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"Augustus" wrote:
"moi" wrote:
"Augustus" wrote:
Does anyone have any experience helping people through crises/suicide prevention?

:shock: Dave please tell me you are ok!?

wats up? anything to do with wedin plans :?

p.s. welcome back

I'm married, we eloped.

congratulations!! wow

p.s. this is angel

Oh, hi Angel!

Thank you - how are you?

hey angel... come chat on the no topic thread - or are u having problems signing in AGAIN? :shock: Wink

[size=9]I NEVER WORE IT BECAUSE OF THE TALIBAN, MOTHER. I LIKE THE [b]MODESTY[/b] AND [b]PROTECTION[/b] IT AFFORDS ME FROM THE EYES OF MEN.[/size] [url=, X-Men[/url]

"Augustus" wrote:
Oh, hi Angel!

Thank you - how are you?

yeah i am good thanks

No Aasiyah no problems with signing in, if i sign in then i will start posting and i need to get some stuff typed up.

Shuruu mein ge te hum ik makaan mein hum,
tumse na koi kaam, na koi matlab tha sanam.

tumhara naam tha mitha, tumhare baatein thi kamaal,
dheere dheere utt-ne lage qalb mein kaheen sawaal.

poochha to tha humne logon se ke hai kya yeh pyaar?
na mila humko kuch maa siwa fuzuul izhar e khyaal.

akheer, dil mein jhaank kar dekha aur paya tumhein meri jaan,
heraan huwe, yeh kaise huwa - kab, kyun aur kahan?

fiza e ishq ne machaay hulchul,
tumhein chaaha har ghari, har lamha, har pal.

jahan se pyaari hai meri pyaari,
mithai se mithi hai meri deewani.

meh usska chand, woh meri tara,
woh mera dil, mein uss ka dilwala.

logon ko kehne do jo kehte rahe,
ke hain hum pagal, ya chalaak ya majnoon.
par khuda gawah - ikhlas e niyyat o amal e salih,
tha hamara qaida o qanoon.

ibtida se le kar intihaa tak,
shuruuat se le kar ikhtitaam tak,
hamara iraada ta sirf nikah par,
yehi sach hai, yehi Haq.

"Saadia Khan" wrote:
salam
wow
VAH VAH!!
muqarrar irshaad
that was kool

really?! :?

i dont think it was that good.

it was

but who are you :shock:

The Lover is ever drunk with love;
He is free, he is mad,
He dances with ecstasy and delight.

Caught by our own thoughts,
We worry about every little thing,
But once we get drunk on that love,
Whatever will be, will be.

ɐɥɐɥ

who i am is not important.
what i am is.

I am a wretch

Ta’ajjub ki baat ke naam lewa e Muhammad karte hain izzat o qadr,
Adab o ihtiraam Ammi e Khoon, o Umm e Ridha,
Par hain kyun ghafil e huqooq yeh ummati
Ummahaat e Imaan o Azwaaj Nabiiyil Badr?

al-Kubra par mein qurbaan, jo imaan laay
awr paa gaye samaa’I amaan
Bint al Khuwaylid hai hum sab se ala,
Hain unki qabr paak sarzameen jannatul malaa.

Phir aay haram e Nubuwwat mein, bint e Zam’a,
Kaun hai woh khatoon jo apni souten ko de apna din,
Yehi hai woh maa meri jo wasta ridha e Nabi rahi sakhi UNSE bin.

Eh Ammi Aisha tere muqaddar par rashk kare har zamana,
Khuda ne dii KHUD teri safaae – ye sach hai, na koi fasana.

alqaab e muazzaz –eh saaima eh taaiba – nawazish e ArshWala
jo na mane tujhko Bint al Faruq uss ka imaan nahi sirf jahaala.

[i]work in progress[/i]
Trans:

It is indeed strange, the namesakes of Muhammad do honour and esteem,
Respect and adore the Mother of Blood and the Mother of Milk,
But why neglectful of the rights are these followers,
Of the Mothers of Faith and the Wives of the Prophet of Badr?

Upon al-Kubra may I be sacrificed, she who brought Faith,
And achieved heavenly security,
Better than us all is Daughter of Khuwaylid,
Esteemed Jannatul Malaa is her pure grave.

Then came in the sanctuary of Prophethood Daughter of Zam’a,
Who is that woman who gives her co-wife her day?
This is my very mother, who for pleasure of Prophet can stay away from Him.

Oh Mother Aisha the whole world does envy at your destiny,
God Himself declared your purity, this is the truth not a mere fable.

Titles of Honour – Oh Fasting-lady Oh Repentant-lady – gifted from the One of the Throne,
He who does not accept you Daughter of Faruq- has no Faith only Ignorance.

[b]would appreciate some HONEST feedback on this work in progress[/b]

lol he's always been good at urdu and poetry for that matter, whether he cares to admit it or not.

Isn't it about time we gave him another shot?

"Augustus" wrote:
lol he's always been good at urdu and poetry for that matter, whether he cares to admit it or not.

Isn't it about time we gave him another shot?


i never realised.

i suppose its up to angel, and he has to promise not to be judgemental and condescending if he is to come back.

[size=9]I NEVER WORE IT BECAUSE OF THE TALIBAN, MOTHER. I LIKE THE [b]MODESTY[/b] AND [b]PROTECTION[/b] IT AFFORDS ME FROM THE EYES OF MEN.[/size] [url=, X-Men[/url]

"*DUST*" wrote:
"Augustus" wrote:
lol he's always been good at urdu and poetry for that matter, whether he cares to admit it or not.

Isn't it about time we gave him another shot?


i never realised.

i suppose its up to angel, and he has to promise not to be judgemental and condescending if he is to come back.

he wont be coming back, whethe you want to, or he wants to, or I want to

"Anonymous" wrote:
"*DUST*" wrote:
"Augustus" wrote:
lol he's always been good at urdu and poetry for that matter, whether he cares to admit it or not.

Isn't it about time we gave him another shot?


i never realised.

i suppose its up to angel, and he has to promise not to be judgemental and condescending if he is to come back.

he wont be coming back, whethe you want to, or he wants to, or I want to


it seems like he already has.

[size=9]I NEVER WORE IT BECAUSE OF THE TALIBAN, MOTHER. I LIKE THE [b]MODESTY[/b] AND [b]PROTECTION[/b] IT AFFORDS ME FROM THE EYES OF MEN.[/size] [url=, X-Men[/url]

UMMAHAATUL MUMINEEN

Ta’ajjub ki baat ke naam lewa e Muhammad karte hain izzat o qadr,
Adab o ihtiraam Ammi e Khoon, o Umm e Ridha,
Par hain kyun ghafil e huqooq yeh ummati
Ummahaat e Imaan o Azwaaj Nabiiyil Badr?

al-Kubra par mein qurbaan, jo imaan laay
awr paa gaye samaa’I amaan
Bint al Khuwaylid hai hum sab se ala,
Hain unki qabr paak sarzameen jannatul malaa.

Phir aay haram e Nubuwwat mein, bint e Zam’a,
Kaun hai woh khatoon jo apni souten ko de apna din,
Yehi hai woh maa meri jo wasta ridha e Nabi rahi sakhi UNSE bin.

Eh Ammi Aisha tere muqaddar par rashk kare har zamana,
Khuda ne dii KHUD teri safaae – ye sach hai, na koi fasana.

Alqaab e muazzaz –eh saaima eh taaiba – nawazish e ArshWala
Jo na maane tujhko Bint al Faruq uss ka imaan nahi sirf jahaala.

Bahaduri Farooqui dunya hai achchi tarah se waqif,
Magar Umm Salama ka ho koi khaas mawqif,
Phir chaahe Ibn ul Khattab kyun na ho,
Naa mange gi ijazat Bibi - ke mujhe kuch kehne do!

Meri maa Ramla tera imaan to Khuda qasm hai laa-jawab,
Muhajira Begum sab ko choda, har dost o ahbaab.
Rag rag nas nas mein bhar diya Allah Nabi ka ishq
Anjam iss ka suno logon – kaha Eh Abba, tum an-najis! Al mushrik!

Libaas nabawi mein shaamil bhi hain Zaynabayn,
Paak hain ye zaat, yeh Arabi Muhtaramatayn.

Sakhaawat se ma’shoor, humdardi ka ma’moor,
Iss waste laya Khuda ne inhen dar Huzuur.
Kaash hum bhi kuch seekh sakte tujse eh Ummul Masakeen.
Beshak aapki hayat e zindagi hai bakamaal o bahaseen.

Awr Bint Jahsh! Tum nahi humnaam se koi kam darajah,
Talabgaar subuut mange to iss ka jawaab – subhanALLAH!
Gawah hai mera Quran ke tha mere Rabb ka yeh farmaan,
Hoga nikah tera nahi farsh pe balke fee ‘ala asmaan.
Sidq o akhlaaq se hai tumhara bhot gehraa dustuur,
Hai koi awr jo de souten ke haq mein difa-e-maqbul?

Ala imaan hai ka Hazrat Juwayriyyah o Ammi Maymunah,
Yeh baat meri jo hai, saheeh hai, hai na?
Izzat e Banu Mustaliq, aabroh banaat al-Hilaaliyah,
Ban gayeen Naaz e gharana Nubuwwah.

Ik meri maa woh hai jo hai Bint Nabi Israeel,
Khuda ka fazl ke banheen tum bahu Nabi Ismaeel.
Ajab nazaara, aalam e akhwaab mein paya Bibi ne Chand e Yathrib,
Subh tarak hote hi ban gayeen aap Rahmaan se ik hassti e Hib.

Maine maana ke mujh napaak se insaaf nahi ho sakha,
Kya pata maine yahan kya kya hai likha,
Par Eh Khuda,tujh se umeedwaar hoon mein,
In chand ashaar ke waseeleh se tu mujhe baksh de.

[size=11][i]Trans:

It is indeed strange, the namesakes of Muhammad do honour and esteem,
Respect and adore the Mother of Blood and the Mother of Milk,
But why neglectful of the rights are these followers,
Of the Mothers of Faith and the Wives of the Prophet of Badr?

Upon al-Kubra may I be sacrificed, she who brought Faith,
And achieved heavenly security,
Better than us all is Daughter of Khuwaylid,
Esteemed Jannatul Malaa is her pure grave.

Then came in the sanctuary of Prophethood Daughter of Zam’a,
Who is that woman who gives her co-wife her day?
This is my very mother, who for pleasure of Prophet can stay away from Him.

Oh Mother Aisha the whole world does envy at your destiny,
God Himself declared your purity, this is the truth not a mere fable.

Titles of Honour – Oh Fasting-lady Oh Repentant-lady – gifted from the One of the Throne,
He who does not accept you Daughter of Faruq- has no Faith only Ignorance.

Courage of Faruq is well-known in the world,
But should Umm Salama have an objective to achieve,
Then even if it is the Son of Khattab,
The lady will no ask for permission – that let me speak please.

My Mother Ramla – by God your faith is unapproachable,
Emigrant Lady you left everything, every friend and dear one,
Every vein and every vessel you filled with love of God and Prophet,
Here the effect of this Oh People – said She “Oh my father! You Impure-one! You Idolator!”

Included among the clothing of Prophet are the Two Zaynabs,
Pure are these persons, these Respected ladies of Arabia,

Renowned for generosity, implementer of good-deeds,
Because of these did God bring them to the hearth of Respected One.
If only we could learn something from you Oh Mother of the Poor,
Without doubt your life is filled with perfected and with great beauty.

And Daughter of Jahsh! You are not any less in rank than your fellow namesake,
Researchers may require proof, its answer – Glory be to God!
Bears witness does my Quran that this was the command of my Lord,
Your holy marriage was to be not on the earth but in the highest heaven.
Truth and goodcharacter are closely related to you,
Who else is there who would give a robust defence in favour of a co-wife?

Of the highest Faith are Lady Juwayriyyah and Mother Maymunah,
This statement of mine is correct, is it not?
Honour of Tribe of Mustaliq, respect of daughters of the Hilaaliyah,
Became the pride of the Household of Prophethood.

Another of my mothers in from the Children of Prophet Israeel,
It is Gods grace that you became the daughter-in-law of Prophet Ismaeel.
A strange scene, in the world of dreams did the Lady obtain the Moon of Yathrib,
Upon the breaking of dawn did you become a person gifted by the Most Merciful.

I confess that justice has not been done by my wretched self,
Who knows what it is I have written here?
But Oh my Lord! I am hopeful in you,
That through these few verses you grant me respite.[/i][/size]

Quote:
Another of my mothers in from the Children of Prophet Israeel,
It is Gods grace that you became the daughter-in-law of Prophet Ismaeel.

I am confused but maybe this is a difference in Islam and Christianity, I thought Yishma'el had a daughter he married off to Yitzhak's son 'Esav, making his daughter the daughter in law of Yitzhak, not the other way around.

"Don Karnage" wrote:
Quote:
Another of my mothers in from the Children of Prophet Israeel,
It is Gods grace that you became the daughter-in-law of Prophet Ismaeel.

I am confused but maybe this is a difference in Islam and Christianity, I thought Yishma'el had a daughter he married off to Yitzhak's son 'Esav, making his daughter the daughter in law of Yitzhak, not the other way around.

I am unaware of this above incident.

My referring was to Lady Safiyyah, daughter of Huyyay son of Akhtab.

She was descended from the Children of Israel via the Prophet Aaron. Hence she is from the Children of Israel.

She became the Daughter in law of Prophet Ismaeel because the Holy Prophet alayhis salaam is the descendent of Prophet Ismaeel. In arabic the descendent is also called son and so She is the daughter-in-law of the Prophet Ismaeel.

alayhim us salaam.

is it me or is revival editor a tad too confrontational for a youth mag editor? (ht thread and defending duo)

"Anonymous" wrote:
is it me or is revival editor a tad too confrontational for a youth mag editor? (ht thread and defending duo)

The job if an editor is to have an opinion.

Ours has loads of them...

"For too long, we have been a passively tolerant society, saying to our citizens 'as long as you obey the law, we will leave you alone'" - David Cameron, UK Prime Minister. 13 May 2015.

yes, and who are you guest

sign up!!

The Lover is ever drunk with love;
He is free, he is mad,
He dances with ecstasy and delight.

Caught by our own thoughts,
We worry about every little thing,
But once we get drunk on that love,
Whatever will be, will be.

ɐɥɐɥ

Quote:
Without a shadow of doubt I consider Jenab Usama bin Ladin Sahib to be muslim, just as I consider Mullah Muhammad Umar Sahib to be muslim, and Jenab Tahir ul Qadri Sahib to be muslim, and Jenab Nasiruddeen al Albaani Sahib to be a muslim, and Mufti Gul Rahman Sahib to be muslim, and Mawlana Tariq Jameel Sahib to be muslim, and Mawlana Sami ul Haq Sahib to be muslim.

lol I am not takfeeri.

those who raised objection on my referring to Usama Bin Ladin with Jenab should be objective and look how I have referred with common courteous titles to a salafi, sunni, barelwi, salafi, barelwi, sunni, sunni respectively.

The ulama - whether they are sunni or barelwi have had their respective titles attached. and the ghayr ulama have been referred to with Jenab and Sahib.

"Med-" wrote:
Quote:
Without a shadow of doubt I consider Jenab Usama bin Ladin Sahib to be muslim, just as I consider Mullah Muhammad Umar Sahib to be muslim, and Jenab Tahir ul Qadri Sahib to be muslim, and Jenab Nasiruddeen al Albaani Sahib to be a muslim, and Mufti Gul Rahman Sahib to be muslim, and Mawlana Tariq Jameel Sahib to be muslim, and Mawlana Sami ul Haq Sahib to be muslim.

lol I am not takfeeri.

those who raised objection on my referring to Usama Bin Ladin with Jenab should be objective and look how I have referred with common courteous titles to a salafi, sunni, barelwi, salafi, barelwi, sunni, sunni respectively.

The ulama - whether they are sunni or barelwi have had their respective titles attached. and the [b][size=18]ghayr ulama[/size][/b] have been referred to with Jenab and Sahib.

It was almost too good to b true... Lol

By the way Med, hows ya milad celebrations goin? done anything special?

_____________- -SupeRazor- -_______________

Some ppl make their goals the stars.
They may live n die n never reach the stars,
but in the darkness of the night, those stars will guide them to their destination.
Becuz they made them in their eyesight

lol Lol

raving no doubt

The Lover is ever drunk with love;
He is free, he is mad,
He dances with ecstasy and delight.

Caught by our own thoughts,
We worry about every little thing,
But once we get drunk on that love,
Whatever will be, will be.

ɐɥɐɥ

getting married in december, hope you all happy for me. :roll: Sad

"Med-" wrote:
getting married in december, hope you all happy for me. :roll: Sad

Wow Mega-Kool

Im extremely happy for u bro Biggrin

there will be cake ryt? as an ex-forum member, acoording to the rules, you still are obliged to provide cake, unless you have been banned for over 3 years.

which you havent

so cake

also....in pakistan or here? Wink

P.S. ADMIN....can u ban me plz Smile

"Med-" wrote:
getting married in december, hope you all happy for me. :roll: Sad

congrats. may Allah bless you with a happy married life and many pious children, Ameen.

why the long face?

[size=9]I NEVER WORE IT BECAUSE OF THE TALIBAN, MOTHER. I LIKE THE [b]MODESTY[/b] AND [b]PROTECTION[/b] IT AFFORDS ME FROM THE EYES OF MEN.[/size] [url=, X-Men[/url]

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