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Sumaiya —

 

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TPOS — Mon, 4 Jan 2010 - 20:26

I think its alright to write on each others wall's as long as your not saying anything dodgy...but i be biased.

Seraphim — Mon, 4 Jan 2010 - 20:51

If you're having doubts then thats prob your conscience telling you, your doing something you prob shudnt be doin.

Its all down to what your "talking" abot on his wall.

You — Mon, 4 Jan 2010 - 23:21

as with most things, it depends on what you do. Facebook is a tool. it can be used for both good, ungood and bad.

Public conversations on decent matters will make sure you keep clear of any boundaries and gray areas.

afaik, there is no hadith or verse in the qur'an that goes along the line of "thou shalt not converse at all with members of the opposite gender."

You — Mon, 4 Jan 2010 - 23:38

It is up to you and what you are comfortable with - you need to decide for yourself where you draw the line.

Not having any added means you do not need to in the future worry about too much self control. On the other hand, it also means cutting yourself from more people and events and discussions that you want to. Ading them means being consciously aware of your actions and words to make sure you stay away from things that can turn sour and wrong (which is what is the situation in the real world on most occasions), but on the positive it also means you can engage with more people, events and discussions.

It is about what you are comfortable with.

I recently deleted my facebook account totally.

Sumaiya — Tue, 5 Jan 2010 - 00:07

I wish self control also applied to dieting!! 😉 oh and thanks from the replies, it's just I'm not sure what my mum would think of it, but come on I'm 15, gimme a break!lol nways... Are u serious about deleting ur facebook?! That's like... Social SUICIDE!!

You — Tue, 5 Jan 2010 - 00:14

I don't have a social life to suicide and I did not want to use facebook too often. If people want to communicate with me, they can email, ring or come on this site.

Sumaiya — Tue, 5 Jan 2010 - 00:24

It's not about communicating... It's about developing a broader relation with contacts and exposing your thoughts and life to the outside world in order to escape the reality of this world and succumb to your childish wants of a fantastical fake life...

You — Tue, 5 Jan 2010 - 00:26

which I probably do on here.

(you should do creative writing - you are making faceook sound greater than the sum of its parts.)

Sumaiya — Tue, 5 Jan 2010 - 00:33

Lol... Actually I find facebook to be more enjoyable than real life. It relieves one of the burdens of reality to that which provides one with the means to create and manipulate a life which would otherwise be impossible and thought to be 'immature' when in fact it is but a human instinct to desire the ability to be in control.

Sumaiya — Tue, 5 Jan 2010 - 00:40

You probably think I'm mad...
Nways I've got to get up tomorrow... 9:15 to be exact... Though it'll probably be later... I'll put it on snooze...

You — Tue, 5 Jan 2010 - 00:49

Salaams and have a good nights sleep.

(the internet be full of crazies and on the crazie scale, you're probably not even on it.)

TPOS — Tue, 5 Jan 2010 - 14:41

[quote=Sumaiya]It's not about communicating... It's about developing a broader relation with contacts and exposing your thoughts and life to the outside world in order to escape the reality of this world and succumb to your childish wants of a fantastical fake life... [/quote]

[quote=Sumaiya]Lol... Actually I find facebook to be more enjoyable than real life. It relieves one of the burdens of reality to that which provides one with the means to create and manipulate a life which would otherwise be impossible and thought to be 'immature' when in fact it is but a human instinct to desire the ability to be in control.[/quote]

wow!!

Sumaiya — Tue, 5 Jan 2010 - 22:39

lol... I sorely missed facebook today, i 'studied' in the library for 10 HOURS!!!( I find that studying away from the 'hustle and bustle' of home allows one to imagine one has to a place of solitude and isolation, this assists when you're surrounded by FRIENDS AND THOSE WHO LURRVVVE TO DISTURB YOU WITH THEIR INCESSANT AND UNNECESSARY COMMENTS! :evil: am goin tomorrow as well inshAllah 😉 , i find it helps with my diet as we're not allowed eat in the library and cant be bothered to eat out!
Ive got my science modules comin up next week inshAllah! please pray!! im so nervous!

B (not verified) — Tue, 5 Jan 2010 - 22:54

Sorry, spelling! Creative. Can you edit posts on this site?

Sumaiya — Tue, 5 Jan 2010 - 23:45

I lurrrvee creative writing!! I believe it not only expands ones vocabulary,but it also allows the mind to expand it's comprehension of reality and unleash another dimension of life from your own sense of faux reality of the childish mind.

B (not verified) — Tue, 5 Jan 2010 - 23:49

Yet you said you were doing science - or are you doing literature as we;;?

B (not verified) — Wed, 6 Jan 2010 - 00:30

I read about a guy in Saudi who shot his daughter for watching facebook!!!!! I think someone said earlier - let your conscience be your guide

angelic (not verified) — Wed, 6 Jan 2010 - 00:51

'You' - You actually had a facebook account LOL that's funny, whole point of facebook is to socialise, hehe that's funny, loner 😛

I recently created facebook, I wouldnt say I am addicted but I do use it on a daily basis, however I can live without it.