There should be a different set of rule...

Getting married young
Its a different game, there should be different rules
Different expectations.
a different way of looking at it, at the couple.

yeah, thats what i was thinking about, will develop later. but what's your opinion?

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If they are not 40 they should not be expected to behave as 40 year olds.

So yes.

"For too long, we have been a passively tolerant society, saying to our citizens 'as long as you obey the law, we will leave you alone'" - David Cameron, UK Prime Minister. 13 May 2015.

I knew wht this was about as soon as i saw it! and i still stand by what i said before Blum 3 lol

"Verily, in the remembrance of Allah, do hearts find rest"

No. just not to expect or enforce them to act a lot older. IMO.

The 40 year olds took 40 years to get to the stage where they act as 40 year olds.

"For too long, we have been a passively tolerant society, saying to our citizens 'as long as you obey the law, we will leave you alone'" - David Cameron, UK Prime Minister. 13 May 2015.

Yeah you're kind of right, it does support early marriage- provided that there is compatibility, maturity and enough financial reseources. Sometimes Allah (swt) and His Messenger (pbuh) want us to use our minds and think. Aren't we told constantly in the Quran to think and ponder?

“Before death takes away what you are given, give away whatever there is to give.”

Mawlana Jalal ud Din Rumi

I did not mean adapt the religious rules. NEVER, if only the people could STICK to relegious rules ONLY then young couples wouldnt have a hard time. Im talking about the expectations of society etc...

like, expect them to be doing what young couples do but even more coz they arent just a yougn couple, they are a young young couple. e.g: not spending that much time together, spending more time with friends.

Is it true? Is it kind? Is it necessary?

oh mA! tht was a great video, i rlly enjoyed it. funny as well as interesting/educational/enlightening and everything else Smile

thnx Ocean

"Verily, in the remembrance of Allah, do hearts find rest"

Why do i find the concept of Mutah marriage hard to believe?

 

coz it is.

Is it true? Is it kind? Is it necessary?

Ocean wrote:
Muta marriage for the young? (with careful contraception)

Blum 3 Biggrin

Only Shia's do Muta marriage as far as I understand

My English is not very good

stopincest wrote:
Ocean wrote:
Muta marriage for the young? (with careful contraception)

Blum 3 Biggrin

Only Shia's do Muta marriage as far as I understand

yes. and other muslims dont consider it valid.

Is it true? Is it kind? Is it necessary?