. The other person will be difference, the "love" you feel for them will be different, and even you'l be a little different.
—
Back in BLACK
Submitted by Sirus on 19 October, 2005 - 19:04 #273
"Seraph" wrote:
Hayder what you feel for one person
hope ur not implyin something, im already boxxed off
—
The Lover is ever drunk with love;
He is free, he is mad,
He dances with ecstasy and delight.
Caught by our own thoughts,
We worry about every little thing,
But once we get drunk on that love,
Whatever will be, will be.
ɐɥɐɥ
Submitted by Omrow on 19 October, 2005 - 21:01 #274
Salam
Med is right.
Love is for one time.
One cannot love two.
Omrow
Submitted by Medarris on 19 October, 2005 - 22:27 #275
"Omrow" wrote:
Salam
Med is right.
Love is for one time.
One cannot love two.
Omrow
im on abt the true love. You can love again, but never like the first time, IMO. You can marry another, spend years with them, be entirely comfortable with them but never love them or any1 like u did ur first TRUE love. not lust.
I think in life u only feel really deep abt som1 once, the way they talk, the things they like to eat, the way they change their expression when they feeling cheeky, all these things are noted only once. After that u may be able to read another person but u wont FEEL it.
im sayin proper love, ended in tatters.....does it help for next time? is it possible to love to the same extent again? or is it never the same? are u bound 2 keep on comparing to ur past experiences? is that comparison a good thing?
dunno y im askin, but jus wanna knw peoples opinions
well my opinion is
lovesick romeo's/juliets are pathetic
they need to move on and get on with life
nothing is more unnattractive then a person hung up over his/her "true love" and doesnt move on and get on with things
A REAL man (and woman) GETS over things after they been rejected/dumped or whatever
Submitted by Medarris on 19 October, 2005 - 23:33 #278
"MuslimSisLilSis" wrote:
A REAL man (and woman) GETS over things after they been rejected/dumped or whatever
is this the voice of experience? have u been rejected lol.
A REAL man (and woman) GETS over things after they been rejected/dumped or whatever
is this the voice of experience? have u been rejected lol.
Never.
But I do know and have heard of plenty of pathetic people in this situation.
I have no sympthay for them.
Submitted by Medarris on 19 October, 2005 - 23:42 #280
wheres all ur compassion gone cavewoman. LOL, if the people who I agree with came out with that line, then ur bunch wud say oh u so harsh cavewoman, tut tut tut
—
Ya ALLAH Madad.
Haq Chaar Yaar
Submitted by Sirus on 19 October, 2005 - 23:50 #281
whats this "ur bunch" and "people i agree with"? :roll:
—
The Lover is ever drunk with love;
He is free, he is mad,
He dances with ecstasy and delight.
Caught by our own thoughts,
We worry about every little thing,
But once we get drunk on that love,
Whatever will be, will be.
ɐɥɐɥ
Submitted by Medarris on 19 October, 2005 - 23:52 #282
ur bunch is the ppl who refer to me and others as caveppl, hayder. my ppl are the ones called caveppl by ur bunch. lol
hope dats clear.
—
Ya ALLAH Madad.
Haq Chaar Yaar
Submitted by Sirus on 19 October, 2005 - 23:53 #283
i only thought it was you
p.s. theres no sides, groups or clans that im aware of
disagreeing is a beauty
—
The Lover is ever drunk with love;
He is free, he is mad,
He dances with ecstasy and delight.
Caught by our own thoughts,
We worry about every little thing,
But once we get drunk on that love,
Whatever will be, will be.
ɐɥɐɥ
Submitted by Medarris on 20 October, 2005 - 00:01 #284
"Darth V-Hayder" wrote:
i only thought it was you
p.s. theres no sides, groups or clans that im aware of
disagreeing is a beauty
i refer u to ur hurtful comments yesterday to other forum members, hayder.
—
Ya ALLAH Madad.
Haq Chaar Yaar
Submitted by Sirus on 20 October, 2005 - 00:26 #285
ah yes, i was anegered by your interference and your comments
but nonethless, it was silly of me to take it to that extent
as i apologised to Naj, i apologise too thee Med Sire
—
The Lover is ever drunk with love;
He is free, he is mad,
He dances with ecstasy and delight.
Caught by our own thoughts,
We worry about every little thing,
But once we get drunk on that love,
Whatever will be, will be.
ɐɥɐɥ
Submitted by Medarris on 20 October, 2005 - 00:30 #286
thine apology is fully accepted fair lady. ! lol
—
Ya ALLAH Madad.
Haq Chaar Yaar
Submitted by Sirus on 20 October, 2005 - 00:32 #287
lol
it wouldnt hurt to aplogise too you know....
takes two to tango lol
—
The Lover is ever drunk with love;
He is free, he is mad,
He dances with ecstasy and delight.
Caught by our own thoughts,
We worry about every little thing,
But once we get drunk on that love,
Whatever will be, will be.
ɐɥɐɥ
Submitted by Medarris on 20 October, 2005 - 00:37 #288
"Darth V-Hayder" wrote:
takes two to tango lol
astaghfirullah, chi chi chi, tut tut tut. does the fair lady want me to tango with her?!!
lol. Im sorry aswell brother.
—
Ya ALLAH Madad.
Haq Chaar Yaar
Submitted by Sirus on 20 October, 2005 - 00:41 #289
ah but the night is young, and this dance is yours.....
Sister Yashmaki was spot on, were gona disagree on a few topics, differ on opinion slightly on others ...but there aint no point in accusing each other, getting personal (weve all done that), slandering, and...yeah u knw what i mean
Allah Subhanalla Wa'Taala knows best
im gona stick to do what i do best, waffle
—
The Lover is ever drunk with love;
He is free, he is mad,
He dances with ecstasy and delight.
Caught by our own thoughts,
We worry about every little thing,
But once we get drunk on that love,
Whatever will be, will be.
ɐɥɐɥ
Submitted by equanimity on 20 October, 2005 - 00:44 #290
love is for sissys we men get married because its practical , i expect food, babies and clean house first , the love can come after
Submitted by Sirus on 20 October, 2005 - 00:44 #291
lol
funny guy
—
The Lover is ever drunk with love;
He is free, he is mad,
He dances with ecstasy and delight.
Caught by our own thoughts,
We worry about every little thing,
But once we get drunk on that love,
Whatever will be, will be.
ɐɥɐɥ
Submitted by Medarris on 20 October, 2005 - 00:47 #292
"Raf786" wrote:
love is for sissys we men get married because its practical , i expect food, babies and clean house first , the love can come after
lol, hope ALLAH keeps u like that bro. But sometimes even the men find love first but dnt get the food and babies and house cos they dnt get the wife.
—
Ya ALLAH Madad.
Haq Chaar Yaar
Submitted by Beast on 20 October, 2005 - 09:34 #293
"Darth V-Hayder" wrote:
lol
funny guy
No. He's being serious. :shock:
Submitted by MastKuri on 20 October, 2005 - 10:35 #294
"Med" wrote:
no doubt Holy Prophet salallahu alayhi wa sallam DID love Ammi Aisha radhiyallahu anha. But even then, Sayyidatuna Aisha radhiyallahu anha has narrated that Holy Prophet salallahu alayhi wa sallam loved Ammi Khadeejah tul Kubra radhiyallahu anha the most.
so true!
—
Actions speak louder than words!
Submitted by Omrow on 20 October, 2005 - 10:53 #295
Salam
I know that Prophet loved many people.
But is there a saying from the Prophet which actually has the words: " I love you."
I don't think he ever said those words to any of his 13 wives.
Makes one wonder.
Omrow
Submitted by Angel on 20 October, 2005 - 13:24 #296
"Omrow" wrote:
Salam
I know that Prophet loved many people.
But is there a saying from the Prophet which actually has the words: " I love you."
I don't think he ever said those words to any of his 13 wives.
Makes one wonder.
Omrow
Anyone can say "i love u" but to truly mean it is another thing, love can come from ones' actions i.e pleasing their beloved to do what makes them happy and to refrain from things that dont make them happy etc.
Anyone can say "i love u" but to truly mean it is another thing, love can come from ones' actions i.e pleasing their beloved to do what makes them happy and to refrain from things that dont make them happy etc.
good point
love is more action and less talk
Submitted by Seraphim on 20 October, 2005 - 19:42 #298
"MuslimSisLilSis" wrote:
"Darth V-Hayder" wrote:
im sayin proper love, ended in tatters.....does it help for next time? is it possible to love to the same extent again? or is it never the same? are u bound 2 keep on comparing to ur past experiences? is that comparison a good thing?
dunno y im askin, but jus wanna knw peoples opinions
well my opinion is
lovesick romeo's/juliets are pathetic
they need to move on and get on with life
nothing is more unnattractive then a person hung up over his/her "true love" and doesnt move on and get on with things
A REAL man (and woman) GETS over things after they been rejected/dumped or whatever
ah spoke like a true cynic.
or a realist masquerading as a cynic
who is secretly an optimist.
—
Back in BLACK
Submitted by equanimity on 20 October, 2005 - 21:04 #299
you know you are very callous and cold, a woman after my own heart
Submitted by equanimity on 20 October, 2005 - 21:05 #300
"MuslimSisLilSis" wrote:
"angel" wrote:
Anyone can say "i love u" but to truly mean it is another thing, love can come from ones' actions i.e pleasing their beloved to do what makes them happy and to refrain from things that dont make them happy etc.
im not talkin abut love at 1st sight
im sayin proper love, ended in tatters.....does it help for next time? is it possible to love to the same extent again? or is it never the same? are u bound 2 keep on comparing to ur past experiences? is that comparison a good thing?
dunno y im askin, but jus wanna knw peoples opinions
The Lover is ever drunk with love;
He is free, he is mad,
He dances with ecstasy and delight.
Caught by our own thoughts,
We worry about every little thing,
But once we get drunk on that love,
Whatever will be, will be.
ɐɥɐɥ
Hayder what you feel for one person, you'll never experience it again bcoz love is different every single time. You may get burnt the first time but that will just make you more careful. Altho you may never feel the same thats not to say it wont be as strong the next time.
IMO its not a good idea to compare one relationship with another as the only thing common to the two is you. The other person will be difference, the "love" you feel for them will be different, and even you'l be a little different.
Back in BLACK
hope ur not implyin something, im already boxxed off
The Lover is ever drunk with love;
He is free, he is mad,
He dances with ecstasy and delight.
Caught by our own thoughts,
We worry about every little thing,
But once we get drunk on that love,
Whatever will be, will be.
ɐɥɐɥ
Salam
Med is right.
Love is for one time.
One cannot love two.
Omrow
im on abt the true love. You can love again, but never like the first time, IMO. You can marry another, spend years with them, be entirely comfortable with them but never love them or any1 like u did ur first TRUE love. not lust.
I think in life u only feel really deep abt som1 once, the way they talk, the things they like to eat, the way they change their expression when they feeling cheeky, all these things are noted only once. After that u may be able to read another person but u wont FEEL it.
Ya ALLAH Madad.
Haq Chaar Yaar
i disagree with most of the love palava that has been mentioned in this thread
and I reiterate-I hate Romeo's
i find them weak and lacking in self control
well my opinion is
lovesick romeo's/juliets are pathetic
they need to move on and get on with life
nothing is more unnattractive then a person hung up over his/her "true love" and doesnt move on and get on with things
A REAL man (and woman) GETS over things after they been rejected/dumped or whatever
is this the voice of experience? have u been rejected lol.
Ya ALLAH Madad.
Haq Chaar Yaar
Never.
But I do know and have heard of plenty of pathetic people in this situation.
I have no sympthay for them.
wheres all ur compassion gone cavewoman. LOL, if the people who I agree with came out with that line, then ur bunch wud say oh u so harsh cavewoman, tut tut tut
Ya ALLAH Madad.
Haq Chaar Yaar
whats this "ur bunch" and "people i agree with"? :roll:
The Lover is ever drunk with love;
He is free, he is mad,
He dances with ecstasy and delight.
Caught by our own thoughts,
We worry about every little thing,
But once we get drunk on that love,
Whatever will be, will be.
ɐɥɐɥ
ur bunch is the ppl who refer to me and others as caveppl, hayder. my ppl are the ones called caveppl by ur bunch. lol
hope dats clear.
Ya ALLAH Madad.
Haq Chaar Yaar
i only thought it was you
p.s. theres no sides, groups or clans that im aware of
disagreeing is a beauty
The Lover is ever drunk with love;
He is free, he is mad,
He dances with ecstasy and delight.
Caught by our own thoughts,
We worry about every little thing,
But once we get drunk on that love,
Whatever will be, will be.
ɐɥɐɥ
i refer u to ur hurtful comments yesterday to other forum members, hayder.
Ya ALLAH Madad.
Haq Chaar Yaar
ah yes, i was anegered by your interference and your comments
but nonethless, it was silly of me to take it to that extent
as i apologised to Naj, i apologise too thee Med Sire
The Lover is ever drunk with love;
He is free, he is mad,
He dances with ecstasy and delight.
Caught by our own thoughts,
We worry about every little thing,
But once we get drunk on that love,
Whatever will be, will be.
ɐɥɐɥ
thine apology is fully accepted fair lady. ! lol
Ya ALLAH Madad.
Haq Chaar Yaar
lol
it wouldnt hurt to aplogise too you know....
takes two to tango lol
The Lover is ever drunk with love;
He is free, he is mad,
He dances with ecstasy and delight.
Caught by our own thoughts,
We worry about every little thing,
But once we get drunk on that love,
Whatever will be, will be.
ɐɥɐɥ
astaghfirullah, chi chi chi, tut tut tut. does the fair lady want me to tango with her?!!
lol. Im sorry aswell brother.
Ya ALLAH Madad.
Haq Chaar Yaar
ah but the night is young, and this dance is yours.....
Sister Yashmaki was spot on, were gona disagree on a few topics, differ on opinion slightly on others ...but there aint no point in accusing each other, getting personal (weve all done that), slandering, and...yeah u knw what i mean
Allah Subhanalla Wa'Taala knows best
im gona stick to do what i do best, waffle
The Lover is ever drunk with love;
He is free, he is mad,
He dances with ecstasy and delight.
Caught by our own thoughts,
We worry about every little thing,
But once we get drunk on that love,
Whatever will be, will be.
ɐɥɐɥ
love is for sissys we men get married because its practical , i expect food, babies and clean house first , the love can come after
lol
funny guy
The Lover is ever drunk with love;
He is free, he is mad,
He dances with ecstasy and delight.
Caught by our own thoughts,
We worry about every little thing,
But once we get drunk on that love,
Whatever will be, will be.
ɐɥɐɥ
lol, hope ALLAH keeps u like that bro. But sometimes even the men find love first but dnt get the food and babies and house cos they dnt get the wife.
Ya ALLAH Madad.
Haq Chaar Yaar
No. He's being serious. :shock:
so true!
Actions speak louder than words!
Salam
I know that Prophet loved many people.
But is there a saying from the Prophet which actually has the words: " I love you."
I don't think he ever said those words to any of his 13 wives.
Makes one wonder.
Omrow
Anyone can say "i love u" but to truly mean it is another thing, love can come from ones' actions i.e pleasing their beloved to do what makes them happy and to refrain from things that dont make them happy etc.
good point
love is more action and less talk
ah spoke like a true cynic.
or a realist masquerading as a cynic
who is secretly an optimist.
Back in BLACK
you know you are very callous and cold, a woman after my own heart
that was to you by the way
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