An interesting video on love:
For some reason the video is not embedding. The video is asking the question whether you love fish. Is it love if you take it out of the ocean, kill it and eat it?
What is described as love in this example is something you find beneficial. You love what you benefit from. This love is then contrasted with another form of love – one that you ivet in, one that you give into and it is suggested that the love where you ge is superior to the love where you recieve.
I dont necessarily agree with it, but it is interested to analyse why we desire what we desire.
What the video does not cover is any love for the Creator and the logic becomes distorted when you think about God. But it works for a lot of love for material/created things.