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i know its very weird. he said he could get a girlfriend if he wanted to any time, but he doesnt want a girlfriend, he wants a wife.
he said looks dont bother him, as long as person as right for him, that is why i was so surprised, guess it is a gamble. i will do istikhara and see what happens. havent got engaged so if attraction aint there in time, will just leave it
oh boy...
This guy needs some human interaction lessons
Did you ask him what he meant by that? :?
Maybe he wants you to know that he wants to marry you for [i]who[/i] you are not [i]what[/i] you are.
He's got to be attracted to you if he wants to marry you. He just doesn't want you to think that 'attraction' is the only reason.
He must have a bad way with words generally or he gets all messed-up when talking to you.
Yeh, thats one way of looking at it.
The reason why I'm being optimistic about this guy is cos I have a brother who has a funny way with words...his compliments also sound like disses.
sounds bad i know!
he meant he is not looking for fling, his intention is not to go out but with intention of marriage.
said if he wanted someone based on looks alone that would be easy, but its more difficult to get someone with compatible personality.
he has turned marriage proposals down, even though girls were pretty cuz not on same level
think im digging myself into a hole by explaining further, lol
That makes perfect sense to me.
I too value compatibility over everything else. After all, thats what you have to live with...
He sounds like a decent guy.
lol. guys can b wierd! :roll: but as muslimsis and beast pointed out, there's no way he wouldv'e approached u about marriage if he wasnt at all physically attracted to u. as i read ur first few posts, i was wondering if u were referring specifically to physical attraction, or general likeability - obviously this became clear later on.
wot do ur parents think of it?
[size=9]I NEVER WORE IT BECAUSE OF THE TALIBAN, MOTHER. I LIKE THE [b]MODESTY[/b] AND [b]PROTECTION[/b] IT AFFORDS ME FROM THE EYES OF MEN.[/size] [url=http://www.adherents.com/lit/comics/Dust.html]Dust, X-Men[/url]
unfortunately i have not approached my parents about this yet because im not 100% sure it is the right thing.
my mum is happy about us marrying our own choices as previous cousins chose their own husbands,
my older sister knows about him and approves
she has given her blessing, but still wants me to be careful.
his parents have also encouraged him to find a wife. he is planning on telling them about us (all being well) after his 26th bday in march
Fizzy....you can possibly have the honoured privelage of having the FIRST Revival Wedding
...providing you beat Irf to it, in which case, you better be quick!
WE WANT CAKE!
The Lover is ever drunk with love;
He is free, he is mad,
He dances with ecstasy and delight.
Caught by our own thoughts,
We worry about every little thing,
But once we get drunk on that love,
Whatever will be, will be.
ɐɥɐɥ
lol no - Yashmaki was the first.
Unless...wait...fizzy is it somebody from the forum?!
:roll: come on dave no need to go into fairytale-land
[size=9]I NEVER WORE IT BECAUSE OF THE TALIBAN, MOTHER. I LIKE THE [b]MODESTY[/b] AND [b]PROTECTION[/b] IT AFFORDS ME FROM THE EYES OF MEN.[/size] [url=http://www.adherents.com/lit/comics/Dust.html]Dust, X-Men[/url]
lol
no one from here dnt worry
dnt know if i will beat irf, but will be at least a year if all goes well
i will do a blog for you if/when things get going
and yes, there will have to be cake!
i know shes married, but i didn't knw the Revival had an invite :shock:
in which case, i would like to claim my slice of cake now please :mrgreen:
gud 2 hear fizzy, but if its a year...i may jus entire the race
The Lover is ever drunk with love;
He is free, he is mad,
He dances with ecstasy and delight.
Caught by our own thoughts,
We worry about every little thing,
But once we get drunk on that love,
Whatever will be, will be.
ɐɥɐɥ
Hayder, whu are you so obsessed with me getting married?
:? :roll:
meri praa di shaadee honai vali hai
[size=7] its a joke, chill [/size]
The Lover is ever drunk with love;
He is free, he is mad,
He dances with ecstasy and delight.
Caught by our own thoughts,
We worry about every little thing,
But once we get drunk on that love,
Whatever will be, will be.
ɐɥɐɥ
so many weddings are taking place in 2006....i hate attending or part taking in weddings.
i hope things keep getting delayed for me.
why naj??
when you getting married?
i aint been to a wedding for ages
soon ....erm i dont wanna disclose too much
i just want it delayed coz dads in hospital....havent a clue when hes out innit,
really the atmosphere is crap....i dont know whether you like em oka not ?
meaning alot of fitnah around
what is fitnah?
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fitna
Oh
this is for Dave, and anyone else who is interested in 'Arranged Marriages' and how they should really work (as we were having this discussion recently):
http://daruliftaa.com/question.asp?txt_QuestionID=q-13144262
[size=9]I NEVER WORE IT BECAUSE OF THE TALIBAN, MOTHER. I LIKE THE [b]MODESTY[/b] AND [b]PROTECTION[/b] IT AFFORDS ME FROM THE EYES OF MEN.[/size] [url=http://www.adherents.com/lit/comics/Dust.html]Dust, X-Men[/url]
My sis is gona have a wedin cake too, there cant be a wedin cermony without cake, everyone on this forum is officially invited [size=9]lemme ask sis first but rember you pay for your flights to scot yourselves, accomodation can be sorted[/size]
so thoughtful of ya !
cant hack wedding cake...
too much thick icing, always end up taking it all off
lol and I thought I was doing such a great job of pretending (out of politeness) I am understanding of them
[size=7]I need to take acting lessons...[/size]
Thanks though
how can you not explain,icing is the main bit
Cake is more than just an edible plate for icing.
But you can't take off the icing.
Much like the bride and groom are one - so are the cake and icing.
...Okay I made that last bit up.
But still
dont like fat icing...
my sister also thinks its the main part.
depends - if its chocolate icing, then i'm all for it!
[size=9]I NEVER WORE IT BECAUSE OF THE TALIBAN, MOTHER. I LIKE THE [b]MODESTY[/b] AND [b]PROTECTION[/b] IT AFFORDS ME FROM THE EYES OF MEN.[/size] [url=http://www.adherents.com/lit/comics/Dust.html]Dust, X-Men[/url]
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