Salaam
I was just reading an article on the main bit about the rise in unmarried muslim women pregnant.
I'm just a bit confused about what it said on the bit about about if you ever end up in that situation, what to do???
the impresison i got was that it's better to keep the baby despite it being out of wedlock?
Is this true? or did i misunderstand?
surely it would be more sinful for you child to be reffered to as a ******* and it would be the kid that suffers in the end?
does Islam permit an unmarried muslim woman to keep the baby if she should end up in such a situation?
is it more sinful to keep it or kill it?
21 November 2006
55 min 35 sec
In Malaysia, if you're caught having sex with someone who u ain't married, then the government make you get married!
2∞&➔
24 April 2008
1 week 3 days
shame this isn't Malaysia...i reckon they've got the right idea!
4 April 2006
10 hours 3 min
you'll have to keep the baby. you shouldn't have been stupid enough to get yourself pregnant in the first place! anyway, abortions are haraam unless its a rape case, then the woman can choose whether if she wants to keep the baby or not.
MQI
24 April 2008
1 week 3 days
just to make it absolutely clear... i wasn't talking about myself..!
i don't think i've become that westernised yet...& can't imagine the sort of people who end up in such situations...although saying that there have been a few girls in my time who i've known to be in a situation like that
but i am no one to judge...i ahve no quote to justify that lol!
i asked out of curiousity as the issue came into conversation a while back and no one was really sure as to what Islam says regarding the issue
i must say im shocked on Islam's stance on children born out of wedlock...it seems as if you are bringing more sin into the world...
i know no child is a sin...but imagine the suffering the child will go through as a result of your stupid actions?
21 August 2005
2 days 10 hours
I think you should have more faith in humanity. I understand you're saying the kid could have a hard life, but you never know what the strength and destiny of the kid.
Gentleness and kindness were never a part of anything except that it made it beautiful, and harshness was never a part of anything except that it made it ugly.
Don't give up! Even if you don't make it, your 'trying' may inspire another.
24 April 2008
1 week 3 days
faith on humanity???
hmmm the last time i switched on the news (about an hour ago)....the top ten stories all revolved around murder...you see where im going with this
humanity has a very ugly and cruel streak...which recently seems to be popping up more often...!
someone who is not accpeted in the world is likely to revolt...and when they do its nasty...!
look at hitler...and all they did was not give him a place at some school!
7 January 2006
1 day 18 hours
A Shia Muslim girl would never commit fornication because Allah would protect her because she loves Imam Ali.
Sisters who do not love Allah's chosen Imam are vunerable. They easily engage in haraam sexual activity when the right oppertunity arises. Only love for Imam Ali whom Allah has blessed saves you from sins. Without Allah's protecttion it is very very hard to stay away from pleasures of lust.
Ya Ali Madaad !!
Ayatullah Khomeini rightly declared America as the Greatest Satan. www.tehrantimes.com
24 June 2005
53 min 5 sec
Oh yes, coz all shia are 100% on their imaan. Yes, im sure everythings will go swimmingly for them. Why dont you just let Michael Jackson baby sit for you whilst your at it.
Absence is to love What wind is to fire; It extinguishes the small, It enkindles the great.
31 March 2008
1 hour 8 min
I'm sorry but i can't see how that works...
When the power of love overcomes the love of power, the world will know peace.
Jimi Hendrix
11 May 2006
9 hours 48 min
Executions in Iran has increased. Iran now comes 2nd after China with 317 executions in 2007. Alot of them for rape and fornication.
BBC News
Got nothing against executing rapists and fornicators but Malik, atleast be honest.
19 August 2007
54 min 45 sec
Stranget999
Actually Islam isn't hard on the children, it believes that they've got the same rights as everyone else. Islam always emphasises that sleeping around will get you nowhere. If you want to be with someone then put the dialogue and serious stuff before the romance annd sex, and stop focussing too much on "trying it out" and focus on the anticipation. That's all there is to it! But unfortunately, most people, Joes, neo-cons and even imams don't get it.
Let them belittle you, they win.
But keep your chin up, they fail.
10 October 2005
3 days 15 hours
He never fails to amuse.
The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams.
28 October 2005
8 hours 43 min
Theres no point arguing with Malik he seems to stubborn.
ǝɯɐƃ ʇɐɥʇ ʇɐ ʎɐld uɐɔ oʍʇ uıɯpɐ
19 August 2007
54 min 45 sec
Well, if Malik wants to be a Shia he can do that. But to claim that ALL Shias are angels, I think is going over the top.
Let them belittle you, they win.
But keep your chin up, they fail.
10 October 2005
3 days 15 hours
Hes not stubborn just deluded.
The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams.
24 April 2008
1 week 3 days
so we all ahve to become shia to protect ourselves from sin...hmmmmmm....
28 October 2005
8 hours 43 min
Yes now with that mentality your accepting shia beliefs and can never ever do bad
ǝɯɐƃ ʇɐɥʇ ʇɐ ʎɐld uɐɔ oʍʇ uıɯpɐ
31 March 2008
1 hour 8 min
isn't that similar to christian belief that Jesus died and he took the sins of all his followers on himself? so if christians do somethin wrong then they will not suffer their sin? there is no hell for them?
When the power of love overcomes the love of power, the world will know peace.
Jimi Hendrix
19 August 2007
54 min 45 sec
I think Malik's done a runner. If he wants to actually discuss Shiaism, why doesn't he start a new thread? Fair enough he's got a passion for Shiaism so surely he should start a new discussion rather than do it occassionally here and there and run off?
Let them belittle you, they win.
But keep your chin up, they fail.
28 October 2005
8 hours 43 min
One thing i dont like about shia'ism is the disrespect they show to hadhrat abu bakr siddique (ra)
ǝɯɐƃ ʇɐɥʇ ʇɐ ʎɐld uɐɔ oʍʇ uıɯpɐ
21 November 2006
55 min 35 sec
how about the idolatry?
2∞&➔
28 October 2005
8 hours 43 min
I havent heard of that one but there is a whole list, why is this ummah so divided?

ǝɯɐƃ ʇɐɥʇ ʇɐ ʎɐld uɐɔ oʍʇ uıɯpɐ
31 March 2008
1 hour 8 min
its not just Abu Bakr (ra) its Umar (ra) and Uthman (ra) and Aiesha (ra) (+ many more but these stick out!)
When the power of love overcomes the love of power, the world will know peace.
Jimi Hendrix
28 October 2005
8 hours 43 min
I know but i highlighted Abu bakr (ra) because he was one of the closest to the prophet
ǝɯɐƃ ʇɐɥʇ ʇɐ ʎɐld uɐɔ oʍʇ uıɯpɐ
11 May 2006
9 hours 48 min
They believe Ali (ra) should have been the first Khalifah and not Abu Bakr (ra).
19 August 2007
54 min 45 sec
Ali had two sons called Umar and Abu Bakr!
Let them belittle you, they win.
But keep your chin up, they fail.
25 March 2008
3 days 19 hours
Do you guys want to help me choose a potential name for a son?
This is what I've got so far.
1) Abu Bakr
2) Umar
3) Uthman
4)
5) Muwawiah!
Your father I am!
29 April 2008
19 hours 47 min
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19 August 2007
54 min 46 sec
He's taking the mick, which he shouldn't do because Ali was a really good person.
Let them belittle you, they win.
But keep your chin up, they fail.
28 October 2005
8 hours 43 min
Im not sure if he is taking the mick out of ali(ra) but if he is, he needs a slap.
ǝɯɐƃ ʇɐɥʇ ʇɐ ʎɐld uɐɔ oʍʇ uıɯpɐ