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Good thing is none of them are THAT pretty.
Heck im the prettiest person there.
lol Omrow, i get what you mean.
Aslong as they dont throw up in my car... :evil: i suppose i could attend for a short while atleast.
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seraph, ofcourse u shouldnt go!!!
remember the hadith about the perfume shop and the blacksmiths... u shouldnt willingly put urself in a place where haraam activities are going on.
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I'd agree with Omrow if you can find a mate to go with, unless you have proper mates who'll be there anyway.
Take a T-shirt saying [gis a momment to come up with something catchy like on the Muhammad Ali thread].
Gentleness and kindness were never a part of anything except that it made it beautiful, and harshness was never a part of anything except that it made it ugly.
Through cheating, stealing, and lying, one may get required results but finally one becomes
dnt listen to omro :roll:
how can u encourage garfield to go to a party where there'll be mistletoes and alcohol :evil:
Salam
Seraph. Don't listen to Aseya. She is not invited.
She is trying to seprate you from your friends.
Giving your colleagues some nice company which they seek from you is one of the good manners taught by Prophet.
As long you don't engage in sinful hot activity, which somehow I know you won't, then there is no problem in being there with them.
And if you feel really claustrophobic, you can always excuse yourself and go home early.
Omrow
lol, a T-Shirt... i dont think i hav the time to buy one and customise it aswell.
If i did get one it would prob say:
[b]"We have one life; it soon will be past; what we do for God is all that will last. "[/b]
Problem is not many practicing muslims work there... except this one other guy whose kinda cool... i might be able to go with him.
Aasiyah... ive never come across that hadith... altho im tempted to say you've invented it out of thin air ... im prepared to giv u the benefit of the doubt. However blessed is he who shepards the weak thru the valley of darkness, for he is truely his brother keeper and the finder of lost children.... Pulp Fiction.
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riiiight
so garfield
-dnt drink
-keep away frm the smelly drunks
-keep away from the flirty tispy girls
-keep away frm the mistletoe
-keep ur gaze lowered
-and make sure the food is halaal
and HAVE FUN :roll:
And take some blank Christmas cards with you.
LilSis...
atleast set me a challenge?? Comeon???
They already know of my beliefs against such things, they already know im taken, tipsy girls revolt me,
im an expert at dodging people trying to land one not to mention at completely ignoring people.
I ALWAYS ask if the fool is kosha...
Theres one other religious guy whose going.
Thats just leaves the fun part...
And since im driving there... i can always leave if i choose to.
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Actually they're making us do the secret santa thing.... :? ... lets see a box of sweets will do.... now to find something to wrap it in.... spare wallpaper from last years re-decorating the house...
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Salam
Any if girls keep trying to get close, just say you're gay. It always works.
And don't worry. God knows how straight you are.
Omrow
Verily, the example of a good companion and a bad one is like that of a perfume merchant and a blacksmith: As for the perfume merchant, he would either grant you (some perfume), or you would buy (some perfume) from him, or (in the least) you would get a good smell from him. And as for the blower of the bellows (ironsmith), you would either get a foul odour from him, or he would burn your clothes.
(Al-Bukhari and Muslim)
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Such vanity from a woman. Useless research.
Ignore them Aasiya
its obvious they're chatting outta their backside
so how about me and u linking up and going clubbing tonight?
I'm sure it'll be OK as long as we have our hijaabs on, don't drink, dance or allow guys to chat us up
and after that we'll get a drink in the local pub-thats also OK as long as we just order an orange juice :roll: :roll:
lol, no you idiot you're supposed to give a gift you recieved from someone else but saved for a purpose such as this. Bonus popints for giving a person the same gift they they gave you earlier e.g. B'day, Bonus points further if its still in their wrapping paper.
Oh dear...
Also LilSis The plural of 'mistletoe' is 'mistletoe' (i think)
Gentleness and kindness were never a part of anything except that it made it beautiful, and harshness was never a part of anything except that it made it ugly.
Through cheating, stealing, and lying, one may get required results but finally one becomes
lol, good thing ive saved those huge tin boxes of chocs... easy switch no problem... well ... maybe i'll eat jus the one b4 giving it away... or maybe 2... thats all.
Aasiyah... dont be so melodramatic. I did say i hadnt heard of it b4 but was giving you the benefit of the doubt... why bcoz i trust you... i knw ur kool.
Omrow... thats just not cricket.
Ignore lilsis shes upset no one invited her.
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If you have not heard a hadith, it does not make it wrong.
Its not a benefit of the doubt matter... It is about trusting others.
If you had doubts, you should have asked where it was from.
I have eard it before.
It may even be in the 40 Hadith compiled by Imam Nawawi.
"For too long, we have been a passively tolerant society, saying to our citizens 'as long as you obey the law, we will leave you alone'" - David Cameron, UK Prime Minister. 13 May 2015.
Do you have to attend this xmas party?
I have been invited but i dont wana go as there will be alcohol and i aint gona go (personally cuz there is alochol and the environment but i aint a very sociable person) . My sis might be goin to hers cuz they are goin to some pakistani restaurant.
Judging from a few people in that work place you dont wana be near them when they are sober let alone drunk!
I dont think you should go regardless of you being able to control yourself against drunk women or not given in to temptation to drink.
I think this kinda works like male and female being alone together, you may not want to drink but saytan will tempt you into it. why put yourself in such a situation which you dont have to?
lol, sounds like fun!
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thanx for the clarification, and i wasnt being melodramatic! :roll:
look, y wud i tel u not to got out for some 'potential' fun if i didnt genuinely think it was wrong?
FACT: unnecessary intermingling of the sexes is haraam.
wen ur at work, it is necessary, so as long as ur business-like, ur not sinning inshaAllah.
but once uv stepped outta work, and ur in a social atmosphere with non-mahrems, u have already put urself in a position of 'potential sin'.
QUESTION: y take the risk?
isnt this the same reasoning behind which most of us didnt go to our high-school proms / sixth form balls?
if u need any further info... http://maniacmuslim.com/Boycott_the_Prom.html
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omrow, ur argument is flawed. firstly, wot 'friends'? r u trying to say that seraph's colleagues are his 'friends'? a friend is one u can depend on, someone u can confide in, etc. colleagues rarely become one's 'friends'. :roll:
don't twist the Prophet's lifestyle to ur own advantage mate. the Prophet (s.a.w) would avoid places where haraam activities were taking place. does the "Cave of Hira" ring a bell?
if he (s.a.w) wanted, he could've spent more time partying with his tribesmen in the hope that some of his good manners and virtue would rub off on them. but instead he avoided them, knowing (that too, before his Prophethood!) that they were engaged in acts which would displease Allah.
seraph has enough time to do da'wah through 'good manners' whilst he's at work, when his colleagues are sober enough to notice.
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Salam
When a muslim is invited by a non muslim, he should accept the invitation.
The only invitation that you ought to turn down is when you are asked to do something that is prohibited in Islam, such as come and watch a lap dancer, take part in gambling, cheer Gary Glitter etc.
Seraph has been invited to a Christmas party. Not an orgy. He has not been asked to commit a sinful act.
Omrow
It seems I can now do the same to you. :twisted: :twisted:
Yeah i was watching Jin story and I swear I thought I saw Hurley on the TV. Not sure to be honest. Yeah everything is building up nicely, i seriously can not see where the storyline is heading. The little black kid and the unborn baby will have a big role to play in the show IMO.
If he getting you a copy, tell him to get me one as well. I probably will still buy the whole show when it finishes, but don't see the point of buying a series at a time.
"A true Muslim is thankful to Allah in prosperity, and resigned to His will in adversity."
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yuit, thanx for taking ur discussion here. btw u cant b serious, ur gonna waste money on buying an entire TV show?? :roll:
as Med wud say: ASTAGHFIRULLAH!!
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apparently the show has so many twists its unbelivebale....i really enjoyed hurley's story....its brought a whole new twist to the whole story! cant really talk about that much coz i dont wana spoil it for you!
who are your fave characters? i think mine so far has to be locke, sun, jack and kate!
who else watches Lost on ch4 other than me and yuit?
Why not, i enjoy it and it will keep me entertain for hours, plus it relatively cheap compared too all the Harry Potter books, video, cinema ticket and ofcourse as you a addict I sure you have the wall paper, mugs and the whole deal that come with it. But saying that I probably get my mate to download it from me from the internet.
"A true Muslim is thankful to Allah in prosperity, and resigned to His will in adversity."
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o-k. i think u guys hav misunderstood me somewhere along the line... so lemme just clarify: i do NOT hav an addiction to ANY Potter merchandise, i just read the books and watch the movies. in fact, lemme shock u:
i own just 2 of the books, ONE of which i bought myself! :shock:
and i watched TWO of the movies at home, off crap quality CDs!!! :shock:
so as u can c, i really dont invest anything other than a few hours once in a while on HP.
i just checked the price of the "Lost" DVD on Amazon and its [b]24[/b] quid!!! u have GOT to b kidding me!! u must b really bored if u need to BUY a serial to keep u occupied...
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but this is wot i was gonna post...
now u got me curious - u guys know eachother??
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