Wearing hijab does not mean you are a good muslim. However it does mean that you are covering ONE ASPECT of your duties.
We are all flawed. Why is everyone jumping on those who can do a bit but not alot? We are by no means perfect.
You are expecting everyone wearing hijab to be a saint.
It's not easy for everyone.
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"For too long, we have been a passively tolerant society, saying to our citizens 'as long as you obey the law, we will leave you alone'" - David Cameron, UK Prime Minister. 13 May 2015.
Submitted by Noor on 4 September, 2006 - 00:46 #32
Im not saying that every1 hu wears a hijaab is a saint or has to be.
Im just saying "sum" sisters dont have the rite intentions when they preserve the hijaab.
Of course it dsnt mean ur the best muslim if u wear a hijaab, ur just fulfiling a basic fardh.
Im just saying "sum" sisters dont have the rite intentions when they preserve the hijaab.
And why does that surprise you?
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"For too long, we have been a passively tolerant society, saying to our citizens 'as long as you obey the law, we will leave you alone'" - David Cameron, UK Prime Minister. 13 May 2015.
Submitted by Noor on 4 September, 2006 - 00:59 #34
"Admin" wrote:
"*_Noor_*" wrote:
Im just saying "sum" sisters dont have the rite intentions when they preserve the hijaab.
And why does that surprise you?
It dsnt.
Submitted by *DUST* on 4 September, 2006 - 01:20 #35
"*_Noor_*" wrote:
My sis saw a niqaabi wid a boy outside cinemas and they wer kissing and not just a quick peck on da cheek..
maybe they were married? :? i can't imagine a niqabi dating... that's just weird.
"Admin" wrote:
We are all flawed. Why is everyone jumping on those who can do a bit but not alot? We are by no means perfect.
You are expecting everyone wearing hijab to be a saint.
It's not easy for everyone.
i don't expect everyone wearing a hijab to be a saint. my post was as much a reminder to myself as anyone else, hence the 'we'. but the point i was trying to make, and no offence Admin but i think only girls would understand this, is that the islamic reasoning behind wearing hijab is modesty and though this is the intention most of us have when we wear it for the first time, our idea of hijab can change over time and it can be reduced to just a cloth, and that's when the purpose of hijab is no longer fulfilled.
donning a headscarf isn't as straightforward as just putting a peice of cloth on one's head, it involves an entire personality change when in public.
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[size=9]I NEVER WORE IT BECAUSE OF THE TALIBAN, MOTHER. I LIKE THE [b]MODESTY[/b] AND [b]PROTECTION[/b] IT AFFORDS ME FROM THE EYES OF MEN.[/size] [url=http://www.adherents.com/lit/comics/Dust.html]Dust, X-Men[/url]
Submitted by Bliss on 4 September, 2006 - 19:38 #36
"*DUST*" wrote:
donning a headscarf isn't as straightforward as just putting a peice of cloth on one's head, it involves an entire personality change when in public.
salaam
exactly thats wat most sisters need to be aware of wen the hijab comes on its not for modesty on teh outside bt for the inside aswell. yeh i gt to admit altho i wear teh hijab and jibab i smtime can't control myself in skool i go wild wen i hyped up and i hate to say it bt thats me. by teh grace of Allah swt i learnt a lot more about how a women should present herself. inshallah know in 6 form i na take my studies more seriously and more importantly myself yeh i still na have a laugh bt in a more Appropriate mean.
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A rose protects its beauty with thorns..a woman protects hers with a veil
Submitted by Kadijah on 4 September, 2006 - 20:38 #37
"geniesis" wrote:
"*DUST*" wrote:
donning a headscarf isn't as straightforward as just putting a peice of cloth on one's head, it involves an entire personality change when in public.
salaam
exactly thats wat most sisters need to be aware of wen the hijab comes on its not for modesty on teh outside bt for the inside aswell. yeh i gt to admit altho i wear teh hijab and jibab i smtime can't control myself in skool i go wild wen i hyped up and i hate to say it bt thats me. by teh grace of Allah swt i learnt a lot more about how a women should present herself. inshallah know in 6 form i na take my studies more seriously and more importantly myself yeh i still na have a laugh bt in a more Appropriate mean.
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yeee sis but u don't have to change ur whole personalitycompletly u know . of course u can still have a laugh and chill with teh hijab
in my skool most hijabies are very ncie girls they are very friendly to everyone always their for u and at teh same time bubbly and up for a laugh![/color]
The way I see it it;s two separate issues.
Wearing hijab does not mean you are a good muslim. However it does mean that you are covering ONE ASPECT of your duties.
We are all flawed. Why is everyone jumping on those who can do a bit but not alot? We are by no means perfect.
You are expecting everyone wearing hijab to be a saint.
It's not easy for everyone.
"For too long, we have been a passively tolerant society, saying to our citizens 'as long as you obey the law, we will leave you alone'" - David Cameron, UK Prime Minister. 13 May 2015.
Im not saying that every1 hu wears a hijaab is a saint or has to be.
Im just saying "sum" sisters dont have the rite intentions when they preserve the hijaab.
Of course it dsnt mean ur the best muslim if u wear a hijaab, ur just fulfiling a basic fardh.
And i never said its easy for every1.
And why does that surprise you?
"For too long, we have been a passively tolerant society, saying to our citizens 'as long as you obey the law, we will leave you alone'" - David Cameron, UK Prime Minister. 13 May 2015.
It dsnt.
i don't expect everyone wearing a hijab to be a saint. my post was as much a reminder to myself as anyone else, hence the 'we'. but the point i was trying to make, and no offence Admin but i think only girls would understand this, is that the islamic reasoning behind wearing hijab is modesty and though this is the intention most of us have when we wear it for the first time, our idea of hijab can change over time and it can be reduced to just a cloth, and that's when the purpose of hijab is no longer fulfilled.
donning a headscarf isn't as straightforward as just putting a peice of cloth on one's head, it involves an entire personality change when in public.
[size=9]I NEVER WORE IT BECAUSE OF THE TALIBAN, MOTHER. I LIKE THE [b]MODESTY[/b] AND [b]PROTECTION[/b] IT AFFORDS ME FROM THE EYES OF MEN.[/size] [url=http://www.adherents.com/lit/comics/Dust.html]Dust, X-Men[/url]
salaam
exactly thats wat most sisters need to be aware of wen the hijab comes on its not for modesty on teh outside bt for the inside aswell. yeh i gt to admit altho i wear teh hijab and jibab i smtime can't control myself in skool i go wild wen i hyped up and i hate to say it bt thats me. by teh grace of Allah swt i learnt a lot more about how a women should present herself. inshallah know in 6 form i na take my studies more seriously and more importantly myself yeh i still na have a laugh bt in a more Appropriate mean.
A rose protects its beauty with thorns..a woman protects hers with a veil
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yeee sis but u don't have to change ur whole personalitycompletly u know . of course u can still have a laugh and chill with teh hijab
in my skool most hijabies are very ncie girls they are very friendly to everyone always their for u and at teh same time bubbly and up for a laugh![/color]
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