Single mums
Posted on Wednesday, 14th May 2008 @ 7:14pm
Salaams,just want to know if there are any single mums out there? Take the burden off ur heart here. Having trouble coping with kids? Do people look at you in a weird way? Or absolutley anything u like to share. Post it here
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19 August 2007
16 hours 1 min
Well, I'm a young bloke, so I can't be a single mum! But tell me your experience.
Let them belittle you, they win.
But keep your chin up, they fail.
11 May 2008
1 week 2 days
sallams,
I had such a bad experience and wish no1 goes thru this.
He used to beat me for no reason at all. Like a gud muslim wife i didnt tell any1 untill his brother stated sexually abusing me.
19 August 2007
16 hours 1 min
Mate, can I just say that if you stood up to him and told someone, it wouldn't have made you a bad Muslim. Those few lines have told me that you're a fairly tough person. Keep going, if that's alright with you.
Let them belittle you, they win.
But keep your chin up, they fail.
11 May 2008
1 week 2 days
I was a total wreck 1st but ive pulled thru it. The worst part of it was when i was 8 months pregnant wiv my 2nd child he said "i wish that baby dies in ur stomache"
19 August 2007
16 hours 1 min
There was this unverified guy who came here and told us lot how he sexually abused his brother's wife. He got a proper, let's just say, challenge from us. But he hasn't really come back.
Let them belittle you, they win.
But keep your chin up, they fail.
19 August 2007
16 hours 1 min
Can you relate to this?
Sexual Abuse- Taboo in the Muslim Community?
Let them belittle you, they win.
But keep your chin up, they fail.
31 March 2008
13 hours 27 min
i agree u shud hav done his bisti (in a polite manner) from the first day he laid his hands on u! how cum ur bro-in-law abused u? i mean wot the f*** did he want? u shud hav spoken out!! wot was holding u back?? u shud hav got advice from a pious person n explained to him what his role (as a husband) means and that ur not some kind of a pin cushion!!
"The greatest enemy of knowledge is not ignorance...
... it is the illusion of knowledge."
- Stephen Hawking
10 October 2005
1 day 4 hours
If you have never suffered from domestic violence its easy to say "well oh what was stopping you?" or "You should have left him sooner".
All we can do is make dua that may Allah(swt) give these women the courage and strength to stand up to these cowardly pathetic excuse for men.
No not the gum drop buttons! – Gingy
31 March 2008
13 hours 27 min
I believe that there r 2 types of ppl who wud say that:
1. those who havnt suffered (like u mentioned)
2. those who hav suffered but now hav the strength to stand up to anything!
but the purpose of me askin all those questions is cause i nvr get to find the underlying cause of the flippin crime! there may b more than 1 factor involved but still i think evry1 needs to c the whole picture!
"The greatest enemy of knowledge is not ignorance...
... it is the illusion of knowledge."
- Stephen Hawking
19 August 2007
16 hours 1 min
But wouldn't group 2 undestand that it isn't easy and encourage the victim to stand up?
Let them belittle you, they win.
But keep your chin up, they fail.
10 October 2005
1 day 4 hours
Women stay with their abusive partners for many reasons.Those reasons differ for each vctim. Every case should be judged on its own merit.
And you can never get the whole picture coz there are two sides to every story!
No not the gum drop buttons! – Gingy
19 August 2007
16 hours 1 min
But at the end of the day, we all have to learn to stand up for ourselves and each other, right?
Let them belittle you, they win.
But keep your chin up, they fail.
10 October 2005
1 day 4 hours
True but its easier said then done.
No not the gum drop buttons! – Gingy
24 June 2005
1 hour 47 min
Most things worth doing usually are.
Absence is to love What wind is to fire; It extinguishes the small, It enkindles the great.
19 August 2007
16 hours 1 min
Yeah I get that, but we have to help each other to do that, otherwise the real criminals in this would get away.
Hey Shaz you have vainished for a bit!
Let them belittle you, they win.
But keep your chin up, they fail.
11 May 2008
1 week 2 days
salaamz, im bak but not for long my sis is getting married so in realy busy. Thanks guys for us support keep posting inshallah be back soon
Huda Hafiz
11 May 2008
1 week 2 days
salaamz guys im back mashallah the wedding went well and guess who was there?
Yep the person im so glad to have left.
He was staring at me and i could see the regret in his eyes because iv lost 3 stones and i admit i look good gota go Allah Hafiz
14 January 2008
1 day 59 min
Posted too many times haha
The Holy Prophet
says
"There is a polish for everything that takes away rust; and the polish for the heart is the remembrance of Allah."
(Bukhari)
14 January 2008
1 day 59 min
HAHAHA
Well serves that Tramp ryt dont it?!
you probably would have looked stunning and i bet he regrets everything now
Blesss you.. i was just reading thru this thread and MAN you must be a strong person 2 get thru all of that.. =] nut im glad its all over wid and now u shud concerntate on looking after your children and stay strong!! Ameeen =]
The Holy Prophet
says
"There is a polish for everything that takes away rust; and the polish for the heart is the remembrance of Allah."
(Bukhari)
14 January 2008
1 day 59 min
and again - posted 2 many times haha
The Holy Prophet
says
"There is a polish for everything that takes away rust; and the polish for the heart is the remembrance of Allah."
(Bukhari)
lol. A lot of women when they have kids they lose their confidence good to hear you still got yours. Go girl!
11 May 2008
1 week 2 days
thanks Naz looking after my boys now.
well not today lol they have gone to stay with him for the weekend,and im at mums till sunday.
I just got my confidence back. My family are supporting me at every step Mashallah
salaam shaz!
how u doin?
well ypu have got your confidance back which is a good thing and yes you do deserve a lot more than that prik,mashallah you have to gawjus kids who i know you love loads.
it good to see you happy now not like before when you use to be upset , you were upset cus of some cheap,gay,perv bastard sory about the swearing just cant help it init wen hearing bwt sum1z name i reli get pissed of thinkin wa he did to yaz so hes desveredto be called a dog.
shaz am on ur side each and every step of the way and you knwo that hun. i dont wnat you to think about taht shytface cus hes nt worth it, your a million tymes netter dan him, you can do 1000 times better.
yh as for him im sure he saw you at ur sistas wedding he was staring at you thinking OMG!!! thinking what am i missing out tuff luck he cnt have u nw. you looked amazing gowan gyal.
all i can say to you hun is that im always ere 4 u if u ever need mi,and i dont want you to worry about anything im always here to support you
sorry about the swearing when talking or saying anyfing about him i really get angry so i end up cussing him.
love you loads
tke care
mwah
Annie