"Bad" Hijab Girl
Salaam to all
I unfortunately have been seeing some Muslim girls who wear the Hijab behaving rather un-Islamically. I sometimes see these girls at university and it is an issue which gets to me. I am by no means a perfect Muslim and I’m not coming on here to say this is what and what not you should do, but it saddens me to see someone disrespecting the Hijab in such a way.
This is something that the Holy Prophet(saw) fought for, the religion of Islam. It seems to me a shame but now I see girls wearing the hijab who hang around with groups of boys, wear lots of make up, wear very tight and revealing clothing such as jeans etc, these are all contradictory to what the hijab is about. By doing this are the girls rebelling or something?
I know that this is a minority group but it doesn’t send the right signals to non muslims or even muslims, do you agree? I was very shocked to see some girls wearing the hijab whilst also wearing revealing clothes. It just isn’t right. I mean if they are gonna do bad stuff then why wear the hijab? Put it this way, if I was to hang around with a group of girls, smoke, party etc etc I certainly wouldn’t have a beard and a Muslim hat on my head! So why do these girls do it? I must admit that I haven’t seen any guys who I just mentioned with a beard and hat doing stuff like free-mixing etc, but Im not gonna deny that it doesn’t happen.
So, have you people seen any examples of this “bad hijab girl”, what are your thoughts? How does it make you feel? What is the best way to solve this problem?
Please share your thoughts.
146 comments
Naz Wed, 11 Jul 2007 - 18:13
"Bad" Hijab Girl
heeeeey
i think the guys definitely gossip more than the girls without a doubt. :twisted:
Viper Wed, 11 Jul 2007 - 18:59
"Bad" Hijab Girl
Come on, we all know what old asian ladies are like, always talking about everyone else, same with girls, much more gossipy. I think it is generally known that woman backbite more than men too.
MuslimSister Wed, 11 Jul 2007 - 19:02
"Bad" Hijab Girl
Cos of the increase in feminisation of guys…backbiting, gossiping and chatting too much is becoming a problem amongst guys too.
I know many guys who’d rather hang around with girls than guys – only so that they’d get some gossip.
Seraphim Wed, 11 Jul 2007 - 19:15
"Bad" Hijab Girl
I wouldnt say that was the ONLY reason.... :twisted: you know what im saying... yeah you know.
MuslimSisLilSis Wed, 11 Jul 2007 - 22:18
"Bad" Hijab Girl
this guy i know frm uni once said to me
" listen i aint gay or anything but i love hearing girls talk about gossip"
:roll:
Seraphim Wed, 11 Jul 2007 - 22:26
"Bad" Hijab Girl
I think the first line says it all.
He's gayer than George Michael at an NSYNC concert.
Ya'qub Wed, 11 Jul 2007 - 22:48
"Bad" Hijab Girl
was that YOU i was talking to?
i hadn't realised we'd already met!! :oops:
MuslimSisLilSis Wed, 11 Jul 2007 - 22:51
"Bad" Hijab Girl
lol.
man i had in mine was an asian lad on my buisness course
i doubt thats u
Naz Wed, 11 Jul 2007 - 23:26
"Bad" Hijab Girl
lol give it a couple more years and you wont even be able to tell they are guys 😛
Ya'qub Thu, 12 Jul 2007 - 01:44
"Bad" Hijab Girl
men looking like women and women looking like men is one of the signs of the impending day of judgement, btw
Naz Mon, 16 Jul 2007 - 23:26
"Bad" Hijab Girl
I cant begin to understand why some girls take off their hijab whenever there is a special occasion, whether it be at birthday, eid, engagement, wedding, graduation etc. If it is just the women that are present then i can understand why some of the girls might want to take off the hijab, but at many of these occasions the men are also present.
Noor Mon, 16 Jul 2007 - 23:38
"Bad" Hijab Girl
They're called part-timers. They aint that serious about the hijab or they're slowly building themselves up to become full-timers.
Naz Mon, 16 Jul 2007 - 23:55
"Bad" Hijab Girl
Yeh true but some of these girls i dont think they really know deep down why they where it.
MADAME....ESS Thu, 19 Jul 2007 - 14:53
"Bad" Hijab Girl
whether some one wears a hijab or not, its not my business..its between them and Allah...who cares? we have better things to be thinking about......i have on many occassions met females who dont wear a hijab and have turned out to be nicer and know much more about islam than those who do....we live in a society where we can't judge people...
Ya'qub Thu, 19 Jul 2007 - 16:26
"Bad" Hijab Girl
Viper Thu, 19 Jul 2007 - 19:32
"Bad" Hijab Girl
I read the above in a newspaper today. It makes you wonder how many women have the bone deficencies, how much sunlight does a person need and where on the body does it have to hit? Face? Arms? Anywhere?
MuslimSister Thu, 19 Jul 2007 - 21:25
"Bad" Hijab Girl
Hijaab/Niqaabi’s being covered from head to toe in the few days where it is sunny in England, is a suddenly a health hazard now.
Britain isn’t exactly a hot country, so experiments regarding sunshine in Bradford isn’t really a strong study.
Plus, how easily available are vitamin tablets? You get every vitamin letter under the sun here.
And regarding exposure to the sun…shouldn’t skin cancer, due to overexposure to the sun, which has been steadily increasing over the years, be more of an issue?
This obsession with the Hijaab is incredibly lame.
MuslimBro Thu, 19 Jul 2007 - 23:56
"Bad" Hijab Girl
Sun exposure is the most important source of vitamin D because UV rays from the sun trigger vitamin D synthesis in the skin.
Naz Mon, 23 Jul 2007 - 10:37
"Bad" Hijab Girl
Their argument is flawed.
How can they say that Muslim women dont get enough victim D when we dont even get any sun in this country. :? All it ever does it rain, rain and rain some more.
yashmaki Mon, 23 Jul 2007 - 12:08
"Bad" Hijab Girl
we are getting mixed messages here. First we are advised to slap on the suncream and enjoy the sun. But recently i heard a scientist working for cancer research say we should actually cover up with fabrics like denim and polyester to protect our skin from the sun.
I think it's a load of rubbish that muslim women who wear hijabs/niqabs, jilbabs etc aren't getting enough vitamin D. The fact is most muslim women actually venture outdoors everyday, most don't wear niqabs, and even those who do wear niqabs actually don't wear it in the house or back garden as long as it is private. Even on a cloudy day there is enough sunlight to give us muslim women the exposure of vitamin D we require whether going out, or standing in the brightest room in the house. I know i'm not lacking in vitamin D coz i was tested for it and other stuff a few weeks back.
Also fabrics need to be a certain thickness to prevent sun exposure don't they. How many sisters are gona wear thick fabrics in the scorching summer months? They'd go for lighter fabrics so how;s it a problem?
Those muslim women who prob don't get enough are those who rarely venture outdoors, now that has nothing to do with muslim dress or religion perhaps backward cultural reasons, or just depression who knows?
what an excuse to disparage the entire concept of the hijab!
Viper Mon, 23 Jul 2007 - 20:50
"Bad" Hijab Girl
Hey, I agree with the above post.
Regarding the quote: don't you mean oppression? But I can see what you mean about depression if that is what you meant, if you're depressed u prob dont wanna leave ur house.
Gulz Mon, 23 Jul 2007 - 22:27
"Bad" Hijab Girl
Ive just read this post from start to finish and I take it bro got banned??? :roll:
With regards topic:
Ibn Masud reported the Messenger of Allah as saying: "A woman is an object of concealment for when she goes out the devil presents her in alluring looks before men."
There are three types of eyes whom hell fire will not touch - the eye which keeps itself shut from the things forbidden by Allah, the eye which guards the frontiers of Islam and remains open to keep vigil over it and the eye which constantly sheds tears out of Allah's fear.
Also for bro and anyone who may share his views:
Act kindly towards women, for they were created from a rib and the most crooked part of the rib is its top. If you attempt to straighten it you will break it, if you leave it alone it will remain crooked: so act kindly towards women.
Naz Wed, 25 Jul 2007 - 14:13
"Bad" Hijab Girl
I thought they just believed that in christinaity. I always thought in Islam that the first man and woman was created sepraltey.
Seraphim Wed, 25 Jul 2007 - 14:29
"Bad" Hijab Girl
Gulz is right... women were made from mans crooked rib.
Which is why they can never be straightened. 😃
Gulz Wed, 25 Jul 2007 - 20:34
"Bad" Hijab Girl
Er thanks seraphim... lol
UmarIbnAlKatb Sun, 5 Aug 2007 - 15:43
"Bad" Hijab Girl
Its unfortunate that amongst many bros you'll often hear 'hijabis are the worst'
Pagination
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