PARENTS

Because this forum has covered nearly everything else...I though it should also cover the 2 most important people in our lives too...

OUR PARENTS...

do u live with your parents :?:
who are you closeEST too and y lol :?:

what are the rights parents have over children and vice versa..please display quarnic ayaats and hadiths if poss inshallah :?:

In Islam we are told to respect our parents, our parents have brought us to this world, clothed us feed us etc, above all given us islamic guidelines to their full knowledge and understanding...so basically parents are a blessing.

A hadith references in regards to parents.

Hazrat Abu Abdur Rehman Abdullah Bin Mas’ud (R.A.A.) says that he asked the Holy Prophet (S.A.W.): which action is the most favourite with Allah the Almighty. He answered : “Performing the Salat (or offering Prayers) in time.” I asked: Thereafter? He said: ‘Good treatment of parents.’ I submitted; ‘Then which next?’ He said: “Fighting and struggling in the way of Allah.” (Bukhari and Muslim)

As you can see from the above hadith, good treatments of parents comes before fighting and struggling in the way of Allah (swt). Therefore we can see that treatin our parents in a good manner holds a lot of importance.

The next hadith points more towards a mother as a mother is one who bears the child for nine months and gives the child relvant islamic upbringin...

Hazrat Abu Hurairah (R.A.A.) relates that a man came to the Holy Prophet (S.A.W.) and asked: ‘O Messenger of Allah, which person of all the people is best entitled to kind treatment and the good companionship from me? He answered? ‘Your mother.’ The man asked: And then? He said: ‘Your mother.’ And after her? He said: ‘Your mother.’ And after her? The Holy Prophet (S.A.W.) said: ‘Your father’ (Bukhari and Muslim)

So from the above hadith you can clearly see the status of a mother as a "mother" has been mentioned 3 times for the same question....

"MuSlImAh786" wrote:
Because this forum has covered nearly everything else...I though it should also cover the 2 most important people in our lives too...

OUR PARENTS...

do u live with your parents :?:
who are you closeEST too and y lol :?:

what are the rights parents have over children and vice versa..please display quarnic ayaats and hadiths if poss inshallah :?:

At the moment I live with my parents, I am close to both of them I guess 'cause I am the oldest (and the wisest amongst my bros and sis Biggrin ) I can easily share my problems with them and vice versa.

Parents are a great gift from Allah Almighty, we only appreciate them when we are away from them Sad

THROUGH LOVE all that is bitter will be sweet.
Through Love all that is copper will be gold.
Through Love all dregs will turn to purest wine.
Through Love all pain will turn to medicine.
Through Love the king will turn into a slave!

"MuSlImAh786" wrote:
do u live with your parents :?:
who are you closeEST too and y lol :?:

I sorta live with em... mostly I don't either by school or by lack of wanting to be around each other.

When they are in Marthas Vineyard I am in SC, when they are in SC I am in MV or school

Prevents clashing

I suppose i'm closer to my dad, he's a weak guy though and I don't really have a ton of respect for him. He tries ~ I give him that.

Mom not so much, shes a lot more like me and we fight all the time, occasionally I can make her laugh but that's usually at somebody elses expense, I think she tries in her own way but stomping on people isn't particularly something I enjoy doing.

And I absolutely cannot stand the stuff they say about my girlfriend.

yes i LIVE with my parents...

most closest to my mum...cant talk with dad the way i talk with mum,BUT love em both to bits and pieces EVEN though mum gets me angry alot and i get her angry alot lol.
i would never like to hurt em...if someone asked me that a few weeks back i'd be thinking twice ,

BUT...

im GONNA sacrifice my OWN happiness for my MUMS....that shows how much i really love and care for her.

I have a wonderful family. None of us has any rights over anyone else. It is most excellent when we hang together, challenge one another from our innermost selves, listening for long enough to recognise what we are getting from each other and to admire what each of us is up to 'out there'. There's a lot of warmth and love, forgiveness, generosity, the occasional tantrum, and it's all quite overwhelming. So I don't live with them.

put quite simply. my family are my life

im nothing without them, and i like to think they wouldnt be same without me!

The Lover is ever drunk with love;
He is free, he is mad,
He dances with ecstasy and delight.

Caught by our own thoughts,
We worry about every little thing,
But once we get drunk on that love,
Whatever will be, will be.

ɐɥɐɥ

I live at home aswell.

My parents are great, but Im closer to my mom than my dad aswell.

Ya ALLAH Madad.
Haq Chaar Yaar

i've alwayz argued like cats and dogs with my siblings and at times hated them so much....i dont realise the love i have for them until one gets seriously ill.

which shows i really do love them.

but when they ask me in a joke if i love them....i alwayz tell them how much i hate them LOL.

lol, love and hate eh.

close relationship.

Ya ALLAH Madad.
Haq Chaar Yaar

I LOVE YOU MED, I LOVE YOU DAVE, I LOVE YOU IRF, I LOVE YOU YUIT, I LOVE YOU 100, I LOVE YOU ADM.....wait, wont got that far

not afriad to say it Biggrin

The Lover is ever drunk with love;
He is free, he is mad,
He dances with ecstasy and delight.

Caught by our own thoughts,
We worry about every little thing,
But once we get drunk on that love,
Whatever will be, will be.

ɐɥɐɥ

"naj" wrote:

i would never like to hurt em...if someone asked me that a few weeks back i'd be thinking twice ,

really?

and if some1 asked u now, what wud u say?

Ya ALLAH Madad.
Haq Chaar Yaar

Salam

It is said that a person whose parents were upset will not be able to go to Heaven.

He, or she, will simmer in Hell forever.

Therefore take heed, Madiya.

Omrow

"Med" wrote:
"naj" wrote:

i would never like to hurt em...if someone asked me that a few weeks back i'd be thinking twice ,

really?

yea really....sometimes i FEEL really selfish still do at times,,but i try thinking of the thawab i'd get for keeping mum happy...BUT some ppl upset me more saying im to fashiony or gorifyde lol...take things to heart ya know.

some1 asked me now i'd SAY NO.

k

i'v had enuf of this topic.

Ya ALLAH Madad.
Haq Chaar Yaar

"Omrow" wrote:
Salam

It is said that a person whose parents were upset will not be able to go to Heaven.

He, or she, will simmer in Hell forever.

Therefore take heed, Madiya.

Omrow

Abrahams father Terah was an idol worshipper and was mad at his son for turning away from the idols.

It is stated that you should listen to your parents only within the boundaries of Islam even if they are of another religion, so long as they don't take you away from Islam.

THROUGH LOVE all that is bitter will be sweet.
Through Love all that is copper will be gold.
Through Love all dregs will turn to purest wine.
Through Love all pain will turn to medicine.
Through Love the king will turn into a slave!

Parents.

Sometimes you can't live with them and you can't live without them...

My peace of mind and happiness is very strongly linked with their opinion of me...

Good parents really are a blessing from Allah (swt).

I live at home, get on wiv both of ma parents but sometimes av disagreements but still respect their decisions, my siblings on the other hand well wot can i say you cant live with them but you cant without Biggrin If i ever hand anything on my mind my parents wouldnt be the first i would turn to, wud be ma sis, were real close and its vice versa with her theres stuff she done that i know bout that if ma parents found out they probs av a heart attack (probs not so much me mum coz she know wot she like but defo ma dad, lol)

No not the gum drop buttons! – Gingy

you can feel all the love on the forum, as soon as Dave returns Smile

The Lover is ever drunk with love;
He is free, he is mad,
He dances with ecstasy and delight.

Caught by our own thoughts,
We worry about every little thing,
But once we get drunk on that love,
Whatever will be, will be.

ɐɥɐɥ

"Averroes" wrote:
"Darth V-Hayder" wrote:
I LOVE YOU IRF,

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oooooo someone is getin carried away all because hayder said i love u eugggggggggggg

THROUGH LOVE all that is bitter will be sweet.
Through Love all that is copper will be gold.
Through Love all dregs will turn to purest wine.
Through Love all pain will turn to medicine.
Through Love the king will turn into a slave!

"Naz" wrote:
If i ever hand anything on my mind my parents wouldnt be the first i would turn to, wud be ma sis, were real close and its vice versa with her theres stuff she done that i know bout that if ma parents found out they probs av a heart attack (probs not so much me mum coz she know wot she like but defo ma dad, lol)

hey ..U so lucky, i cant get word across to my siblings before i know it they gowin to grass me up, das why i gotta be extra careful and watch what i say or do LOL.

sniff up people.....

can ya smell it?

Jealousy Dirol

The Lover is ever drunk with love;
He is free, he is mad,
He dances with ecstasy and delight.

Caught by our own thoughts,
We worry about every little thing,
But once we get drunk on that love,
Whatever will be, will be.

ɐɥɐɥ

U JOKA..

in ur dreamz hahaha........

So does anybody have parents they [i]don't[/i] like on a regular basis?

thankully, no

but i understand its not the case with everyone unfortunately

and for that reason, some of us need to be more understanding when individuals are more easily ready to displease thier parents in favour of thier lover..........or something like that

guess its not same for every1

The Lover is ever drunk with love;
He is free, he is mad,
He dances with ecstasy and delight.

Caught by our own thoughts,
We worry about every little thing,
But once we get drunk on that love,
Whatever will be, will be.

ɐɥɐɥ

"Darth V-Hayder" wrote:
sniff up people.....

can ya smell it?

Jealousy Dirol

Yeh hayder we are sooooooooo jealous :roll:

ASIF!!!!!!!!

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