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IOK Ramadan: What Allah Says About Ramadan | Keys To The Divine Compass [Ep2]

13 March, 2024 - 16:10

This Ramadan, MuslimMatters is pleased to host the Institute Of Knowledge‘s daily Ramadan series: Keys to the Divine Compass. Through this series, each day we will spend time connecting with the Qur’an on a deeper, more spiritual, uplifting level.

Previous in the series: Juz 1

Juzʾ 2: What Allāh Says About Ramaḍān

Juzʾ 2 Contains: Sūrah Sūrah al-Baqarah (#2)

Sūrah Al-Baqarah (2):185

شَهۡرُ رَمَضَانَ ٱلَّذِیۤ أُنزِلَ فِیهِ ٱلۡقُرۡءَانُ هُدࣰى لِّلنَّاسِ وَبَیِّنَـٰتࣲ مِّنَ ٱلۡهُدَىٰ وَٱلۡفُرۡقَانِۚ فَمَن شَهِدَ مِنكُمُ ٱلشَّهۡرَ فَلۡیَصُمۡهُۖ وَمَن كَانَ مَرِیضًا أَوۡ عَلَىٰ سَفَرࣲ فَعِدَّةࣱ مِّنۡ أَیَّامٍ أُخَرَۗ یُرِیدُ ٱللَّهُ بِكُمُ ٱلۡیُسۡرَ وَلَا یُرِیدُ بِكُمُ ٱلۡعُسۡرَ وَلِتُكۡمِلُوا۟ ٱلۡعِدَّةَ وَلِتُكَبِّرُوا۟ ٱللَّهَ عَلَىٰ مَا هَدَىٰكُمۡ وَلَعَلَّكُمۡ تَشۡكُرُونَ ۝١٨٥

Ramaḍān is the month that The Qurʾān was revealed in. It has been sent down as a guidance for Humanity, with clear proofs, and as The Criterion. Whoever is present in this month must fast. If someone is sick or traveling, they can make it up at a later date. Allāh wants to make things easier for you and through you, and doesn’t want to make things hard for you or because of you. This is so that you can complete the month, Declare God’s Greatness because He’s guided you, and so you are grateful and thankful.

Ramaḍān is the 9th month of Hijrī calendar. It is called the Hijrī calendar because it is based on the Prophet ﷺ’s Hijrah (migration) from Makkah to Al-Madīnah 1445 years ago. Allāh tells us that He ﷻ sent the Qurʾān down, He revealed it within this very month of Ramaḍān. That makes this month very special. It is the month in which Allāh ﷻ’s final revelation, perfect divine words, The Divine Compass was sent down.

But it’s no ordinary text with an ordinary purpose. Allāh ﷻ highlights three key aspects of the Qurʾān here.

  1. Guidance of humanity “هُدࣰى لِّلنَّاسِ”
  2. Clear Guidance/Clear Proofs “بَیِّنَـٰتࣲ مِّنَ ٱلۡهُدَىٰ”
  3. The Criterion/Differentiation “ٱلۡفُرۡقَانِ”

Our last article/session was on our duʿāʾ, our prayer for Guidance in Sūrah Al-Fātiḥah. And in a sense, Allāh answers that duʿāʾ here (as well as in many other places). This Qurʾān is the guidance that you’re seeking and asking for “هُدࣰى لِّلنَّاسِ”. It will illuminate your journey on this earth. Provide clarity in your life. Help you understand your purpose. But guidance, or a tour guide, or any self-help guide can be confusing, inaccurate, or just plain bad. The Qurʾān is not that at all. It is guidance that is clear, that is well proven “بَیِّنَـٰتࣲ مِّنَ ٱلۡهُدَىٰ”. We do not need PhDs in Arabic to understand the Qurʾān. Although learning Arabic is undoubtedly an excellent means to getting a better grasp of the Qurʾān. And IOK has Full-Time and Part-Time programs to help everyone reach their Arabic goals. But the guidance is so clear, that, even a 10-year-old who only knows English can read a translation of the Qurʾān and conclude that:

  1. There is only one God worthy of worship
  2. That God, Allāh ﷻ, is the creator of all things
  3. He has sent Prophets and Books for our guidance
  4. He has prepared and promised rewards and punishments
  5. Those rewards and punishments will take place in the next life
  6. Rewards and Paradise are for those who obey, pray, give charity, have good character, help their families and neighbors
  7. Punishment and Hell are for those who reject the truth, lie, cheat, harm others, spread evil and corruption

And the third aspect mentioned is that the Qurʾān is the differentiator, Al-Furqān, which is also one of the names of the Qurʾān. It tells us clearly what is right and wrong. Humans are able to make decisions about what color they want to paint their house. But some things require knowledge that can only come from the Creator. Humans will argue to the death regarding topic x or y, and those important topics that Allāh knows we need to know, but cannot know on our own – He ﷻ gives us the answer. What is clearly moral and immoral. How we help others. The concept of marriage. And much more.

Allāh ﷻ proceeds to tell us that, if we find ourselves in the month of Ramaḍān, then we should fast. And before anyone can ask, He ﷻ kindly tells us that if we are sick or traveling, we can not fast and make them up at a later date. He ﷻ did that to make things easy for us, and not to overburden us. What a caring Lord and Master!

He ﷻ ends by saying He did that so that we can complete the set days – the 29 or 30 days of the lunar/hijrī month of Ramaḍān. And that we declare His greatness and supremacy because He guided us. And we do exactly that right after Ramaḍān. Before the Eid (ʿĪd) Ṣalāh, we say: اَللهُ أَكْبَرُ اَللهُ أَكْبَرُ اَللهُ أَكْبَرُ لَا إِلٰهَ إِلَّا  اللهُ وَاَللهُ أَكْبَرُ اَللهُ أَكْبَرُ وَلِلَّهِ الْحَمْدُ —  Allāhu Akbar, Allāhu Akbar, Allāhu Akbar, lā ilāha illā Allāh, Allāhu Akbar, Allāhu Akbar, wa li-llāh al-Ḥamd. God is Greater, God is Greater, God is Greater. There is no God except Allāh. God is Greater, God is Greater. The most perfect and complete praise and thanks belongs solely to God. And the last thing Allāh ﷻ mentions in this āyah (verse) is, “so that you are grateful”. The point of Ramaḍān, the goal of your recitation, understanding, and living by the Qurʾān should make us more grateful. More grateful to Allāh ﷻ and humanity at large.

May Allāh ﷻ allow us to truly benefit from the Qurʾān, and to truly become more grateful.

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A Ramadan Quran Journal: A MuslimMatters Series – [Juz 1] Reflections On The Opening Chapter

13 March, 2024 - 01:14

This Ramadan, MuslimMatters reached out to our regular (and not-so-regular) crew of writers asking them to share their reflections on various ayahs/surahs of the Quran, ideally with a focus on a specific juz – those that may have impacted them in some specific way or have influenced how they approach both life and deen. While some contributors are well-versed in at least part of the Quranic Sciences, not all necessarily are, but reflect on their choices as a way of illustrating that our Holy Book is approachable from various human perspectives.

Introducing, A Ramadan Quran Journal: A MuslimMatters Series

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Reflections on the Opening Chapter 

by Dawud Omar 

 

In the Name of God—ar-Raḥmān, ar-Raḥīm1

This semester, I was given the opportunity to teach a course on Islamic philosophy. Before teaching the course, I wanted to give my students—some of whom were Muslims, some of whom were people of other faiths or no faith—an idea of what Islam is. The question ‘What is Islam’ is an interesting one, especially since it has been a point of contention in academic circles. For me, I decided one of the best ways to explain Islam was to defer to the Qurʾān. For Muslims, we believe the Qurʾān is the inerrant Word of God and the last and final revelation for all of mankind. Hence, I believe it best encapsulates the essence of Islam, and by extension Islamic philosophy. 

Obviously, the entire Qurʾān would be too great a task for an introduction, and so I decided to simply go over Surah al-Fātiḥah—the opening chapter of the Qurʾān. This is the first chapter of the Qurʾān, and according to many scholars, among the first chapters of the Qurʾān to be revealed. This chapter, although short (it only consists of seven verses), is quite significant since Muslims are required to recite it at least seventeen times a day throughout their daily prayers. According to some scholars, the opening chapter is essentially a summary of the entire Qurʾān which is why it is referred to as the ‘Mother of the Qurʾān.’ Each verse in the opening chapter represents a major theme in the Qurʾān. Hence, this chapter can serve as a great starting point and a powerful exposition to help elucidate the essence of the Qurʾān, or in other words, the Qurʾānic philosophy. 

In this article, I will share some of the reflections covered in my course in hopes that it will inspire us—Muslims and even non-Muslims alike—to further explore the Qurʾān. The Qurʾān is an infinite source of wisdom as God says: “If all the trees on the earth were pens and all the seas, with seven more seas besides [were ink], still the Words of God would not be exhausted. Indeed God is Almighty, All Wise.” Hence, the enormous depth of the Qurʾān demands that we give2 much attention to every verse and contemplate its meaning. This is not something we should read casually, but rather conscientiously. For the Qurʾān demands contemplation. It demands reflection. As God says, “Do they not reflect on the Qurʾān? Or are there locks upon their hearts?”3 What you will read here is simply the result of my poorest attempts to reflect upon the 3 meanings of the Qurʾān, with the crucial disclaimer that I am not an expert and so I defer to the religious scholars. 

Praise Be To God, Lord Of All Worlds, 

This is the opening verse which sets the tone for the rest of the Qurʾān. This verse beautifully encapsulates the Qurʾānic worldview and captures one of its main points. 

The first part of this verse expresses absolute gratitude. This attitude of gratitude depicts the normative state of a Muslim. A Muslim is essentially defined as a person who is grateful. No matter what it is we are going through, our constant state of mind is that we are always grateful to God. Suppose I am having a difficult time at work, struggling with my classes, fighting with my family, or stricken with a terrible illness. The Qurʾānic mindset of gratitude automatically transforms those problems into blessings. It allows me to appreciate the fact that I at least have a job when so many people are unemployed, that I am able to take classes when so many lack the opportunity to do so, and that I still have my family when so many have lost people that they love and that even with my illness, I appreciate how things could have easily been worse. The fact is, no matter what, there are always so many reasons to be grateful. In fact, “If you tried to count God’s blessings, you would never be able to enumerate them.”4

This first part of the verse suggests a very important lesson, which is that gratitude is not based on having abundance. But rather based on recognizing the abundance that God has already given you.

Here the Qurʾān begins by giving us the proper perspective. Even if we are having an especially difficult time finding something to be grateful for, we can at least be grateful that God is Lord of All Worlds. 

To say God is Lord of All Worlds basically means that He is the Master of All Worlds. We could also say that He is the Owner, Maintainer, Caregiver, or Nurturer. This is something to be grateful for since it allows us to let go of things we have no control over. Sometimes we tend to worry about our future or stress over things that are beyond our control. This verse highlights the futility of worrying about those things and reassures us that God is in full control of our affairs. Everything, no matter how big or small or seemingly insignificant, is determined by God. “He has power over all things.”5

To say God is Lord does not mean that He is merely the Lord of a particular elite group, but rather, the Lord of all peoples, nations, communities, and all things in existence. This includes all realities and even all possible worlds. In other words, there does not exist a possible world where God is not the Lord and Master of all things. God is the Lord and Master of even fictitious worlds. This is because nothing can exist, even in imagination, without God the Most Glorified, the Most High. 

To say God is the Master of all implies that we are all His slaves and that we belong to Him. This is the relationship between God and human beings and is one of the most important themes of the entire Qurʾān. However, due to the problematic connotations associated with the notion of slavery, I would describe the relationship to be more like that between a pregnant mother and her child (and to God belongs the best example). When a child is in the womb of its mother it is completely nurtured, maintained, and sustained by the mother. Its entire world exists inside of the mother’s womb. It is weak, helpless, and completely dependent on its mother. This analogy  best describes our dependence on God and how He sustains and provides for us. This point is also supported by the next verse. 

Ar-Raḥmān, Ar-Raḥīm,  Quran journal - surah fatiha

Surah Fatiha (PC: MD Shairaf [unsplash])

Throughout the entire Qurʾān, God conveys to us His many names and attributes. “He is God, other than Whom there is no god, the Sovereign, the Holy, Peace, the Faithful, the Protector, the Mighty, the Compeller, the Proud… He is God, the Creator, the Maker, the Fashioner. He is the Mighty, the Wise.”6 Even in the Judeo-Christian tradition, He is similarly referred to as the Omnipotent, Omniscient, Omnibenevolent, the First, the Last, and so on. These are among the many names and attributes of God. 

However, what’s most peculiar about Ar-Raḥmān, Ar-Raḥīm is that among all of the other names God has, these are the names He chooses to introduce Himself to us. Moreover, God does not only introduce these names but reinforces them with emphasis. If we take the basmalah7 as the first verse of this chapter, we can see that the names are repeated for greater emphasis. Even if we do not take the basmalah as the first verse, we can still see that this verse emphasizes His name simply by isolating them. This verse is exclusively devoted to the expression of these particular names. 

This is all to say that it is worth pondering on what these names mean. For those who may not know, it would be interesting to hear what you would guess. What name or attribute comes to mind when you think about God? For those who already have an idea of the meaning may translate these names to ‘Most Gracious, Most Merciful.’ 

This is understandable since the names are a derivative of the Arabic word for mercy. However, Ar-Raḥmān, Ar-Raḥīm also contains huge elements of love and compassion. You could try to translate the names to mean loving or compassionate, but the names also contain huge elements of mercy that may be devoid of the notion of compassion. This is one of the reasons why, whenever discussing this verse, as opposed to simply translating these names, it may be better to provide an explanation. 

Master Of The Day Of Judgment. 

Given the benevolence of the last verse, the following question may arise: if it is the case that God is Most Merciful, Most Compassionate, so much so that He chose to emphasize those particular names among all others, then why is there so much evil in the world? Why does God allow so much pain and suffering to be inflicted, particularly on those who acknowledge and accept God? 

This is one of the most well-known philosophical questions of all time and is referred to as the problem of evil. Interestingly, this verse can be understood as a direct response to the problem. 

The problem of evil seems to hold two false assumptions that are absent from the Qurʾān. First, it holds that this life is either all that there is or it is of utmost value. Whereas in reality, this life is worth little to nothing. It is insignificant and ultimately ephemeral. The Qurʾān holds that after we die we will be resurrected in the afterlife. The afterlife is eternal, everlasting, and ultimately real. “The worldly life is nothing but an illusionary enjoyment.”8

This raises a very important point about the purpose of life. In the Qurʾān, God says, it is He “who created death and life in order to test which of you is best in deeds.”9 Hence, the purpose of this life is to test us on our moral actions. Interestingly, contrary to how we would usually say ‘life and death,’ God mentions death before life. Some scholars believe this is meant to signify the fact that our real lives begin only after death. God says, “Did you think that We created you without purpose, and that you would not be brought back to Us?”10

The problem of evil also falsely assumes an ultimate reality without absolute justice. However, this assumption is contradicted by this verse. The ultimate reality is the afterlife, and there we will find absolute justice. This verse represents a fundamental aspect of the Qurʾān and the Islamic faith, which is the Day of Judgment. The Day of Judgment represents a period of time, well after death, where all human beings will be resurrected and forced to take responsibility for the things they have done and how they lived their lives. 

God is Master of the Day of Judgment, meaning He will be in full control and will hold everyone accountable. Those who did good, or were victims of oppression, will be compensated. Those who committed injustice, or were themselves the oppressors, will be punished severely. The final destination for those who were good in this life will be eternal Paradise, whereas those who were evil will be the Hellfire. 

The justice of this world is inferior. So many people throughout history have faced injustices. People either face injustice on a small scale (i.e. being victims of abuse) or a large scale (i.e. being victims of genocide). The sad reality about this world is that those who commit injustice can get away with it. However, on the Day of Judgment, no one will be able to escape. “On that Day every person will flee from their own siblings, and [even] their mother and father, and [even] their spouse and children. For then everyone will have enough concern of their own.”11 This Day will be a period of real accountability. This Day will be a period of perfect and absolute justice. 

You (alone) We Worship And You (alone) We Ask For Help. 

After acknowledging the ultimate reality of God, that He is Lord of All Worlds, Most Merciful, and Master of the Day of Resurrection, we turn to Him with utmost humility, in full submission. This is the very essence of Islam. Islam is peace acquired through submission to God alone. 

As mentioned previously, God has absolute control over everything. “You cannot will [to do so] unless God wills.”12 Yet, simultaneously God bestows on us the incredible gift of free will. A Muslim is essentially defined as one who freely chooses to submit his will to God. It is only by submitting our will to God alone that we become truly free. Whether we want to accept it or not, “everyone in the heavens and the earth submits to Him, willingly or unwillingly.”13 It’s inescapable. By submitting our will, we liberate ourselves from all the restraints of this world. There are many things in this world that inescapably preoccupy our thoughts and determine our actions. However, submitting our will to God means putting God at the center. It is to say that our life is not determined by our career, our desire for power, our fear of death, and so on. Rather, it is to say that our life is determined by God alone. It is making God the ultimate end of our desires and our actions. It is to say “surely my prayer, my sacrifice, my life, and my death are all for God, Lord of all Worlds.”14

This form of enslavement is unique and unlike any other form of enslavement. When you enslave yourself to other things you are confined to those things. However, when you enslave yourself to God, you are confined to God—the Master of all Worlds, thus making you unconfined to anything. Unlike all other forms of enslavement which are to the benefit of the master, enslaving ourselves to God is purely to the benefit of ourselves. 

This is the point of human existence. The Quran makes it emphatically clear that our ultimate existential purpose is to worship God. For God says, “I did not create jinn and humans except to worship me.”15 By worshiping God, we are fulfilling our ultimate purpose. 

Notice this verse shifts from describing God to addressing God in the second person, thus departing from the previous verses. This reflects our coming into communication with God. One of the ways Muslims worship God is through the performance of five daily prayers. This allows Muslims to be conscious of God throughout the day. To also connect with God and come close to God. It is one of the greatest forms of worship. 

Beyond our daily prayers, Muslims may also supplicate to God. Supplication to others may be a sign of weakness, but supplication to God is a profound act of worship. In the Qurʾān, God tells Prophet Muhammad ṣallallāhu 'alayhi wa sallam (peace and blessings of Allāh be upon him) When My servants ask you about Me: I am truly near. I respond to one’s prayer when they call upon Me. So let them respond to Me [with obedience] and believe in Me, so that they may be [rightly] guided.”16 This also highlights the unique Master/slave relationship where God (the Master) presents Himself to His slave and attends to the needs of His slaves. 

Guide Us Upon The Straight Path, 

This is one of the most philosophically intriguing verses in the entire chapter. 

Quran - right pathOne way to think about its significance would be to think about what you would wish for if you could only have one wish. Would it be all the money in the world? Well, why wish for money when you could have all the power? Of course, money and power are things that pertain to the pleasures of this life. What about the pleasures of the afterlife? Perhaps the greatest thing we could ask for is Paradise. But then I am reminded of Rabia al-Basri’s poem where she says, “If I adore You out of fear of Hell, burn me in Hell! If I adore you out of desire for Paradise, lock me out of Paradise. But if I adore you for Yourself alone, do not deny to me Your eternal beauty.” Why would anyone want to be that filthy person who found their way into paradise, when they could be pure and worthy of paradise? Hence, perhaps the best wish we could ever wish for is to be good. 

But what makes a person good? We may say something like always doing the right thing. But how can you do the right thing if you do not know what is right? So we may say a good person knows what is good and acts upon it by doing the right thing. This is reasonable and is consistent with the Quran, where God praises “those who believe and do good deeds—they are the best of [all] beings.”17 But how can you know what is good? This leads us to a broader epistemological question: how can you know anything? 

You may say that your reason guides you towards what is good. However, isn’t it true that human reason often leads people to draw various erroneous conclusions? Similarly, one might cite scripture as a source of guidance. Yet, it seems scripture can also be misinterpreted or manipulated to justify corrupt agendas. The scariest thing about being wrong is navigating this world under the assumption that you are right. And yet, the greatest irony is how we acknowledge this, but still believe we are right. Hence, the best thing a person could ever ask for is guidance. 

But hold on a second, I thought Islam was supposed to be the true religion. I thought Muslims were already on the right path. Why would Muslims need to ask God for guidance? This is because, without God, there is no way for us to access truth, let alone remain upon it. “And whoever God leaves astray – for him there is no guide and whoever God guides, none can lead astray.” 18 This verse is the purest expression of epistemic humility, recognizing and admitting our complete dependence on God’s guidance. Whether we realize it or not, we are susceptible to all sorts of cognitive biases and logical fallacies. God’s guidance is our only means of attaining true knowledge, discerning information accurately, or acting appropriately. Even one of the greatest philosophers in the West recognized “[t]he truth is… that God only is wise; and by his answer, he intends to show that the wisdom of men is worth little or nothing.” 

The Path Of Those You Have Blessed, 

This verse helps to introduce one of the most fundamental aspects of the Islamic faith and a major recurring theme in the Qurʾān: Prophethood. 

The Quran teaches us that God did not leave people to try and figure things out for themselves without any assistance. God says, “And We would never punish [a people] until We have sent a Messenger.”19 In the Qurʾān, God mentions how He has sent down guidance in the form of divine scriptures, with messengers to explain and clarify the message. 

The Prophets and Messengers in Islam serve as the leading examples of how to properly worship God. They serve as moral exemplars and are mentioned explicitly in the Qurʾān: “And We blessed him [i.e. Abraham] Isaac and Jacob. We guided them all as We previously guided Noah and those among his descendants: David, Solomon, Job, Joseph, Moses, and Aaron. This is how We reward the doers of good. Likewise, [We guided] Zachariah, John, Jesus, and Elias, who were all of the righteous. [We also guided] Ishmael, Elisha, Jonah, and Lot. We favored each one of them over other people, and also some of their forefathers, their descendants, and their brothers. We chose them and guided them to the Straight Path.”20 All Prophets and Messengers in Islam are recognized as being among the most righteous people to ever walk the earth. 

The most righteous of all is Prophet Muhammad ṣallallāhu 'alayhi wa sallam (peace and blessings of Allāh be upon him). He is considered “the Messenger of God and the seal [i.e. last] of the prophets.”21 He is the best example for all human beings to emulate and as God says “of a great moral character.”22 When his wife, Aisha raḍyAllāhu 'anha (may Allāh be pleased with her), was asked about his character she said he was the Qurʾān. In other words, he was the best embodiment of the Qurʾān. Thus, any Muslim who seeks God and loves to be closer to Him will follow Prophet Muhammad ṣallallāhu 'alayhi wa sallam (peace and blessings of Allāh be upon him). This is not simply a recommendation but a requirement: “O you who believe, obey God and obey the Messenger, and those in authority among you. And if you disagree over anything, refer it to God and the Messenger, if you should believe in God and the Last Day. That is the best and fairest resolution.”23

One final thing to note about those whom God has blessed. This group includes many of whom are mentioned in the Qurʾān and many of whom are not. God tells us, “We already sent Messengers before you. We have told you the stories of some of them, while others We have not.” This is one of the great mysteries of our religion. Although we may not know definitively who these Prophets and messengers were, we can find examples of figures in history who stood out in their communities by calling for monotheism. God says “We surely sent a messenger to every community, saying, ‘Worship God and avoid false gods.’” This is significant as it illustrates the mercy and universality of the Islamic message. 

Not Of Those Who Incur Wrath, Nor Of Those Who Are Astray. 

This verse is incredibly powerful and perhaps the most unsettling. It is a verse of condemnation and rejection. Contrary to some popular versions of religious pluralism which holds that all paths 

are equally valid, this verse directs us to the fact that there are possible wrong paths. Interestingly, this verse combined with the previous verse suggests that there are more wrong paths than there are right paths. 

The Qurʾān warns us about falling into two broad groups: those who incur wrath and those who are astray. According to some scholars, an example of the former is found in the Jews and an example of the latter is found in the Christians. This is consistent with the entire Qurʾān since it addresses the People of the Book (Christians and Jews) and clarifies where they deviated from the Straight Path. The main contention against the Jews is that although they possessed knowledge of the truth, they failed to act appropriately. The main contention against the Christians is that they excelled in sincere actions but lacked knowledge. Hence, these two paths may represent two extremes: knowledge devoid of action and action devoid of knowledge. 

These two paths may also represent two spiritual diseases that hinder a person from accepting God: arrogance and ignorance. Some examples, in the Qurʾān, of those who were arrogant include Satan (the Devil) and the Pharaoh. Their arrogance blinded them from accepting the truth, even though they knew it, and ultimately led them to reject God. Some examples of ignorance include those who speak about God without knowledge. Some scholars say this is among the greatest sins since it may lead a person to commit a lie about God. This not only allows a person to deviate from the Straight Path, but it allows him to misguide others. What is most unsettling about this verse is that it is unspecified, and unlike the prior verse which referred to people in the past tense, this refers to people in the present tense. Hence, this verse warns us that any one of us could be at risk of becoming among those who deviate. May God protect us. 

The last point to understand about Islam, which is articulated in the Qurʾān and beautifully illustrated in the structure of this entire chapter, is that Islam is a religion of balance. Some philosophers hold that virtue is the middle between two extremes. Islam is that middle path. It is the right balance between knowledge and action, the heart and the mind, the body and the soul, strength and kindness, faith and skepticism, fear and hope, concern with this life, and concern with the afterlife. This balance is demonstrated through the chapter’s composition itself. It begins by providing knowledge about God and then ends with us taking action. Although knowledge comes before action, action is followed up immediately. 

In the end, I hope this reflection was in some way beneficial. For more information, I have provided a few references below. These were all sources that I used for this reflection. I pray that God allows us to reap the benefits of this Ramadan. I pray that God allows us to build a deeper relationship with the Quran. I also pray that God increases us in taqwā (reverence) and imān (i.e. faith). Anything good that was mentioned here is from God, and anything bad or incorrect is due to my shortcomings and the Devil. 

 

References: 

 – Abdel Haleem, M. A. S., trans. The Qurʾan: A New Translation. Oxford University Press, 2008. Baghawi, Tabari, The Spiritual Cure. Al-Hidaayah Publishing, 2006. 

 – Gülen, M. Fethullah, The Opening Al-Fatiha: Commentary on The First Chapter of the Qur’an. Tughra Books, 1997. 

 – Khan, Nouman Ali, Randhawa, Sharif, Divine Speech: Exploring the Quran as Literature. Bayyinah Publications, 2016. 

 – Khattab, Mustafa, trans. The Clear Qurʾan: A Thematic English Translation of the Message of the Final Revelation. Book of Signs Foundation, Lombard, IL, 2016. 

 – Nasr, Seyyed Hossein, Caner Dagli, Maria Massi Dakake, Joseph E.B. Lumbard, and Mohammed Rustom, eds. The Study Quran: A New Translation and Commentary. HaperOne, 2017. 

 – Nefeily, Salah Ed-Din A., Highlights on The Meaning of Al-Fatiha: the Opening Chapter of the Muslim’ Glorious Book, Al-Qur’an. Dar An-Nashr Liljami’at, Egypt, 2005. 

 – Qutb, Sayyid. translated by Adil Salahi and A. Shamis. In the Shade of the Qur’an: Fi Zilal al Qur’an. Islamic Foundation, 2015. 

 – Razi, Fakir al-Din, translated by Sohaib Saeed, The Great Exegesis: Al-Tafsir al-Kabir: The Fatiha. The Royal Aal al-Bayt Institute for Islamic Thought & The Islamic Texts Society, 2018. 

 – Saheeh International, trans. The Qur’an: English Meanings. Al-Muntada Al-Islami, 2004. 

 – Suleiman, Omar and Kamdar, Ismail. Qur’an 30 for 30: Thematic Tafsir: Based on Seasons 1-4. Yaqeen Institute for Islamic Research, 2024.

 

Related:

Conversing with Allah: Reflecting On Surah al-Fatihah For Khushoo In Salah

Structural Cohesion In The Quran [A Series]: Surah Al Fatihah

 

 

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This statement is referred to as the Basmala. Scholars differ as to whether the Basmala is the first verse of Surah al-Fātiḥah. However, because I want to keep my discussion brief, I have decided not to include it in my reflections. I mention it here since it is part of Islamic etiquettes to always begin our actions by mentioning the Name of God.2    Qurʾān 31:27 3    Qurʾān 47:24 4    Qurʾān 16:18 5     Qurʾān 67:1 6    Qurʾān 59:24 7    In the Name of God—ar-Raḥmān, ar-Raḥīm 8    Qurʾān 3:1859    Qurʾān 67:210    Qurʾān 23:115 11    Qurʾān 34:34-37 12    Qurʾān 76:30 13    Qurʾān 3:83 14    Qurʾān 6:16215    Qurʾān 51:5616    Qurʾān 2:18617    Qurʾān 98:7 18    Qurʾān 39:36-37 19    Qurʾān 17:15 20    Qurʾān 6:84-87 21    Qurʾān 33:4022    Qurʾān 68:423     Qurʾān 4:59

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IOK Ramadan: Asking for Guidance | Keys to the Divine Compass [Ep1]

12 March, 2024 - 16:10

 

This Ramadan, MuslimMatters is pleased to host the Institute Of Knowledge‘s daily Ramadan series: Keys to the Divine Compass. Through this series, each day we will spend time connecting with the Qur’an on a deeper, more spiritual, uplifting level.

Juzʾ 1 Contains: Sūrah al-Fātiḥah – Sūrah al-Baqarah (#1-2)

Sūrah Al-Fātiḥah (1)

ٱهۡدِنَا ٱلصِّرَ ٰ⁠طَ ٱلۡمُسۡتَقِیمَ

صِرَ ٰ⁠طَ ٱلَّذِینَ أَنۡعَمۡتَ عَلَیۡهِمۡ

غَیۡرِ ٱلۡمَغۡضُوبِ عَلَیۡهِمۡ وَلَا ٱلضَّاۤلِّینَ

Guide us to, on, through, and until the very end of the straight correct path: the path of those You have favored and blessed, not the path of the ones who are the receipts of anger nor the ones lost.

Our Lord and Master, Allāh ﷻ teaches us this duʿāʾ. In this Divine Compass, He ﷻ taught us exactly what to ask or and how to ask for it. He ﷻ taught us the importance of guidance by telling us to ask for it.

Guidance is crucial. It is how we navigate through life and new places. If I visit a new country, I need a tour guide to benefit from the new country. I need someone to make recommendations: best spots to visit, best spots to eat, places to avoid, prices to avoid. That will allow me to survive, but also to be successful. Guidance from Allāh is exactly that. It allows us to survive this life, navigate this life, find purpose and reason in this life. And it allows us to be successful in this life as we work for the Hereafter.

Next is the beautiful wording. Allāh teaches us to say, “ٱهۡدِنَا ٱلصِّرَ ٰ⁠طَ ٱلۡمُسۡتَقِیمَ” – if we translate that in the most literal sense without connotation, that would mean, “guide us the straight path” since there is no preposition (to, towards). What that means in Arabic, is essentially, full service guidance. We ask Allāh ﷻ to:

  1. Tell us where the path is
  2. Where it leads us to
  3. How do we get to the path
  4. Describe the path for us
  5. Tell us about the ups and downs of the path, obstacles, challenges
  6. What we need on the path
  7. Help us get to the path
  8. Help us traverse the path
  9. Help us reach the final destination
  10. Continuously keep us on the path
  11. Save us from accidentally (or purposely) getting lost or veering off the path
  12. And everything else that is needed for me to go from where I am right now until the very end (which is His Pleasure and Jannah)

Then He ﷻ tells us about the path. It is “ٱلصِّرَ ٰ⁠طَ ٱلۡمُسۡتَقِیمَ – the straight correct path”. Between point a and point b, a straight line is the fastest, shortest, and simplest route. No curves, no crookedness, no bends, no turns. It’s a straight shot. It is the optimal route. The Divine Compass already chose the best path for us. The path is nothing other than Islam, The Truth, The Religion taught by the Prophet Muḥammad ﷺ.

But not only that, Allāh ﷻ teaches us that we are believers together. That is why we asked, “guide US” and not just “guide ME”. That is further exemplified by us ask specifying that we want to be on the same exact path of those who came before, and were blessed by Allāh ﷻ. We say, “صِرَ ٰ⁠طَ ٱلَّذِینَ أَنۡعَمۡتَ عَلَیۡهِمۡ – the path of those whom You have blessed” because we want to be in the same camp, the same group as those whom we know lived and died on the truth: the prophets, their followers, the martyrs, and the righteous (see Sūrah Al-Nisāʾ #69). They have already traversed this life with guidance and were successful. They are our role models. They did two things: (a) accepted the guidance, and (b) lived according to the guidance. When they were handed a divine compass, they recognized that it was from the divine, and followed it.

There are two other types of people who failed to do one or both of those two things; we do not want to follow their path. First, the recipients of anger “ٱلۡمَغۡضُوبِ عَلَیۡهِمۡ”. They accepted the truth, they had the divine compass, but they chose to ignore it. That is why The Giver of guidance (Allāh ﷻ) is angry with them. Second, those who are lost “ٱلضَّاۤلِّینَ”. They never accepted the truth, they never chose to acknowledge guidance, and they ignored the compass given to them. Since they never had the first step of accepting guidance, they obviously never followed it. So they are lost, roaming aimlessly without a compass. Allāh knows who are the best and who are the worst. And He ﷻ taught us, from His Infinite Knowledge and Wisdom, to ask to not be on the same path as these two groups, but rather to be on the path of the successful ones whom Allāh ﷻ has blessed.

May Allāh answer this prayer of ours that we make abundantly every day. Never let Sūrah Al-Fātiḥah become mundane.

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Self-Evaluation In Light Of Faith: Overcoming Obstacles To Accountability And Planning

12 March, 2024 - 04:10

Every year, as we approach the end or the beginning of a new year, individuals reflect on the past and set resolutions for the future. In this article, I will explain the concepts of accountability from an Islamic perspective.

In the corporate world, companies conduct employee performance evaluations, providing feedback on the previous year’s performance and setting goals for improvement in the next. Employees have the opportunity to rectify mistakes and enhance their performance.

As Muslims and people of faith, our performance and goals should be connected to our belief in Allah subḥānahu wa ta'āla (glorified and exalted be He) and the afterlife. Our belief asserts that we will be held accountable based on our actions in this worldly life (dunya). The difference lies in the specificity of indicators for self-evaluation in this life, grounded in our belief in One God, Allah subḥānahu wa ta'āla (glorified and exalted be He), our Creator, and the Creator of the Heavens and the Earth. Our self-evaluation and planning are based on two beliefs.

First, our resurrection after death is inevitable. Allah subḥānahu wa ta'āla (glorified and exalted be He), in the Quran, emphasizes the inevitability of our return to Him, where our deeds will be weighed and accounted for:

“Indeed, to Us is their return. Then upon Us is their account.” [Surah Al-Ghashiyah: 85; 25-26]

On that Day, we will be presented with our individual books of records, and we will be held accountable based on our actions. As Allah subḥānahu wa ta'āla (glorified and exalted be He) said in the Quran,

“Read your book of records. You are a sufficient auditor for yourself this Day.” [Surah Al-Isra: 17; 14]

Second, there is no second chance to come back to this world to make up for mistakes. At that time, there is no next year, no chance of going back and saying, “Please give me another chance.” Allah subḥānahu wa ta'āla (glorified and exalted be He) described and told us what some people are going to say:

“[For such is the state of the disbelievers], until, when death comes to one of them, he says, “My Lord, send me back,”

“That I might do righteousness in that which I left behind.” No! It is only a word he is saying; and behind them is a barrier until the Day they are resurrected.” [Surah al-Muminun: 23; 99-100]

“And, [O Muhammad], warn the people of a Day when the punishment will come to them and those who did wrong will say, “Our Lord, delay us for a short term; we will answer Your call and follow the messengers.” [But it will be said], “Had you not sworn, before, that for you there would be no cessation?” [Surah Ibrahim: 14;44]

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That’s why it is essential for us to engage in profound self-evaluation from the lens of our faith. Self-evaluation and accountability remind us to focus on our goals and use our time meaningfully.

Following the principle of self-accountability, Omar ibn Alkhattaab raḍyAllāhu 'anhu (may Allāh be pleased with him), the companion of the Prophet ṣallallāhu 'alayhi wa sallam (peace and blessings of Allāh be upon him), advised us:

“Hold yourself accountable before you are held accountable and weigh your deeds before they are weighed for you.” [Muḥāsabat al-Nafs 2]

The point here, since there will be no other chance, then it behooves us to hold ourselves accountable before it is too late. In companies, they do an ‘internal audit’ before they get surprised by an external audit. It is crucial for us to engage in profound self-evaluation in this world before facing the hereafter audit. Look back to your life and say if I die tomorrow, am I ready to meet Allah subḥānahu wa ta'āla (glorified and exalted be He)?

We need to always remember that day. Allah subḥānahu wa ta'āla (glorified and exalted be He) in the Quran described to us one of the scenes of the Day of Judgment:

“And the record [of deeds] will be placed [open], and you will see the criminals fearful of that within it, and they will say, ‘Oh, woe to us! What is this book that leaves nothing small or great except that it has enumerated it?’ And they will find what they did present [before them]. And your Lord does injustice to no one.” [Surah Al-Kahf: 18;49]

What Prevents Us from Holding Ourselves Accountable?

In contemporary society, there is an inclination to avoid accountability. This is reflected in three prevalent mentalities: the Ego & Pride mentality, the Right & Entitlement mentality, and the Victim mentality. It is very hard for people with these kinds of mentality to say “Oh our Lord, we wronged ourselves. Please forgive us.”  Let’s examine those three mentalities.

  • The Ego & Pride mentality:

The Ego & Pride mentality is marked by individuals who never admit to being wrong, and avoid taking responsibility for their actions. They place themselves above others, resist repentance (tawba), and refuse to turn back to Allah subḥānahu wa ta'āla (glorified and exalted be He). This attitude is a major obstacle to accepting the truth, as seen in the rejection of guidance from messengers of Allah subḥānahu wa ta'āla (glorified and exalted be He). The Quranic examples of Pharaoh and his supporters illustrate the consequences of such arrogance.

And he and his hosts were arrogant in the land, without right, and they thought that they would never return to Us.” [Surah Al-Qasas: 28;39]

Similar to them are the people of ‘Aad:

“As for ‘Aad, they were arrogant upon the earth without right and said, “Who is greater than us in strength?” Did they not consider that Allah who created them is greater than them in strength? But they were rejecting Our signs.” [Surah Fussilat: 41;15]

People with ego and pride find it challenging to acknowledge their mistakes and be accountable. Islam emphasizes humility to enable self-reflection, acknowledgment of errors, and sincere repentance. The contrast between humility and the Ego & Pride mentality underscores the importance of adopting a humble approach in Islam.

  • The Right & Entitlement mentality: 
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The mentality of Right & Entitlement places a strong emphasis on personal rights, often without giving due consideration to corresponding responsibilities. This mindset tends to foster a sense of entitlement, concentrating on individual rights while neglecting the importance of balancing them with responsibilities. In this article, I’m giving more focus on this mentality since it is something that is prevailing.

Individuals subscribing to this mentality often articulate phrases such as “I deserve it,” embodying what is commonly referred to as the “you owe me” attitude. These individuals tend to believe they are entitled to preferential treatment, placing a strong emphasis on their rights without giving due consideration to their corresponding responsibilities.

An illustrative example of this focus on rights without due regard for responsibilities can be seen in inquiries addressed to Imams like: “What are my rights as a husband?” or “What are my rights as a wife?” It reflects a perspective that centers predominantly on personal entitlements, often overlooking the reciprocal responsibilities inherent in relationships.

Life, however, is a delicate balance between rights and responsibilities, not a unilateral emphasis on rights alone. Consider the Children-Parents relationship as an instance. In educational settings, discussions around the relationship between children and their parents predominantly revolve around the rights of the child, overshadowing the crucial aspect of their responsibilities towards their parents. This skewed perspective, where the emphasis is solely on knowing one’s rights, can lead to fragmented family dynamics. It’s essential to recognize that a harmonious existence necessitates a holistic understanding of both rights and responsibilities, fostering a more balanced and mutually beneficial societal framework.

The Prophetic Approach

In our religion, there is this mix and balance between rights and responsibilities with much focus on responsibilities than rights. The Prophet ṣallallāhu 'alayhi wa sallam (peace and blessings of Allāh be upon him) used to address both rights and responsibilities, providing a comprehensive framework for societal harmony. 

For instance, when addressing wealthy Muslims, the Prophet ṣallallāhu 'alayhi wa sallam (peace and blessings of Allāh be upon him) focused on their obligation towards the less privileged, emphasizing the virtue of spending for the sake of Allah ṣallallāhu 'alayhi wa sallam (peace and blessings of Allāh be upon him). He reminded believers that true faith entails not sleeping with a full stomach while being aware that a neighbor is hungry. 

On the contrary, when addressing the poor Muslims, the Prophet’s ṣallallāhu 'alayhi wa sallam (peace and blessings of Allāh be upon him) emphasis was on self-reliance and dignity. He advised against excessive asking and begging, highlighting the principle that “the upper hand is better than the lower hand.1” This analogy symbolizes the virtue of giving over receiving, without inciting the impoverished to resort to revolutionary actions against the wealthy. In another instance, the Prophet ṣallallāhu 'alayhi wa sallam (peace and blessings of Allāh be upon him) encouraged self-sufficiency by stating that

“If one of you were to carry a bundle of firewood on his back, that would be better for him than begging a person who may or may not give him anything.”2

This exemplified the dignity in self-earned sustenance over dependency on others.

When addressing employers and business owners, the Prophet ṣallallāhu 'alayhi wa sallam (peace and blessings of Allāh be upon him) highlighted the importance of timely wage payments, stressing,

“Give the worker his wages before his sweat dries.”3“

This served as a reminder of the rights of laborers, emphasizing fair and timely compensation for their efforts.

In addressing workers, the focus shifted to the responsibility of performing tasks with excellence. The Prophet ṣallallāhu 'alayhi wa sallam (peace and blessings of Allāh be upon him) encouraged the idea that perfection in one’s work is an expression of gratitude to Allah subḥānahu wa ta'āla (glorified and exalted be He). He said: “Allah loves that if one does a job he perfects it.” [Tabarani]

In a contemporary context, where discussions often center around individual rights, the Prophet’s ṣallallāhu 'alayhi wa sallam (peace and blessings of Allāh be upon him) teachings remind us of the importance of balance. The Prophet’s ṣallallāhu 'alayhi wa sallam (peace and blessings of Allāh be upon him) guidance calls for a harmonious consideration of responsibilities alongside rights. When addressing parents, the reminder is of their responsibilities toward their children. When addressing children, the focus is on kindness towards parents, highlighting that the fulfillment of responsibilities is intertwined with a virtuous and cohesive society.

The Prophet ṣallallāhu 'alayhi wa sallam (peace and blessings of Allāh be upon him) emphasized the responsibility of those in positions of authority. He outlined that individuals, whether leaders, family heads, or even servants, are guardians and responsible for those under their care. This encompassing concept reinforces the collective duty to ensure the well-being and fair treatment of all members within a community. He ṣallallāhu 'alayhi wa sallam (peace and blessings of Allāh be upon him) said:

“Every one of you is a guardian and is responsible for what is under him. The leader of people is a guardian and is responsible for his people. A man is the guardian of his family, and he is responsible for them. A woman is the guardian of her husband’s home and she is responsible for them. The servant is a guardian of the property of his master, and he is responsible for it. Every one of you is a guardian and is responsible for his subjects.”4

This universal guidance underscores the collective responsibility of individuals in various roles, fostering a sense of duty and accountability within the community.

  • The Victim Mentality

A prevalent mindset that hinders individuals from taking responsibility is what I call the ‘Victim Mentality.’ This mentality involves shifting blame away from oneself and attributing all problems to external factors. Individuals with this mindset often engage in conspiracy theories and make excuses for their actions, fostering a belief that they are victims.

People with a victim mentality tend to evade accountability by blaming others for their shortcomings. For example, in the case of academic underachievement, they blame it on the teacher. In case of sinning, they attribute it to the influence of Satan (Shaitan.) This mindset perpetuates a sense of entitlement, where individuals believe they are exempt from responsibility. “None of my problems are my fault. I am a victim.” 

In the context of the hereafter, there are instances of individuals attempting to shift blame to Shaitan. However, Allah subḥānahu wa ta'āla (glorified and exalted be He), in the Quran, makes it clear that personal responsibility cannot be evaded by blaming external influences. Even Shaitan responds by disowning their actions and emphasizes that individuals have free will. The Quranic verse underscores that excuses and shifting blame onto others will not be accepted. The Shaitan will answer them and say:

“And Satan will say when the matter has been concluded, “Indeed, Allah had promised you the promise of truth. And I promised you, but I betrayed you. But I had no authority over you except that I invited you, and you responded to me. So do not blame me; but blame yourselves. I cannot be called to your aid, nor can you be called to my aid. Indeed, I deny your association of me [with Allah ] before. Indeed, for the wrongdoers is a painful punishment.” [Surah Ibrahim:14;22]

Furthermore, some individuals shift blame onto leaders and elders, claiming they merely followed the guidance provided to them. The Quran presents a scenario, where those who were followed will disown their followers on the Day of Judgment.

“On the Day their faces are ˹constantly˺ flipped in the Fire, they will cry, “Oh! If only we had obeyed Allah and obeyed the Messenger! And they will say, “Our Lord! We obeyed our leaders and elite, but they led us astray from the ˹Right˺ Way.” [Surah al-Ahzab: 33;66-68]

“When those who were followed will disown their followers—when they face the torment—and the bonds that united them will be cut off.” [Surah al-Baqarah: 2;166]

This serves as a stark reminder that blindly following others without personal accountability is not a valid excuse.

Overall Islamic Perspective

Contrary to the above mentalities, Islam encourages humbleness, self-awareness, and accountability. The Quran emphasizes that individuals have insight into their own actions and will serve as witnesses against themselves, even if they present excuses.

“Rather, man knows himself very well. Or he will be a witness against himself, even if he presents excuses.” [Surah al-Qiyamah: 75;14-15]

This underscores the innate knowledge every person possesses about their choices and actions.

The teachings of Prophet Muhammad ṣallallāhu 'alayhi wa sallam (peace and blessings of Allāh be upon him) further emphasize the importance of self-awareness and proactive efforts for the afterlife.

“The smart one is he who accounts for himself and works for what comes after death, while the incapable one follows his desires and merely hopes for Allah’s forgiveness.”

The hadith highlights the wisdom in accounting for oneself and striving for a meaningful existence beyond this life. In contrast, those who follow their desires and rely solely on Allah’s subḥānahu wa ta'āla (glorified and exalted be He) forgiveness without personal effort are deemed incapable.

Let us conduct a sincere internal audit, recognizing our faults, seeking forgiveness, and acting responsibly. Reflecting on self-accountability, as emphasized in the Quran, will guide our efforts toward self-improvement.

May Allah subḥānahu wa ta'āla (glorified and exalted be He) grant us the wisdom to recognize our faults, seek forgiveness, and act with responsibility in all aspects of our lives. Ameen.

 

Related:

On Social Justice and being “Prophetic”

Understanding Zuhd : Islamic Self-Discipline

1    https://sunnah.com/nasai:25332    https://sunnah.com/nasai:25843    https://sunnah.com/ibnmajah:24434    https://sunnah.com/muslim:1829a

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In Light Of A Suffering Ummah Can/Should We Make Ramadan Special In Our Homes?

11 March, 2024 - 16:10

Many Muslims living privileged lives in the West use Ramadan as an opportunity to reinforce their children’s Islamic identity. We think we should do this by creating a holiday experience that rivals the non-Muslim holidays our children are constantly bombarded with. But many of us are looking at the genocide in Gaza and wondering, what should Ramadan and Eid look like for my family in light of the suffering of thousands of Palestinian children trying to survive

Some of us are torn when it comes to observing Ramadan with the joy and vivacity of years past. We might feel guilty about what we can give our children while other parents watch their kids starve to death. We might feel incapable of being happy thinking about how much suffering others are enduring. Additionally, some of us may be thinking of how we can center the Palestinian struggle for justice into our observation of Ramadan in a family-friendly way. There are many approaches to Ramadan this year you can take as a family, whether it’s cutting back the extravagance or refocusing attention on Palestine–but now more than ever is the perfect time to remind ourselves that Ramadan is not meant to be a time of joy and excitement. Its true purpose is to build taqwa through increased devotion to Allah subḥānahu wa ta'āla (glorified and exalted be He)

The Pitfalls of Modeling Ramadan after Christmas and Other Secular Holidays

Living in the West, many of us take the examples of non-Muslim holiday celebrations as the gold standard of what celebrating a holiday should look like. This year in particular provides us all with an opportunity for critical reflection on the materialism and frivolity our cultures inspire. 

Many American holiday celebrations are devoid of true meaning. Most Americans today celebrate religious holidays like Christmas and Easter in secular ways without honoring their religious and moral underpinnings. Thus, many holidays in the West turn into themed parties that drive non-essential spending in the economy. Since the early 2000s, holiday spending has increased every single year in America! Many of us have probably noticed how extravagantly Americans celebrate anything in the last 20 years. Whether it’s Halloween decorations in a neighborhood, elaborate dessert tables at weddings, matching pajama sets for entire families, or simply the increased number of parties during pregnancies (gender reveal party, baby sprinkles)…we are getting more and more extra as the years pass. If we set aside religious holidays and consider celebrations like Halloween, Valentine’s Day, and Independence Day, the materialistic hullabaloo is even clearer. 

Now imagine the pressure these cultural norms put on Muslim parents when it comes to Ramadan and Eid! I agree that it is imperative to have our children in the West be excited about their religious identities and want to engage in important religious observations. It is vital to create fun moments and fond memories of Ramadan and Eid so that they have deep emotional connections to their faith which helps buoy their beliefs and self-confidence while living in increasingly diverse societies. That said, we are fighting the wrong battle if all we want to do is recreate the Christmas and Halloween fun with an Islamic spin. Our observations of Ramadan and Eid must fall within Islamic boundaries without compromising our religion’s core principles in favor of adopting mainstream materialistic trends. This is exactly why so many of us feel so confused and conflicted when it comes to celebrating Ramadan and Eid with the swag of years past.   

Going Back to the Roots of Ramadan

We must remind ourselves what Ramadan is truly supposed to be about increasing our taqwa through increased worship and devotion to Allah subḥānahu wa ta'āla (glorified and exalted be He).

“O you who have believed, decreed upon you is fasting as it was decreed upon those before you that you may become righteous -“ [Surah Al-Baqarah: 2;183]

Whatever ways we decide to make Ramadan feel special for our families, the goal of Ramadan should guide all efforts. The hardest things for us to figure out are what aligns with the goal of Ramadan and how we create age-appropriate avenues to allow everyone to grow spiritually. 

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How we observe Ramadan has changed so much culturally as American Muslims that people from other faiths believe that Ramadan is a holiday as much as Eid is. This is something we have to consider critically. I remember when Ramadan was not considered a month-long celebration to my immigrant parents and our immigrant-dominated masjids. All they wanted to do was make sure the house and masjid were super clean and organized before the holy month started. If we saw balloons or banners in our homes or at the masjid, it was only at Eid and never on the first day of Ramadan. Although I think we can strive for a little less austerity, I think the case for simplification and restraint is strong.

As I mentioned in a previous article from 2019, “To Decorate or Not to Decorate–Is that the Ramadan Question?,” having a goal-oriented approach to making Ramadan feel special for our families can be an act of worship if approached with adequate mindfulness.

“The crux of this issue is simple to me: if we are treating decorating for Ramadan as a voluntary act of worship, what are the conditions that should be met for God to accept this deed? Basic religious principles such as prioritizing obligatory acts of worship over voluntary or simply permissible ones, not violating anyone’s rights or hurting others, etc. should be part of the considerations, as well as practical logistical issues.”

Recommendations for Honoring the Spirit of Ramadan 

Here are some recommendations for festive touches that I believe are in line with the goals of Ramadan. They can all be accomplished without much expense or investment of time/energy:

  • Anything that teaches or ritualizes the Sunnah, like learning/displaying daily duas
    • Try out this simple Fasting Dua Lantern that features a dua you can make at iftar time
    • Buy/print out common duas and post them around the home, like dua for going to the restroom, leaving the home, etc.
  • Anything that makes engaging in acts of worship easier or more appealing
    • Setting up a Quran reading nook with your favorite mushaf on display (without buying a $500 egg chair for HGTV vibes)
    • Creating a small musallah in your home or making a modest upgrade to your existing space, like incorporating a new prayer rug storage solution or adding an essential oil diffuser
  • Simple decor that makes the home environment feel more special to welcome the blessings of Ramadan
    • String lights you can use every year
    • A Ramadan banner or sign

There are also activities with an Islamic lesson or good deed at the foundation that you can do with your children. Depending on the age of your children, you may find these activities useful (find details here!):

  • Good deed collection jar
  • Daily charity birdhouse
  • Moon phase garland
What to Avoid this Year

So what should we cut back on, not only this Ramadan but perhaps in the future as well? What have we gone overboard with in our celebrations of Ramadan after being inspired by the worldly cultures we live in? 

I think it boils down to splurging on things that don’t bring any true value to our observation of Ramadan and spending too much time or energy on them. Things that come to mind are elaborate designscapes inside or outside of the home, including miniature masjids, backdrops, or lawn decorations. When it comes to looking at what we have already amassed for Ramadan and Eid, we should look at our items and feel content, rather than wanting to add more items to our collections. Stockpiling increasingly amazing items is a disease of materialism that we need to actively fight, even if we have good intentions! We may be supporting Muslim business owners and artists, giving dawah, or instilling the love of Islam in our children, but can we do so with moderation?

Additionally, overly indulgent gift baskets or iftar parties are out this Ramadan. Because wealth is relative, I can only suggest cutting down non-essential spending to half or less compared to previous years’ budgets. This includes how much money we spend on decorations, gifts, and food. Not only that, iftar and Eid parties must be paired back–from decor to goody bags to the amount of food served. Ramadan shows us how little we actually need and how much we should be grateful for everything we have. We must actively fight against the trend of bigger and better every year in our highly materialistic cultures. 

Ways to Focus on Palestine this Ramadan

Now we come to the other concern: how do we welcome Ramadan for our families in light of the horrific suffering in Palestine? 

The first recommendation is to take the money you would have spent on non-essential items this Ramadan (remember, the goal is to spend less than half compared to previous years) and put that all towards aid to the victims of Israeli (and US-backed) violence. With this strategy, you are not increasing your overall spending but simply increasing the amount you’ve donated. For example, spend $25 instead of $50 on Eid toys and give the rest of it to Palestine. Purchase ordinary dates instead of importing special ones and donate the rest of the money. There are many ways we can cut corners to reduce how much of our budgets go towards our own families this year so that we can divert the remaining funds to others. This practice should be discussed openly as a family and communicated with children to maximize its effectiveness.

Decorating in light of displacement

Palestinian children make Ramadan lanterns out of paper and hang them in their makeshift tents ahead of the holy month of Ramadan in Rafah, Gaza on March 8, 2024 [Abed Zagout/Anadolu Agency]

Secondly, remembering the oppressed in our duas every single day, specifically at iftar time, is a way to bring the suffering of Palestinians, and others, to the forefront of our minds this Ramadan. This is a practice that Shaykh Omar Suleiman suggested in a recent talk and I have also heard of other families who do this daily already. Keeping the collective dua’ age-appropriate is key, depending on who is sitting at your dinner table. 

Third, honoring the boycott, divestment, and sanctions (BDS) movement in all of our purchases. Avoiding Starbucks when grabbing a coffee for taraweeh or planning ahead to not rely on last-minute Amazon Prime deliveries or purchasing ethically-made clothing for Eid that does not utilize forced Uyghur labor can go a long way. The obvious companies to boycott are Israeli ones or ones that profit Israel in any way, but our concern should extend to the oppressed throughout the ummah

Fourth, making it part of the family’s spiritual practice to advocate for justice daily. This includes ritualizing calling elected officials as part of the daily wird the family keeps. Take turns calling, especially since you may call on behalf of family members in addition to yourself. Also, find a way to share factual information about the ongoing suffering in productive ways–whether it is strategically sharing news stories on social media or talking to friends and colleagues about the ongoing crisis. 

Fifth, find ways to support Palestinian or pro-Palestinian businesses this Ramadan. Can you get take-out from a Palestinian restaurant one week? Can you purchase Eid gifts this year from a company based in Palestine, or with a CEO who openly advocates for the Palestinian cause? 

Lastly, I have seen discussions about trying to honor Palestinian culture this year–whether it’s cooking a Palestinian dish or wearing Palestinian clothing. Since I am not Palestinian, I cannot speak to when these actions may cross over to cultural appropriation, which is a crime Israel is very guilty of. The balance between loving our fellow Muslims for the sake of Allah subḥānahu wa ta'āla (glorified and exalted be He) and over emphasizing certain nationalistic or cultural practices is a delicate and complicated one.    

Observing Ramadan with a Backdrop of Pain

Once these adjustments have been made, I believe that we will be able to feel the spirit of Ramadan and Eid while acknowledging the suffering of others. Focusing on the true meaning of Ramadan will help us to make room for all of the emotions and realities we and others in the ummah are facing.

May Allah subḥānahu wa ta'āla (glorified and exalted be He) purify our intentions and accept our efforts. May the difficulties the ummah faces this Ramadan be essential to our personal and collective spiritual achievements. Ameen.

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[Podcast] The Ramadan Mubarak AH Episode

11 March, 2024 - 13:00

MM Podcast hosts Irtiza Hasan and Zainab bint Younus welcome Ramadan with a short but sweet episode! From what we look forward to this Ramadan, family plans, and challenges, to the big question on everyone’s mind – how do we celebrate the sweetness of Ramadan while observing the devastation in the world right now?

Ramadan Mubarak from the MuslimMatters podcast team to you and your family! May Allah accept all our worship, forgive our sins, and grant the Ummah victory over the oppressors, ameen.

Related:

The MuslimMatters Ramadan Podcast Playlist [2023]

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The MM Recap: MuslimMatters’ Most Popular Ramadan Articles [2024 Edition]

10 March, 2024 - 18:35

Every year -right before the coming of Ramadan- we at MuslimMatters put together a list of ‘must read!’ Ramadan articles from our platform that have proven exceptionally popular over the years gone by. From articles on reverts’ first fasts, fasting with a disability, boosting our ‘ibaadah during that mid-Ramadan slump, to even tips on social media management for the Holy Month.

And as alhamdulillah we approach yet another Ramadan, here’s your MM Ramadan Recap for 2024:

Spirituality

– Prophetic Guidance For An Exemplary Ramadan

Prophetic Guidance For An Exemplary Ramadan

– Al-Wahhab And The Gift Of Ramadan

Al-Wahhab And The Gift Of Ramadan

– Beginning My Quran Memorization Journey In Ramadan

Beginning My Quran Memorization Journey In Ramadan

– Using Ramadan To Forgive Those Who Have Hurt Us In The Past

 Using Ramadan To Forgive Those Who Have Hurt Us In The Past

– The Ramadan Of The Early Muslims | Sh Suleiman Hani

The Ramadan Of The Early Muslims I Sh Suleiman Hani

– Show Up As You Are: Overcoming Ramadan Guilt For The Last 10 Nights

Show Up As You Are: Overcoming Ramadan Guilt For The Last 10 Nights

Social Media

– This Ramadan, Delete TikTok Before It Deletes You

This Ramadan, Delete TikTok Before It Deletes You

– Get Your Phone Ramadan Ready!

Get Your Phone Ramadan Ready!

 Parenting & Children

– Ramadan With A Newborn: Life Seasons, Ibaadah, And Intentionality

Ramadan With A Newborn: Life Seasons, Ibaadah, And Intentionality

– Beyond The External Trappings: Teaching Children The True Essence Of Ramadan

Beyond The External Trappings: Teaching Children The True Essence Of Ramadan

– Foster Love For The Blessed Month With These 5 Fun And Easy Ramadan Crafts For Kids

Foster Love For The Blessed Month With These 5 Fun And Easy Ramadan Crafts For Kids

– Parents In Ramadan: Pivot To Another Worship

Parents In Ramadan: Pivot To Another Worship

– My Dear Ramadan Stay-at-Home Mom, I Salute You

My Dear Ramadan Stay-at-Home Mom, I Salute You

 Ramadan & Illness

– Eating Disorders And Ramadan: Debunking The Myths, Mechanisms To Cope

Eating Disorders And Ramadan: Debunking The Myths, Mechanisms To Cope

– Reflections On Observing Ramadan With A Disability

Reflections On Observing Ramadan With A Disability

– How To Maximize Ramadan When Not Fasting

How To Maximize Ramadan When Not Fasting

– Mental Illness and Ramadan

Mental Illness and Ramadan

– What I Learned About Ramadan – By Not Fasting

What I Learned About Ramadan – By Not Fasting

 On Campus/At The Workplace

– From The Chaplain’s Desk: Prep Guide For Ramadan On Campus

From The Chaplain’s Desk: Prep Guide For Ramadan On Campus

– Ramadan While Working Full-Time: Tips For Young Muslim Professionals

Ramadan While Working Full-Time: Tips For Young Muslim Professionals

– Tips For Managing School And Ramadan

Tips For Managing School And Ramadan

– From The Chaplain’s Desk: Engage With The Quran

From The Chaplain’s Desk: Engage With The Quran

– How University Made Me a Better Muslim

How University Made Me a Better Muslim

 Podcasts

– Ramadan Reflections: 30 Days of Healing | Aliyah Umm Raiyaan

Podcast: Ramadan Reflections: 30 Days of Healing | Aliyah Umm Raiyaan

-Man 2 Man: Beast Mode – Spiritual Preparation For Ramadan

[Podcast] Man 2 Man: Beast Mode – Spiritual Preparation For Ramadan

– Ramadan Vibes: Connecting with the Quran | Sh Muhammad Ziyad Batha

[Podcast] Ramadan Vibes: Connecting with the Quran | Sh Muhammad Ziyad Batha

– Ramadan Imposter Syndrome | Shaykha Taimiyyah Zubair

[Podcast] Ramadan Imposter Syndrome | Shaykha Taimiyyah Zubair

– Muslim Women’s Spirituality In Ramadan

Podcast: Muslim Women’s Spirituality In Ramadan

Have we missed out on mentioning any of our articles that have deeply impacted you, or at least made a small change in the way you approach Ramadan? Do let us know in the comments below!

 

Related:

The MM Recap: Our Most Popular Ramadan Articles [2023 Edition]

The MuslimMatters Ramadan Podcast Playlist [2023]

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Muslim Communities Across The U.S. Prepare For Ramadan Amidst Heightened Islamophobia

7 March, 2024 - 05:10

Muslim communities across the U.S. are gearing up for Ramadan amidst an unprecedented increase in Islamophobia and anti-Arab bias in light of Israel’s war on Gaza. Several masjids are also increasing their security measures this Ramadan in the aftermath of several Islamophobic and anti-Arab attacks.

The Context

The past few months have been marked by an increase in anti-Muslim incidents in light of Israel’s war on Gaza. Wadea Al-Fayoume, a six-year-old Palestinian-American was stabbed to death 26 times. Three Palestinian students were shot in Vermont for wearing a kuffiyeh, a traditional Palestinian scarf, and one of them is permanently paralyzed from the chest down. 

In November 2023, the Council on American Islamic Relations (CAIR) reported an 216% increase in requests for help and reports of bias compared to the previous year. Palestine Legal, an organization that protects the rights of people in the U.S. who speak out in support of Palestine, experienced an unprecedented surge in requests for legal support from people targeted for Palestine advocacy.

Muslim communities across the country are heading into Ramadan amidst a tense environment and with Gaza at the top of many people’s minds. 

Masjid Ramadan Preparations Muslim Communities on campus

Ramadan decorations at the Islamic Society of Greater Lansing. (photo courtesy of the Islamic Society of Greater Lansing)

With this increased targeting of Muslims, many communities across the country are heightening their security measures in light of recent Islamophobic and anti-Arab attacks. 

Thasin Sardar is a board member at the Islamic Society of Greater Lansing in Michigan, a large and diverse community with over 1,000 attendees at each Jumuah prayer. He says about a third of the community consists of students, a third of refugees and recent immigrants, and a third of long-time residents. 

Sardar says his community has been organizing rallies and protests in support of Gaza, and people are not shying away from being vocal despite potential safety concerns. 

“Nobody is afraid of any repercussions,” he says. “We are not going to give up on asking for a ceasefire.” 

In light of events in recent months, the community has prepared for Ramadan by arranging for a greater security presence including members from within the community. This is in addition to the usual Ramadan preparations and setting up by decorating the masjid. 

Understanding the Environment on College Campuses

College campuses have been particularly impacted by what’s happening in Gaza, and campuses are roiled by debates over free speech and institutional suppression of pro-Palestinian activism. 

Columbia University suspended its chapters of Students for Justice in Palestine (SJP) and Jewish Voice for Peace (JVP). Rutgers University also suspended SJP, then reinstated it but on probation. Former Israeli soldiers sprayed an illegal chemical “skunk” on pro-Palestinian protesters. Pro-Palestinian students at Harvard are suing the university for failing to protect them from harassment. NYU suspended a pro-Palestinian student, revoked her scholarship, and denied her campus housing until fall 2024. Over 43 students at the University of Michigan are facing harassment, intimidation, arrests, and charges for their campus activism. 

And the list goes on. 

This suppression is prevalent despite the fact that a majority of Americans, and a majority of Muslim and Jewish Democrats, favor a permanent ceasefire in Gaza, according to research by the Institute for Social Policy and Understanding. 

In addition to organizing regular Ramadan programming, Muslim chaplains at American universities continue to be tasked with the challenge of serving and supporting students amidst a tense environment on college campuses. 

A university chaplain on the West Coast, who wishes to remain anonymous out of fear of retribution, says the past few months have been very difficult for students. 

“This has been one of the scariest times on campus,” she says. “It feels reminiscent of post-9/11, and I think that was a pretty broad consensus among a lot of chaplains that I spoke with.” 

“There’s a lot of grief and a lot of helplessness,” she says. “We’re watching what’s going on and we don’t really know what to do…I don’t know how anyone can be okay.”  

She mentioned that her community has implemented increased security measures for months which will continue throughout Ramadan. Students have also been running their own security shifts due to the vitriol on campus. They are also making a concerted effort to avoid walking home alone and in pairs or small groups. 

“There is a heightened level of awareness,” she adds. 

Imam Khalil Abdullah, who is the Muslim chaplain at Princeton University, says he has been intentional about trying to provide students with a safe space and sense of community during these times. He hopes this will continue during Ramadan.

“That’s what Ramadan and our iftars will be,” he adds. “Like big healing circles.” 

He also acknowledges that “different campuses are experiencing Islamophobia in a different way that requires us as chaplains to respond in different ways.”

Maintaining the Ramadan Spirit While Addressing the Suffering in Gaza 

Thasin Sardar from the Islamic Society of Greater Lansing says the community will continue to hold all its regular Ramadan programming.

“The celebratory mood is going to be a little dampened as we continue to grieve over what’s happening in Gaza,” he says, “but the spirit of Ramadan that people at large are used to, we’ll try to keep that as energetic as possible.”

In Dearborn, Michigan, community leaders announced the cancellation of this year’s annual suhoor festival “in light of the ongoing genocide in Palestine.” Suhoor fests typically attract 100,000 visitors from across the U.S. and Canada. They say it feels “inappropriate to celebrate at a time of such gravity.”  

Muslims across the country are continuing their activism and advocacy for Palestine heading into Ramadan. During a Jumu’ah khutbah last week, Dr. Omar Suleiman talked about the importance of keeping the momentum for Gaza, while recognizing that many community members feel that Ramadan this year is not the same because of what’s happening. 

“If Ramadan is a month of worship, is a month of ibadah, what better month to get closer to Allah subḥānahu wa ta'āla (glorified and exalted be He) to where our du’a for our brothers and sisters are more impactful,” he says. “What better month to lose your appetite for this dunya if you haven’t lost it over the last five months watching what’s happening in Gaza.” 

 

Related:

From The Chaplain’s Desk: Prep Guide For Ramadan On Campus

Ramadan At The Uyghur Mosque: Community, Prayers, And Grief

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A Response to the “Spider-Man Protest” At Mt. Sinai Hospital In Toronto

5 March, 2024 - 11:36

As a society, we like to believe we have made strides in equality. We celebrate the diversity of our country, we have cultural sensitivity training workshops, anti-racism panels, and summits.

In media and politics, however, equality is a thin veneer that often peels off in times of crisis and conflict. Underneath are the enduring phenomenons of racism, injustice, and inequality manifested in various aspects of society; including education, media representation, and global power structures. They highlight the ongoing challenges in dismantling entrenched systems of privilege and domination. 

A glaring example of this is the discourse surrounding Palestine. Palestinian sentiments and emotions are systematically distorted and vilified, contributing to the dehumanization of an entire populace. This bias is palpable in the formulation of unjust policies and the blatant disregard for the demands and suffering of our communities.

Now as concerned citizens rally across Canada to express their sorrow, anguish, and dissent against their country’s lackluster response, the mask has been ripped clear off. 

These demonstrations have faced significant censorship, with instances of heavy-handed police intervention and complete shutdowns in some locations. Slogans advocating for justice have been manipulated to align with dehumanizing narratives targeting Muslims and Palestinians. Regrettably, the media often labels these gatherings as “hate rallies,” “antisemitic,” or “anti-Israel.”

One need only look at the emergency protest for Rafah in Toronto, and the ensuing storm of lies and condemnation. 

It didn’t take long for the footage of a person dressed in a Spider-Man costume scaling the archway at the Mt. Sinai Hospital in Toronto to start circulating. 

Protest in Mt. Sinai
The fact that Spider-man had scaled a total of 8 structures, 3 of which were buildings along the route became irrelevant. 

The fact this person has an Instagram account which illustrates him scaling vantage points to wave the Palestinian flag at numerous protests in different cities across Canada did not matter. 

The fact the protest paused in front of many buildings along the way to give people a breather to allow others to catch up was not mentioned. 

The fact that at no point did anyone block patients from exiting and entering became irrelevant.  

An anonymous attendee from that night spoke to this “I can vouch that the protest paused on its way past the US embassy to give folks a break and some time for chants. As it also did outside the Toronto Film School and Hoops, and many other random locations based on pacing the crowd, not protesting.”

The headlines the next morning told a different story:

Everyone knows why protestors targeted Mount Sinai Hospital – The National Post

Terrorist supports harness hospital patients in hospitals – Toronto Sun

Police are investigating after a group of anti-Israel protestors targeted Toronto’s Mount Sinai Hospital – The Canadian Jewish News

This is a mere sampling of the dozens of articles and opinion pieces posted that claimed the protest was deliberately antisemitic and lied about the events that had transpired. 

It didn’t take long for politicians to join in to condemn what happened outside Mount Sinai Hospital that day.

In one fell swoop, tweets conflating the march with antisemitism, Jew-hatred, and extremism began to circulate on X -formerly known as Twitter- by politicians. 

Bonnie Crombie went as far as embellishing infiltration and intimidation to her tweet: 


This racist dehumanization of Palestinians is dangerous and inflammatory. Across Canada there is a terrifying spike in Islamophobia and Islamophobic attacks; this rhetoric is fuel to a fire that is already burning out of control. 

In fact, a mere four days after these hate-mongering tweets and articles were posted, an enraged man phoned, threatening to take matters into his own hands and kill the protestors on hospital row himself. 

Additionally, the Islamic Centre of Cambridge was vandalized with hate-motivated graffiti. This was barely covered by the media. As for the politicians, the irony of their condemnation of this days after they spouted fear-mongering Islamophobic rhetoric must have gone over their collective heads.

Adding insult to injury, these same media outlets and politicians who have unanimously condemned a protest outside a hospital, are eerily silent as hospital after hospital has been terrorized and targeted in both Gaza and the West Bank in Palestine. 

At the Ibn Sina Hospital in Jenin, Israeli soldiers did in fact infiltrate a hospital. They were dressed as doctors, women, and civilian men, which is a war crime under the Geneva Conventions. Once inside they removed their disguise and proceeded to enter a patient’s room and assassinate the three people in that room. Our politicians were not moved to report on this. 

More recently, the last standing hospital, the Nasser Hospital in Khan Younis, was rendered non-functioning

Where once stood a hearth of healing, safety, and refuge now lies a killing machine; a military base. Doctors have been killed or are kidnapped and facing torture and degradation. The thousands of civilians seeking shelter are either dead or displaced, again. Parents are holding their children as they breathe their last breaths, murdered from wounds that could have been treated, sicknesses that could have been cured. The 70,000 injured civilians are now without medical care, as are the multitudes suffering from dehydration, malnutrition, and disease. 

The world saw this at Al-Shifaa Hospital, Al-Nasr Hospital, and Al-Ahli Hospital amongst many other hospitals. Reports on missing doctors describe cruel torture, stripped of their clothing and dignity, forced to wear chains, and crawl around eating food off the floor. Premature babies were found decomposed in their hospital beds, their fragile bones and bodies withered away, only a diaper to mark there once was a soft-skinned innocent life here. 

It is salt in a grieving community’s wounds then, when politicians blatantly express their hypocrisy. The continual stings of their apathy remind everyone of our pain and suffering. Of how our dead are less worthy to recognize in reaching out in empathy for our losses. Of how our hospitals are not sacred spaces, but legitimate military targets, with impunity and without the burden of proof.

Our media and politicians must be challenged. 

Where was their outrage when the hospitals in Gaza were decimated?

How culpable are they in attacks such as the Quebec Mosque Shooting and the London family ploughed down by a car?

What would have been the results, if, instead of calling TPS, this man (who is now in custody), actually took matters into his own hands and shot protestors, or rammed his car into protestors? 

How complicit in his crime would they be?

Our media and politicians are alienating the fastest-growing population in Canada. Muslims account for 4.9% of the population of Canada. As we can see, people are marching in the hundreds of thousands demanding justice. 

The National Council of Canadian Muslims recently refused to meet with Prime Minister Justin Trudeau, stating he was failing in both protecting Palestinian lives and living up to his promises to combat anti-Muslim attacks and rhetoric. 

Muslims and Palestinian supporters across Canada have vowed they will never forget which politicians stood silent or supported an ongoing genocide and cut funding to UNRWA on mere allegations. They are demanding concrete actions instead of empty promises. 

My questions are, can the Canadian government afford to continue marginalizing the fastest growing group of people in Canada? And does the Muslim community have grounds to take legal actions against their legal representatives for endangering their lives? 

The tides are changing. People across Canada (and the world) have discovered their power in mass movements in support of Palestinians and Palestine. 

The seeds of Palestinian support have been shaken, sprouted, and are growing globally. This growth will not stop. 

Palestinian supporters are not willing to forget what they have witnessed over the last few months at the hands of the apartheid regime of Israel. 

Palestinian supporters are not easily intimidated, bullied, or manipulated. They demand justice and will continue to strive for it.

 

Related:

Activism for Palestine in the West: Understanding the Agreement of Joe Biden and Jordan Peterson on Israel

Palestine: Reflecting, Responding, and Moving Forward

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Podcast: Ramadan Reflections: 30 Days of Healing | Aliyah Umm Raiyaan

5 March, 2024 - 11:00

Zainab bint Younus catches up with Aliyah Umm Raiyaan, the author of “Ramadan Reflections: A Guided Journal – 30 days of healing from the past, journeying with presence and looking ahead to an akhirah-focused future,” and her newest release, “The Power of Du’a.” Aliyah shares her own journey of spiritual growth and healing, and how we can all transform ourselves this upcoming Ramadan. Don’t miss this episode as part of your Ramadan prep – and don’t forget to order Aliyah’s books to add to your own library.

Related:

Show Up As You Are: Overcoming Ramadan Guilt For The Last 10 Nights

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From The MuslimMatters Bookshelf: Ramadan Reads 2024

3 March, 2024 - 17:30

Gear up for Ramadan 2024 with this list of recommended Ramadan reads for kids and adults alike – fresh off The MuslimMatters Bookshelf!

Kidlit  – Ramadan: A Holy Month (A Little Golden Book)

It’s exciting to see a Little Golden Book that encompasses the Muslim experience! “Ramadan: A Holy Month” by Malik Amin does an excellent job explaining Ramadan to a young audience and ensuring that Islam and worship as the core of it.

Beautifully illustrated, with a diverse array of Muslim men, women, and children, this book is a must-have for classrooms and bookshelves for little ones. I love how it mentions the Qur’an and prayer, shows the masjid, and even explains that young children, the sick, and the very elderly don’t fast.

Purchase here.

 – Ramadan and Eid al-Fitr by Sara Khan

Sara Khan’s “Ramadan and Eid al-Fitr,” published is an exceptional example of a Ramadan book done right. Although spun as a young girl telling readers all about Ramadan, it is essentially a non-fiction book, beautifully illustrated by Nadiyah Suyatna.

 

This isn’t a “story” in the sense of being a storytime read, but it is absolutely valuable as a classroom resource or even an at-home bookshelf addition. It can be a bit lengthy to read in one go, but can be broken up easily and flipped through repeatedly. I LOVE how Islam-centered this book is – it stays far away from saying things like “we fast so that we can feel what it’s like to be hungry like the poor!”

I also love the inclusion of things that *are* part of many Ramadan experiences, like good deed calendars, Ramadan cards, Ramadan baking, and other fun activities that incorporate good deeds as well as fun. Volunteering, charity, and prayer are all mentioned – and accompanied by lovely illustrations that really bring heart to the text. There is also fantastic backmatter, including a chart with the 5 pillars of Islam, explaining the Lunar calendar, and an entire section on the important spiritual aspects of Ramadan.

Purchase here.

 – Eliyas Explains Ramadan by Zanib Mian

Zanib Mian’s unique “Eliyas Explains” series is a must-have for all families with little ones who aren’t so little anymore (ages 7-10)! This Ramadan explainer (and included guided journal!) connects with curious kids who get antsy sitting through a halaqah.

“Are you as excited as the adults about Ramadan? I wasn’t until I found out a load of incredible things that blew my socks to space! After that, I was on a mission. Oh yeah, and I had a force field! I’ll tell you all about it in this book and help you transform into a better you!”

Purchase here.

 – Maymoona’s Moon by Razeena Omar Gutta

“Maymoona’s Moon” by Razeena Omar Gutta is illustrated by Zayneb Haleem, whose super cute art style is immediately recognized from her work on Instagram. The pictures are so cute that little readers will enjoy flipping through them alone! Maymoona is a future astronaut, and she is determined to sight the moon for Eid. Off she goes, climbing her Lunar Ladder, Galactic Goggles at the ready! This book is sure to be a cute addition to an end-of-Ramadan bedtime story rotation. The illustrations are a visual delight of adorableness, sure to fill young readers with joy.

 – Trouble at Taraweeh by Rosalind Noor

Umama tends to accidentally cause havoc in the masjid whenever she goes for taraweeh, but she’s determined to make sure everything goes smoothly for Laylatul Qadr! Too bad her frog has other plans… This is a hilarious book about an adorable girl’s unintentional hijinks, and in the end, everything works out and there are valuable lessons learned along the way.

Purchase here.

 – Made from the Same Dough by Laura el-Alam

Papa isn’t a Muslim, but he’ll be spending Ramadan with his grandson, Rayan, and his family. Rayan worries his grandfather won’t fit in and might even do something embarrassing. When Papa suggests bringing cookies made from his favorite Christmas recipe, Rayan panics. How will Rayan handle the challenge of having his Christian grandfather at his Ramadan gathering? Can he and Papa find common ground and respect each other’s traditions?

Purchase here.

 – Ramadan Kareem by M. O. Yuksel

“Ramadan Kareem”  is really and truly the very essence of Ramadan faith and joy, brought to life with Hatem Aly’s incredibly lively, hilarious, and touching illustrations. From the Ummah’s diversity and spotting the different flags on each page, to mischievous kitties everywhere, to little easter egg surprises, and most of all… the Eid page with Masjid al-Aqsa, giving us a glimpse of a truly joyous Eid in a free Palestine, inshaAllah.

Note: There is one minor error where Laylatul Qadr is described as “better than a thousand nights,” rather than “better than a thousand months.”

Purchase here.

 – Moon’s Ramadan by Natasha Khan Khazi

“Moon’s Ramadan” by Natasha Khan Kazi is a sweet Ramadan story from the moon’s perspective.

Moon loves watching people prepare for Ramadan, worship and give sadaqah during its days and nights, recite Qur’an and share traditions from around the world. Each page demonstrates the waxing and waning of the moon throughout the month, which makes for a nice visual understanding of what a lunar month is. For me, it’s the illustrations that charmed me – mostly purples and golds, with sweet Ramadan scenes from different countries. I’ve gone back several times to enjoy the pictures alone!

I loved the specific mention of taraweeh, giving zakah, and reciting Qur’an – all too often, Ramadan stories ironically end up erased of the acts of worship that practically define it. This will make a great bedtime Ramadan read!

Purchase here.

Adult  – Ramadan Reflections by Aliyah Umm Raiyaan

This beautiful book by Aliyah Umm Raiyaan is unlike most “Ramadan books” you’ll come across. Part Islamic reminders, part journal, this is a book to journey with each day of Ramadan.

Divided into three chunks – past, present, and future, corresponding with the first ten days, middle ten days, and last ten days of Ramadan – each chapter is divided into the ‘meat’ of the content (a reflection that ties into themes of Islamic values, such as hope in Allah’s Mercy, repentance, Allah’s Love, fear of Allah, and more), an inspirational quote from Islamic scholars, a “du’a invitation,” and finally, journaling prompts specific to the chapter. I LOVE journal prompts, and I truly appreciated the structure of each chapter and the very thoughtful prompts provided.

What makes this book such a great Ramadan resource is that it’s written simply, beautifully, and honestly in a way that can connect with the average Muslim reader – not just the ‘super religious’ folks, but literally anyone who feels a yearning to reconnect with Allah subḥānahu wa ta'āla (glorified and exalted be He) this Ramadan.

 – Remembering Beautiful Days in Jerusalem by Sh Muhammad Akram Nadwi

“Remembering Beautiful Days in Jerusalem” is Sh Muhammad Akram Nadwi’s travel diary from his 2014 journey to Palestine during Ramadan. It consists of his notes of places he and his travel group went to, spiritual reflections, and observations of their experiences. (I do wish someone had taken the time to sit with Sh Akram and develop this further into something more travelogue-y and more in-depth with religious/ spiritual content, but I also know how hard it is to get a busy shaykh to sit down and do extra work on something he’s already put together!) Overall, this was a fairly easy read, and a reminder of why Palestine is so close to a Muslim’s heart.

– The Power of Du’a by Aliyah Umm Raiyaan

Just in time for Ramadan comes Aliyah Umm Raiyaan’s newest book, “The Power of Du’a.” This book combines classical Islamic discourse on du’a and spirituality, alongside individual du’a stories and personal reflections, to create a rich narrative that creates personal connections between readers and the concept of du’a. Similar to Ramadan Reflections, the author provides important reflective prompts for readers to think over, and suggestions on how one can elevate their personal du’a.

What are your favourite recommendations for Ramadan 2024? Share in the comments below!

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The MM Edit: Ramadan Reads 2022

Ramadan Must-Have Books For Kids

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Prophetic Guidance For An Exemplary Ramadan

2 March, 2024 - 03:10

A woman from the Ansaar once felt disheartened for missing the chance to perform Hajj with the Prophet ﷺ. When she explained her situation to the beloved Rasul, he ﷺ comforted her by suggesting that performing Umrah in the month of Ramadan would be equivalent to completing Hajj with him.1  This virtue has endured over time, and millions of pilgrims descend upon Makkah each Ramadan in the hope of attaining this reward. May Allah subḥānahu wa ta'āla (glorified and exalted be He) accept their intentions and grant us all the opportunity to complete Umrah in the month of Ramadan.

This touching story led me to contemplate what it might have been like to experience Ramadan in the presence of the Messenger of Allah ﷺ. Imagining breaking our fast among the sahabah (رضي الله عنهم) in Masjid al-Nabawi and listening to him ﷺ recite the Qur’an during this blessed month evokes a sense of awe. Although such an opportunity is beyond our reach, I pray that we may find ourselves in the company of the Messenger of Allah ﷺ in Jannah. In the meantime, let us strive to emulate and live our Ramadan in a manner similar to his and that of his companions. 

Ibn al-Qayyim (rahimahullah) mentions the Ramadan of the Prophet ﷺ in Zad al-Ma’ad:

كان من هديه صلى الله عليه وسلم في شهر رمضان الإكثار من أنواع العبادات ، فكان جبريل يدارسه القرآن في رمضان ، وكان إذا لقيه جبريل أجود بالخير من الريح المرسلة ( وكان أجود الناس ، وأجود ما يكون في [ ص: 31 ]رمضان ) يكثر فيه من الصدقة والإحسان وتلاوة القرآن والصلاة والذكر والاعتكاف. وكان يخص رمضان من العبادة بما لا يخص به غيره من الشهور

“From the guidance given by the Prophet ﷺ  in the month of Ramadan was to increase in different types of worship. Jibreel would come and recite the Qur’an with him, when Jibreel would meet him, he ﷺ  would be the most generous of people and his generosity peaked in the month of Ramadan. In this blessed month, he would increase in giving charity, treatment to people, tilawah of the Qur’an, prayer, remembrance of Allah subḥānahu wa ta'āla (glorified and exalted be He) and i’tikaf. He would dedicate a portion of worship that used to be shown in Ramadan that would not be shown in any other time of the year.”2

Insha’Allah, over the course of this article we will try and encapsulate the Prophetic Ramadan and how we can follow in his footsteps. 

When Ramadan would arrive, Yahya ibn Abi Kathir, a tabi’ee and a great scholar of hadith would say: 

اللَّهُمَّ سَلِّمْنِي لِرَمَضَانَ وَسَلِّمْ لِي رَمَضَانَ وَتَسَلَّمْهُ مِنِّي مُتَقَبَّلً

“O Allah, secure for me Ramadan, secure Ramadan for me, and receive my deeds with acceptance.” 3

Our pious predecessors would rejoice and welcome this amazing opportunity granted to all of us by Allah ﷻ – that which would lighten from us our sins and grant us acceptance. This is a blessing from Allah subḥānahu wa ta'āla (glorified and exalted be He) that they would never consider abandoning. When Ahnaf ibn al-Qays raḍyAllāhu 'anhu (may Allāh be pleased with him) reached the autumn of his life, the people around him would tell him that he is an elderly man and that fasting may weaken his body. He would tell them:

إني أعده لسفر طويل، والصبر على طاعة الله سبحانه أهون من الصبر على عذابه

“I am preparing this fasting for a long journey and enduring patience in obedience to Allah subḥānahu wa ta'āla (glorified and exalted be He), the Exalted, is far easier than enduring patience in His punishment.”4

  • The Qur’an 

The focus of the legends of the past in Ramadan was the Qur’an.  As Allah ﷻ tells us in al-Baqarah:

 

“The month of Ramadhan [is that] in which was revealed the Qur’an, a guidance for the people and clear proofs of guidance and criterion. So whoever sights [the new moon of] the month, let him fast it; and whoever is ill or on a journey – then an equal number of other days. Allah intends for you ease and does not intend for you hardship and [wants] for you to complete the period and to glorify Allah for that [to] which He has guided you; and perhaps you will be grateful.” [Surah Al Baqarah: 2;185]

The evidence for this increased need to engage with the Qur’an in Ramadan is the example set by RasulAllah ﷺ  himself. It is narrated to us by Fatima raḍyAllāhu 'anha (may Allāh be pleased with her) that her father ﷺ would review the Qur’an once every year with Jibreel 'alayhi'l-salām (peace be upon him) except in the final Ramadan of his Prophethood, in which he reviewed it twice.5 Ibn Abbas raḍyAllāhu 'anhu (may Allāh be pleased with him) added that this revision of the Qur’an between Jibreel and the Prophet ﷺ  would occur at night.6

This highlights the particular importance of reciting the Qur’an at night at a time when you can free yourself from distractions and have full focus on connecting with it. 

Allah ﷻ affirms this for us in Surah al-Muzzamil:

Indeed, worship in the night is more impactful and suitable for recitation.” [Surah Al-Muzzammil: 73;6]

Some of the mashai’kh also take from this narration, the importance of coming together for the purpose of studying the Qur’an, checking your knowledge of the Qur’an with those knowledgeable of it, and increasing your recitation of it in this beautiful month. For example, Zubaid ibn Harith al-Yami (rahimahullah) would bring copies of the Qur’an and gather his companions to study the Qur’an together.7

This attitude of modifying your schedule to occupy yourself with the Qur’an was seen amongst the righteous early Muslims. Abdur-Razzaq said regarding Sufyaan at-Thawri:

إذا دخل رمضان ترك جميع العبادة وأقبل على قراءة القرآن

“At the arrival of Ramadan he would leave all other acts of worship  and dedicate himself to the recitation of the Qur’an.”8

Ibn Abdul Hakam, a senior disciple of Imam Malik (may Allah subḥānahu wa ta'āla (glorified and exalted be He) have mercy upon them) remarked that when Ramadan came, Imam Malik would stop teaching his Muwatta and turn instead to the Mushaf, reciting it extensively.9 From this we can see that Imam Malik truly understood that fasting and recitation of the Qur’an coexist together – as RasulAllah ﷺ  said “fasting and the Qur’an will intercede for the servant on the day of resurrection.”10

This attention to the Book of Allah subḥānahu wa ta'āla (glorified and exalted be He), would also be reflected in the number of times they would complete the recitation of the Qur’an in the month of Ramadan. For example, it is well known that Imam ash-Shafi’i (rahimahullah) would complete the Qur’an 60 times outside the prayer.11 It is also reported that Aswad ibn Yazid, from the students of Abdullah ibn Masud raḍyAllāhu 'anhu (may Allāh be pleased with him), would usually complete the Qur’an once of every six nights and that he would up this, to every two nights in Ramadan.12

You may be wondering whether all of these Imams and scholars were unaware of the famous saying of the Prophet ﷺ  advising us to not complete the recitation of the Qur’an in less than three days.13 However, Ibn Rajab helps us to reconcile this understanding by explaining that this prohibition is in doing so as a regular habit throughout the year – however if you are doing so in virtuous times such as in Ramadan (especially in the nights within which laylat al-Qadr can be found) or when you travel to virtuous places such as Makkah – then it is recommended to increase in your recitation of the Qur’an in order to make the most of this special time or place. This can be seen in the practice of the righteous muslims of the past.14

  • Night prayer

The forerunners of the past would also complete the Qur’an in the night prayer. Some of the salaf would complete it every three nights, others every seven or ten nights. 

In Surah al-Furqan, Allah jala wa’ala describes His true servants as:

“Those who spend a portion of their night to their Lord prostrating and standing [in prayer]” [Surah Furqan: 25;64]

The Prophet ﷺ would engage in lengthy night prayer outside of Ramadan, but like his other acts of ibaadah – he would increase it in this blessed month. He ﷺ  said:

مَنْ قَامَ رَمَضَانَ إِيمَانًا وَاحْتِسَابًا غُفِرَ لَهُ مَا تَقَدَّمَ مِنْ ذَنْبِهِ

“Whoever observes the night voluntary prayers during the month of Ramadan out of sincere faith and hoping to attain the reward of Allah, then all his past sins will be forgiven.”15

Hudayfah ibn al-Yaman raḍyAllāhu 'anhu (may Allāh be pleased with him) narrates that one night in Ramadan, he found the Prophet ﷺ  reciting al-Baqarah, An-Nisa’ and Ali ‘Imran in the night prayer, pondering deeply on the ayaat. His prayer was so lengthy that by the time he had finished two raka’ah, Bilal raḍyAllāhu 'anhu (may Allāh be pleased with him) announced the call to Fajr.16 In another incident,  Abu Dharr raḍyAllāhu 'anhu (may Allāh be pleased with him) recalls the Messenger of Allah ﷺ  leading them in a lengthy night prayer to the extent they feared they would miss suhoor.17

This same attitude towards the night prayer was also present in his companions raḍyAllāhu 'anhum (may Allāh be pleased with them).  Umar ibn al-Khattab raḍyAllāhu 'anhu (may Allāh be pleased with him) would order Ubay ibn Ka’b raḍyAllāhu 'anhu (may Allāh be pleased with him) and Tamim al-Dari raḍyAllāhu 'anhu (may Allāh be pleased with him) to lead the people in night prayer during Ramadan. They would recite in the hundreds of verses to the extent that the people would have to support themselves with a staff due to the length of the prayer. They would stand in prayer for large swathes of the night and they would not finish until the first signs of dawn (i.e. Fajr).18 Likewise, Abdullah ibn Abi Bakr raḍyAllāhu 'anhu (may Allāh be pleased with him) mentioned that his father would say by the time they finished their night prayers in Ramadan, they would have to rush the servants to prepare food as it was very close to Fajr.19

Umar raḍyAllāhu 'anhu (may Allāh be pleased with him) would extend this same concern for the night prayer to his family.20 In the middle of the night, he used to wake up his family and say to them – “prayer, prayer, prayer” and then recite the verse:

“And enjoin prayer upon your family and be steadfast therein. We ask you not for provision; We provide for you, and the [best] outcome is for [those of] righteousness.” [Surah Taha: 20;132]

The Prophet Muhammad ﷺ  told us regarding a persons night prayer that “Whoever stands to pray with ten verses will never be recorded among the negligent. Whoever stands with a hundred verses will recorded among those devoutly obedient to Allah. Whoever stands with a thousand verses will be recorded among those with tremendous rewards.” 21 To me it is very clear to me that the sahabah raḍyAllāhu 'anhum (may Allāh be pleased with them) truly lived their life by this and had ambition to be amongst foremost group. The question we should ask ourself is – which group do we want to be amongst?

  • Giving in Charity

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When we enter the month of Ramadan, it is like a switch is turned on and our generosity skyrockets. In 2020, UK Muslims donated £3,500 every minute of Ramadan and US Muslims donated more than $1.8 billion over the course of Ramadan 2021. Increased generosity in Ramadan was the nature of our Rasul ﷺ  and it something we should aim to only increase in, year by year. Ibn Abbas raḍyAllāhu 'anhu (may Allāh be pleased with him) said that “The Prophet ﷺ was the most generous of all the people, and he used to become more generous in Ramadan when Jibreel met him. Jibreel used to meet him every night during Ramadan to revise the Qur’an with him. Allah’s Messenger ﷺ then used to be more generous than the fast wind.”22  

Imam Ash-Shafi’i said that it is better for someone to increase in generosity during the month of Ramadan, following the example of the Messenger of Allah ﷺ.23

In particular, our pious predecessors would utilise their wealth towards feeding others and gave it priority over other things. RasulAllah ﷺ  told us:

مَنْ فَطَّرَ صَائِمًا كَانَ لَهُ مِثْلُ أَجْرِهِمْ مِنْ غَيْرِ أَنْ يَنْقُصَ مِنْ أُجُورِهِمْ شَيْئًا

Whoever gives food for a fasting person to break his fast, he will have a reward like theirs, without that detracting from their reward in the slightest.”24

The salaf would endeavour to incorporate this when they would break their fast. 

When Ramadan would begin, Ibn Shihab al-Zuhri [rahimahullah] would comment “It is indeed only the recitation of Qur’an and feeding of food.”25 Abu Ja’far Muhammad ibn Ali [rahimahullah] said “For me to invite ten of my friends and feed them with a meal that they like is dearer to me than freeing ten of the descendants of Ismaa’eel.”26 Ibn Umar raḍyAllāhu 'anhu (may Allāh be pleased with him) did not break his fast except with the orphans and the needy. Sometimes, if he discovered that his family had not extended hospitality to them, he would choose to abstain from breaking his fast that night.27

The righteous before us would feed the fasting person regardless of whether they were poor or rich. They hoped through this deed that the bonds of brotherhood between them would be strengthened and that it would be a path to paradise for them. Similarly, a wise Muslim would take advantage of this opportunity to feed the fasting person, both locally and abroad, and aim to give in charity frequently throughout Ramadan. In particular, try and donate for iftar to our brothers and sisters in Palestine, and prevent them from having empty stomachs alongside all the other difficulties they are undergoing. May Allah subḥānahu wa ta'āla (glorified and exalted be He) grant them ease from this oppression and feed from the best of foods and fruits in al-Firdaws. 

  • Avoiding indulgence

It is unfortunate that as soon as the adhaan for Maghrib soothes our ears, we turn with ravenous intent to piles of samosas, mandi, xaniid, and other wonderful dishes from across the world. It is as if the ending of the fast signals the need to eat to our hearts’ desire. Whilst it is important that we refuel and re-energize ourselves at the end of our fast, the behavior that is rampant across our homes is far from the practice of the Prophet ﷺ  and our pious forebearers. 

The Messenger of Allah ﷺ  said “Verily, the people who ate to their fill the most in this world will be the hungriest on the Day of Resurrection.”28

Muhammad ibn Waasi, a tabi’i muhaddith and qadi, said “Whoever eats little will understand and make others understand and will be clear and humble. Overeating weighs a person down and keeps him from much of what he wants [to accomplish].”29

It has been narrated regarding Muhammad ibn Amr al-Maghribi that he would eat only two full meals over the course of Ramadan.30 It is important for us to be mindful of what we eat, not just because of the worldly consequences such as being so full that it is difficult for us to pray or we disturb others with burps during prayer, but also because a lack of self-discipline only has a destructive effect on the heart. 

Our mother, A’ishah raḍyAllāhu 'anha (may Allāh be pleased with her) said:

إِنَّ أَوَّلَ بَلاءٍ حَدَّثَ فِي هَذِهِ الأُمَّةِ بَعْدَ قَضَاءِ نَبِيِّهَا صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ الشِّبَعُ فَإِنَّ الْقَوْمَ لَمَّا شَبِعَتْ بُطُونَهُمْ سَمِنَتْ أَبْدَانُهُمْ فَتَصَعَّبَتْ قُلُوبُهُمْ وَجَمَحَتْ شَهَوَاتُهُمْ

“Verily, the first trial to occur in this nation after the passing of its Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, was people eating to their fill. For when people fill their stomachs, their bodies are fattened, their hearts are hardened, and their desires are uncontrollable.”31

  • Treatment of others

When you are in the state of fasting for the pleasure of Allah subḥānahu wa ta'āla (glorified and exalted be He), you should not be engaging in things that earn His displeasure. The people around you should be safe from your temper, your words, and your illicit actions. The month of Ramadan is about working towards bettering yourself in your deen and there is nothing more reflective of a person than their character. Ibn al-Qayyim (rahimahullah) said:

الدِّينُ كُلُّهُ خُلُقٌ فَمَنْ زَادَ عَلَيْكَ فِي الْخُلُقِ زَادَ عَلَيْكَ فِي الدِّينِ.

“The religion itself is entirely good character, so whoever surpasses you in character has surpassed you in religion.”32

The Messenger of Allah ﷺ  said “When one of you wakes up in the morning for fasting, then he should not use obscene language or behave foolishly. If anyone abuses him or fights with him, he should say twice: Indeed, I am fasting.”33

Of course, this is how you should behave at all times but the emphasis is even stronger in Ramadan – as mentioned by Imam an-Nawawi (rahimahullah) in his explanation of this hadith.34

Allah ﷻ exemplifies this response in Surah al-Furqan. He ﷻ tells us:

“And the (faithful) slaves of the Most Gracious (Allah) are those who walk on the earth in humility and sedateness, and when the foolish address them (with bad words) they reply back with mild words of gentleness.” [Surah Al-Furqan: 25;63]

He ﷺ  also taught us that “whoever does not leave evil words and deeds while fasting, Allah does not need him to leave food and drink.”35

The beloved companion of RasulAllah, Jabir ibn Abdullah raḍyAllāhu 'anhu (may Allāh be pleased with him) said:

إذا صمت فليصم سمعك وبصرك ولسانك عن الكذب والمحارم، ودع أذى الجار، وليكن عليك وقار وسكينه يوم صومك، ولا تجعل يوم صومك وفطرك سواء

“If you fast, then guard your ears, eyes and tongue against lies and evil deeds; do not abuse your servants; be tranquil and dignified on the day you observe fasting; do not let the day when you do not fast and the day when you fast be the same.”36

When Ramadan would start, Ali raḍyAllāhu 'anhu (may Allāh be pleased with him) would address the Muslims and tell them:

هَذَا الشَّهْرُ الْمُبَارَكُ الَّذِي فَرَضَ اللهُ صِيَامَهُ وَلَمْ يَفْرِضْ قِيَامَهُ أَلَا إِنَّ الصِّيَامَ لَيْسَ مِنَ الطَّعَامِ وَالشَّرَابِ وَلَكِنْ مِنَ الْكَذِبِ وَالْبَاطِلِ

“This is the blessed month in which Allah has obligated fasting and not obligated night prayers. Certainly, fasting is not merely from food and drink, but rather from lying, falsehood, and vain talk.”37

Another great caliph, Ameer al-Mu’mineen, Umar ibn al-Khattab raḍyAllāhu 'anhu (may Allāh be pleased with him) would advise people that “fasting is not merely from food and drink alone. Rather, it is from lies, falsehood, vain talk, and swearing.”38

It is important that we try to protect our fasts from that which detracts from it. There is great importance placed on each of us attending taraweeh, completing the recitation of the Qur’an, and those things that enhance our reward this month but what about that which takes away from it? Mujahid ibn Jabr (rahimahullah), the great student of Ibn Abbas, said “Whoever avoids two things, then his fast will be safe: backbiting and telling lies.”39

  • I’tikaf 

It was from the habit of the Prophet ﷺ to spend a part of his Ramadan in the seclusion of the Masjid. Ibn Umar raḍyAllāhu 'anhu (may Allāh be pleased with him) shared with us that the Prophet ﷺ  would perform i’tikaf in the final ten days of Ramadan.40 In particular, his aim was to catch the night of honor – Laylat al-Qadr. He ﷺ  would do this each year from when he entered Madinah, except for twenty days in the final year of his Prophethood as, according to Ibn Hajr, he was traveling the previous year.41 He ﷺ  would never abandon this act of worship and had immense love for it, and hence Ibn Shihab al-Zuhri (rahimahullah) was astonished that many Muslims had abandoned it.42

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I’tikaf provides an opportunity to free you from the distractions that prevent you from re-connecting with Allah ﷻ. It protects you from wasting time in idle talk with friends, from excessively sleeping and generally doing other than what allows you to maximize your reward. It motivates someone to only that which draws them closer to Allah subḥānahu wa ta'āla (glorified and exalted be He) and earns His pleasure. 

If it is not possible to spend the entirety of the last ten nights in the masjid, it is also possible for us to intend to spend a shorter period of time for the sake of Allah subḥānahu wa ta'āla (glorified and exalted be He). Imam an-Nawawi (rahimahullah) said “With regard to the minimum length of time for i’tikaf , the majority stipulated that it must be observed in the mosque, and that it is permissible to do a lot or a little, even an hour or a moment.”43 Abdur-Razzaq al-San’ani reported that Ya’la ibn Umayyah (rahimahullah) said:

إِنِّي لأَمْكُثُ فِي الْمَسْجِدِ السَّاعَةَ، وَمَا أَمْكُثُ إِلَّا لِأَعْتَكِفَ

“I am staying in the masjid for a period of time, and I am staying to observe i’tikaf.”44

If you make the intention to observe i’tikaf for a period of time, it is imperative that you fulfill it. Umar raḍyAllāhu 'anhu (may Allāh be pleased with him) once made the vow to spend one night of i’tikaf in Masjid al-Haram before he even accepted Islam and the Prophet ﷺ  told him to observe it. 45

Ibn Rajab (rahimahullah) mentions that the Messenger of Allah ﷺ  “would reserve a mat upon which he would seclude himself from people, not mixing with or paying attention to them. This is why Imam Ahmad (rahimahullah) did not recommend for the person doing i’tikaf to mix with anyone – not even to teach them knowledge or make them recite the Qur’an. Rather, the best thing to do is to be alone and free oneself to converse privately with one’s Lord, remember Him, and ask Him.”46

This is an extended period of time where someone is invited as a guest of Allah subḥānahu wa ta'āla (glorified and exalted be He), in His House –  to converse with Him, ask Him of our needs, and find comfort in His company ﷻ. 

Summary 

I pray that this is a transformative Ramadan for us all and one in which we feel a deep sense of connection to the Ramadan observed by RasulAllah ﷺ  and the righteous examples of the past. 

May Allah ﷻ allow us to enter the month of Ramadan, benefit from it, and accept it from us. May He grant us the tawfeeq to continue in the goodness beyond the month and cut off bridges to sin. May it be a means for us to increase the distance between us and the hellfire and bring us closer to Jannah and the company of our beloved Rasul ﷺ. May He subḥānahu wa ta'āla (glorified and exalted be He) aid our brothers and sisters in Gaza and all parts of the world that are facing oppression, accept them as martyrs, and give them the ability to witness many more Ramadans. May He ﷻ unite us all in Jannah and grant us forgiveness. 

 

Related:

The Ramadan Of The Early Muslims I Sh Suleiman Hani

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1    Saheeh al-Bukhari 17822    Zad al-Ma’ad 2/303    Hilyat al-Awliya 3/694    Ithaf al-Sadah al-Mutaqqin bi Sharh Ihya ‘Ulum al-Din 4/250 5    Saheeh al-Bukhari 3623, Saheeh Muslim 24056    Saheeh al-Bukhari 35547    Lata’if al-Ma’arif, pg 359-3608    Lata’if al-Ma’arif, pg 1719    Lata’if al-Ma’arif, pg 17110    Musnad Ahmad 662611    Tarikh Baghdad 2/6112    Musannaf of Abdur Razzaq as-San’ani 1/56513    Sunan Abi Dawud 139014    Lata’if al-Ma’arif, pg 17115    Saheeh al-Bukhari 200916    Musnad Ahmad 5/40017     Sunan Ibn Majah 132718    Al-Istidkhar, Ibn Abd al-Barr 5/15119    Sharh az-Zarqani ‘ala Muwatta al-Imam Malik, 1/42120    Sharh az-Zarqani ‘ala Muwatta al-Imam Malik, 1/42821    Sunan Abi Dawud 139822    Saheeh al-Bukhari 355423    Al-Hawi al-Kabir fi Fiqh al-Shafi’i 3/47924    Sunan Ibn Majah 174625    Lata’if al-Ma’arif pg 18326    Tafseer Ibn Rajab 2/17727    Hilyat al-Awliya’ 1/29928    Sunan Ibn Majah 335129    Al Juu’ pg. 69, Ibn Abi Dunya 30    Hilyat al-Awliya 10/12931    Al Juu’ pg. 43, Ibn Abi Dunya32    Madarij al-Salikin 2/29433    Saheeh Muslim 115134    Al-Minhaj bi Sharh Saheeh Muslim, Imam an-Nawawi 8/21735    Saheeh al-Bukhari 190336    Musannaf ibn Abi Shaybah 2/42237    Al-Sunan al-Kubra li Bayhaqi 795538    Musannaf ibn Abi Shaybah 2/27239    Musannaf ibn Abi Shaybah 2/27240    Saheeh Muslim 1171a41    Fath al-Bari 4/33442    Fath al-Bari 4/33443    Al-Majmu’ Sharh al-Muhaddhab 6/51444    Musannaf of Abdur Razzaq as-San’ani 5/8145    Sunan al-Nasa’i 382146    Lata’aif al-Ma’arif pg. 438

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Podcast: Why Should Muslims Fight for Human Rights?

29 February, 2024 - 11:00


Why should Muslims fight for human rights? Isn’t it all a rigged game and pointless? Hena Zuberi, human rights activist, talks to Zainab bint Younus about the Islamic importance of fighting for human rights, and the price Muslims in the West must pay for their privileges.

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Podcast: Gaza’s Strength, Our Weakness | Shaykha Zaynab Ansari

27 February, 2024 - 16:21


How can we remain firm in our faith in light of everything we are witnessing from Palestine? Shaykha Zaynab Ansari provides insight and guidance on how Muslims can spiritually and emotionally process the genocide in Gaza, understanding Qadaa’ and Qadr, and explaining what it means to be patient but not passive in the face of injustice. Tune into this episode for a powerful spiritual reminder of what it means to hold tight to our belief in Allah’s Ultimate Wisdom in a devastating time of catastrophe.

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Podcast: Sitti’s Key: A Palestinian Tale | Sahar Khader

25 February, 2024 - 11:00

Sahar Khader, the author of children’s Palestinian book “Sitti’s Key,” talks about the importance of telling Palestinian stories, the challenges of getting published as a Palestinian author, and and the mainstream publishing industry’s censorship of Palestinian voices. During this time of intense suppression in the midst of the genocide of Palestinians in Gaza, don’t forget how important it is to uplift Palestinian voices!

Order Sitti’s Key from Crescent Moon Bookstore, and use the code MBR for a discount!

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From The Chaplain’s Desk: Prep Guide For Ramadan On Campus

24 February, 2024 - 11:00

Alḥamdulillah, it’s almost that time of year again. That time of the year that is marked by a mixed bag of emotions; happiness, joy, excitement, enthusiasm, anticipation, worry, stress, anxiety, and concern. Through the grace and mercy of Allah ﷻ Ramaḍān is right around the corner. In just a few days, we’ll be welcoming this very special guest that comes and visits us every single year.

In the past several weeks, anyone I’ve spoken with expresses amazement at how fast this year has gone by. It truly feels as if Ramaḍān wasn’t too long ago, but it has already been a year. In this past year, people have come and gone. There are several individuals we know who witnessed and experienced Ramaḍān with us last year, but won’t be with us this year as they have transitioned to the mercy of Allah ﷻ. We have grown, completed another year of school, and had several experiences. Time is one of the most unique and intriguing creations and blessings of Allah ﷻ. It is our responsibility to figure out how to preserve the gift of time and take advantage of it. 

For some students, the build-up to Ramaḍān can sometimes create a feeling of stress and anxiety. How are we going to wake up for suḥūr, fast for so long, pray tarāwīh, and still attend our classes, take notes, study, and do well on our midterms and finals? When am I going to sleep?! Coffee! All of these feelings are totally normal, and usually through the blessings of Ramaḍān, they melt away after the first few days.

Allah ﷻ facilitates ease for us during this month, allowing us to do amazing things that we thought we would be unable to do. We are about to witness the beginning of the month of worship (praying, fasting, recitation of the Quran, duʿā, dhikr, etc.), gratitude, generosity, service, God-consciousness, mercy, and forgiveness. Allah ﷻ will be giving us another opportunity to reconnect with Him and earn His pleasure, mercy, grace, pardon, and forgiveness. 

Preparing for Ramaḍān as a college/university student can be a very beneficial, fulfilling, and challenging experience that allows us to balance our responsibilities to Allah ﷻ, others, spiritual growth, and studies. The following is a guide for preparing for Ramaḍān and benefitting from its blessings as a busy (perhaps 🙂I say that because during my student days, my friends and I had a lot of free time!) college/university student.

  1.   Intentions – One of the most important and fundamental steps when preparing for anything is clarifying and purifying our intentions. As the Prophet ﷺ said, “Actions are only by intentions and every person will only get what they intend.”1 Our primary intention for fasting the month of Ramaḍān is to obey Allah’s subḥānahu wa ta'āla (glorified and exalted be He) command as an expression of our love, gratitude, devotion, submission, servitude, and surrender so that we can earn His pleasure. We can then make secondary intentions in the form of micro or macro goals. For example, perhaps I want to recite or memorize more Quran, become consistent with my prayers, improve the quality of my prayers, be more generous, or quit a bad habit. We should take some time to identify our personal goals for Ramaḍān, write them down, plan out how to practically achieve them, and then get to work! The beautiful thing about Ramaḍān is that Allah ﷻ facilitates ease for us and makes these goals attainable.
  2. Learn – Before the month of Ramaḍān begins, we should take some time to learn about its blessings, virtues, rewards, rules, and regulations. I would recommend reading through the aḥādīth on the virtues of Ramaḍān, fasting, charity, prayer, and recitation of the Quran in Riyāḍ al-Ṣāliḥīn. Review the fiqh of fasting according to whatever school of thought you may follow. Perhaps attend a local class or seminar that covers these topics, or better yet organize one for your MSA/MSU with your local scholar. Ramadan on campus

    Ramadan on Campus – PC: Priscilla du Preez (unsplash)

  3. Plan Your Schedule – Start by assessing your class and study schedule during Ramaḍān. Adjust your timetable to accommodate prayer times, especially Fajr, Maghrib, and ʿIshā prayers. Ideally, try to pray Fajr, ʿIshā, and Tarāwīḥ at your local masjid. Make sure you have enough time for suḥūr (pre-dawn meal) and iftār (breaking the fast). Coordinate with professors or supervisors if necessary to manage academic commitments during fasting hours. Dedicate a set time to reciting the Quran along with translation. 
  4. Time Management – Balancing academic commitments with religious observance during Ramaḍān requires effective time management. Prioritize tasks, allocate specific study hours, and utilize breaks between classes for spiritual activities such as reading Quran, making dhikr (remembrance of Allah subḥānahu wa ta'āla (glorified and exalted be He)), or reading religious books. Setting realistic goals and sticking to a campus routine will help you stay productive throughout the month. An essential part of time management during this blessed month is to cut down on distractions. I would personally recommend deleting all your social media accounts for the month (take a social media break), suspending your Netflix/Hulu/prime or any other streaming services, and avoiding music altogether. Replace any music you may listen to with Quranic recitation or beneficial lectures and reminders. Believe me, spending a month away from these things will not take anything away from your life or somehow lead you to a life of boredom. It will enrich your life and improve your spiritual health. 
  5. Connect with the Campus Community – Engage with the Muslim community on campus to foster a supportive environment during Ramaḍān. Participate in group activities such as iftār gatherings, tarawīḥ prayers, Quran study circles, and community service projects. Building bonds with fellow students will enhance your sense of belonging and strengthen your spiritual journey. I would highly recommend: daily MSA/MSU suḥūr/iftār, praying all your prayers in congregation while you’re on campus, carpools for Fajr and ʿIshā, and a daily Quran reading and reflection circle an hour before iftār.
  6. Pray Tarāwīh Nightly – The Prophet ﷺ said, “Whoever stands at night in prayer during Ramaḍān with faith and sincerity, then all of their previous sins will be forgiven.”2 According to most scholars, this ḥadīth refers to the unique night prayer of Ramaḍān that is performed after ʿIshā known as Tarāwīḥ. Make a habit of praying this extra prayer nightly throughout the month.  
  7. Make a habit of reading the Quran – The month of Ramaḍān is the month of the Quran. We should set realistic goals for our recitation throughout the month. For some, this may be doing several completions of the Quran, for others one, and for others perhaps even reading a few pages or verses a day. Whatever it may be, we should set realistic goals that we can achieve and maintain on a regular and consistent basis. Perhaps organize a communal/group Quran reading on campus daily 30-40 minutes before ifṭār. 

May Allah ﷻ accept all our fasts, prayers, charity, and any other act of righteousness we do in this blessed month and make it a means for us to attain the forgiveness and mercy of Allah ﷻ. Āmīn!

 

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1    https://sunnah.com/nasai:752    https://sunnah.com/bukhari:1901

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Courtship Stories From The MSA: You Found “The One” In Your MSA [Part 5]

13 February, 2024 - 17:10

You’ve been hanging onto the edge of your seats for this final installment in the “You Found ‘The One’ In Your MSA” series! This is when I share real-life MSA courtship stories and romances that I know of. These examples help me convince you to be very careful about how you move forward and consider the advice I’ve shared in this series with you!

Previously in this series: Part 1 | Part 2| Part 3 |Part 4

 

College is a great opportunity to stay on the lookout for a spouse–no matter how much of a joke and stereotype that sounds like! You have some baseline compatibility: your level of education, your age, your religiosity, your volunteer efforts with the MSA, your alma mater, and geographical location. That’s a pretty good start, honestly. So, of course, there are so many stories of courtships and romances, on various points of the spectrums of happy and sad and halal and haram. All of these stories can act as valuable case studies to help you navigate your own courtships on the path to marriage.

MSA Courtship Gone Wrong  – Moving Forward Without Having The Marriage Talk With Your Parents First

One of my good friends in the MSA was approached by a brother for marriage. He had sent a proposal through a local shaykh that the sister’s family had a very good relationship with. Her parents met with the shaykh and this brother, and her parents were really happy with the suitor. The brother and sister started talking to get to know each other with the sister’s parent’s approval and she realized that they’d work out as a great couple. 

What happens next? Her parents want to meet with his family and get things official now that they hear their daughter is certain of her decision to marry this brother. When they’ve reached this stage in their courtship, the brother now approaches his parents telling them that he wants to get married and he’s found the perfect girl from his MSA. The brother and sister I speak of are from completely different ethnic backgrounds. The brother’s family had a strong preference that he marry someone from within his own ethnic background, and this became a huge problem. In the meantime, the sister’s family is waiting to hear from the brother’s family…but the brother is trying to convince his family to change their mind about this issue. Now he’s getting the shaykh involved, hoping he’ll have a successful intervention with his family. 

Finally, the brother’s parents agree to meet the sister and her family. While meeting with his family, this sister noticed that she and her family weren’t being respected and treated nicely. She made istikhaarah and she had a very bad feeling about moving forward. She told me it broke her heart to walk away from that courtship because she really believed that the two of them fit so well together. He was a great brother in so many ways and their lifestyles and family life expectations were in line…but she couldn’t overlook the disapproval from the brother’s family about her racial background. She told me, “When I thought of how they would treat my kids, seeing them so dark-skinned and looking so different from everyone else in their family, I couldn’t go forward with it.” She told me that it took her a long time to heal from that and move forward. 

By the way, she confided this all to me when I visited her at her home the day before she was getting married to someone else she was introduced to through family. She mentioned how she was so relieved to move out of state after getting married because the brother from the MSA had told his fiancé, another girl from the MSA, about their courtship and she was hostile towards my friend. Go figure! This brother’s poor judgment also extended insofar as telling his fiancé about the other women he pursued in the MSA…

Who is to blame for all of this heartbreak? You would be rash to accuse the brother’s parents, although it is tempting. I blame the brother. Had he just approached his parents like an adult and told them about his desire to get married, they could have had the conversations they needed then. He could have heard how vehemently they needed him to marry a girl “from our village.” If he disagreed, he could have worked on his parents on his own, trying to convince them otherwise. He could have called in support from the shaykh or friends or family who would be on his side and think the way he does–that ethnic heritage and racial background are tertiary matters when considering a potential spouse. 

But he wasn’t mature enough to face his parents and do the necessary work. How dare he drag a sister and her family into a courtship that he didn’t even know his parents would consider valid? 

Luckily for this brother and sister, they didn’t end up resorting to a haram relationship to wait out the storm his parents caused because her family was involved. They had a chaperone, the local imam, from the beginning and this kept them on course. But imagine if you don’t have the families or a chaperone involved at all? You might start making compromises you would have never expected yourself to make. 

 – Asking About Someone When You Know Your Parents Don’t Want You To Get Married

Hey, this story is about me! I mentioned briefly in Part 2 about a brother who asked a shaykh to inquire about me. This happened at an Ilm Summit I attended years ago (Ilm Summit marriages, college MSA marriages–same boat). I was still in undergrad but this guy was in professional school. I had made it a rule to never reject someone without talking to them at least once, taking the advice of my marriage-mentor friend. I had no clue who this brother was, so I asked one of my friends back home to stalk this guy online. That’s what good friends do for you! There were some strange things that came up about him, mostly shirtless pictures of him with scantily clad women on beaches all over his social media, and so I had a handful of reservations about him. 

I put those hesitations aside and called my mom to tell her about this. At this point in my life, my mom had already ambushed me six months before with a surprise rishta meet-up so “I was out” on the marriage market, to put it in Jane Austen terminology. She said the first step would be for the brother’s mom to get in touch with her directly. It turns out that our families grew up only 30 minutes away from each other and my mom knew of his family. So, I gave the shaykh my mom’s phone number, which he passed to the brother. In the meantime, my mom made inquiries about their family from mutual friends. My mom is waiting for a phone call, but no phone call comes. I check back in with the shaykh at my mom’s insistence, and also at my annoyance that I’m being stood up by some random bro. After a little back-and-forth, the shaykh lets me know that this brother’s family is not willing for him to get married until he finishes up his graduate studies. Imagine how annoyed my mom and I were.

To make things worse, being ghosted by him haunted me as I had unwittingly interacted with his female family members.  I met his mother shortly after this twice the next Ramadan. On one of these occasions, I spent over five minutes chatting with this brother’s mom. After the first instance, my mother told me who I was talking to and then pointed out that the brother was standing near us while I talked to his mom. I was simultaneously mortified and upset–what impression may I have given to the brother or his family? I swore to myself I would memorize her face and avoid her at all costs for the rest of Ramadan. A few years later, I went for Hajj with his sister without realizing who she was until later. It just put a sour taste in my mouth, do you know what I mean? It also made me wonder if something about me or my family wasn’t good enough in their family’s eyes. Being in the marriage market put me in a delicate, self-conscious state and it was too much to handle. It reminded me of a difficult and frustrating experience that I’d rather forget.  

 – Going Rogue With No Families Involved At All MSA courtship

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Here’s one of many stories I’ve heard of a brother and sister in the MSA contacting each other for marriage and then they end up dating for years because they’re not ready to involve their parents. 

When I was a freshman in college, a junior had befriended me and was my MSA mentor. I loved talking to her and hanging out with her and I felt so cool having an upperclassman as a friend. Then one day, she sends me an IM (instant message) telling me she has a secret she wants to tell me about. Her secret? That she is “best friends” with one of the brothers from the MSA. I’m thinking to myself –what the flip does that mean?- and so I ask her. She tells me that they’re best friends waiting to get married. Still, I’m confused, so I probe further. Neither of them are ready to ask their parents if they can get married–he’s a sophomore and she’s a junior. So in the meantime, they’re just “best friends” waiting it out together.

BS! You’d call that boyfriend and girlfriend, not best friends! Even if they’re just in an emotionally intimate and committed relationship, it is still haram. For some reason, however, many dismiss these situationships very easily as not that bad because nothing gets physical–without acknowledging that emotional damage can be very devastating. 

So I told my friend that I didn’t approve of her secret best friend and thought they should end their mutual understanding. She told me she had tried to cut him off in the past, but it hadn’t worked. I asked her to try again and she said she wouldn’t. I ended my friendship with this sister. Why? I didn’t want to be dragged down into the secret MSA dating scene and I knew that being close to her would put me at the risk of falling into that sin myself. I was much more concerned about self-preservation than having friends who were bad company.

Thankfully I ended up making other friends and was spared from having to interact with her that much for the rest of the time I was in undergrad. I also knew what she was doing was something I was so staunchly against that I wouldn’t be able to be chill or friendly like before with her anymore, no matter how hard I tried. It would be better for me and better for us, no matter how I looked at it. 

But what happened to these best friends determined to get married? They broke up while they were in undergrad, I’m not sure why. Both brother and sister BFFs got together with other people in the MSA. One of these new spin-off couples dated openly, even around the MSA and at MSA events (I have a lot of feelings about that, but at least they weren’t totally hypocritical like the rest of the secret MSA couples). Interestingly both these new couples got married in the end. Looking at some wedding pictures, I was thinking to myself…isn’t it weird for the groom to be hugging his wife’s ex-boyfriend at his own wedding? Their problem, not mine.

 – Giving It Up And Getting Ghosted

Apparently, this is a story that played on repeat while I was in the MSA. A brother and sister become involved. It starts out as an emotional attachment. The brother reassures the sister they will get married as soon as he graduates from undergrad or gets into medical school. In the meantime, the relationship starts getting physical. The brother gradually begins to pressure the sister to have intercourse with him as they move further and further along. She’s caught feelings for this brother and believes they will get married soon enough. They finally have sex and continue to for some period of time and then he dumps her. Although both parties consent to some degree, the sister would not have gotten there without proper encouragement from the brother. 

This situation was common enough that the sophomore sisters in the MSA had an infamous meeting with the freshman girls and warned them against letting a brother talk them into giving it up on the pretense of getting married. There was a divorced sister in our MSA who also mentioned to me that multiple girls confided in her that they were in sexually active relationships with brothers in the MSA without having a clue how to prevent pregnancies or safeguard against STDs. She was the one who advised them to start taking birth control pills and insisted on using condoms every time. She also told me that these brothers and sisters ranged from the ones who came around the MSA occasionally to the ones who led prayers and were memorizing the Quran. She also told me of masjid parking lot hook-ups in cars. Needless to say, I was in tears when she told me all of these stories. 

The only advice I can give someone about a situation like this is to avoid getting into a relationship until you and your family are ready for you to be married. Some Muslim couples can box their covert relationships into an emotional plane and remain there until marriage. However, others cannot–at no fault to them. It is only natural for emotional feelings to be expressed in physical ways. Shaytan is always the third party when a man and woman, or any mutually attracted parties, are alone together. It is difficult to control and stifle strong feelings, so don’t put yourself in a testing position. If someone is promising you they will marry you, then save yourself until marriage. If you truly care about the other person, you should also care about their hereafter.

Courtship Stories From The MSA: When It Went Right!  – Going Directly To Her Dad

After I got married, I moved to a small college town with a tight-knit, very active Muslim community. There, one of my husband’s friends had approached him one night to ask him about a sister he had noticed at the masjid. My husband and this sister had worked together for the masjid’s Sunday school. Knowing that, this brother wanted my husband’s opinion of her. Within the next week, he had decided to move forward with a proposal of interest and he asked to meet the sister’s father. Bam! Engaged in a week! Look at that, mashaAllah. She was in undergrad at the time and he was in graduate school. They had a nikkah period and then had a bigger wedding later when they moved in together. Later on, this friend told me what a sensation it caused in her family for this young man to be so direct and ask for her hand. Mad props to that brother for diving in headfirst! 

 – A Missed Opportunity…Or A Match Destined in Heaven? MSA courtship

PC: Photos by Lanty (unsplash)

One of my good friends in undergrad was determined to be a matchmaker. Poor soul. She had shipped one of our friends and a brother in the MSA and was determined to get them married. She approached a local imam and asked him to inquire about the brother on our friend’s behalf without telling our friend first. This brother was not ready to get married–he knew he wanted to go to graduate school and that his finances wouldn’t allow him to take on the responsibility of having a wife in the picture. So he politely declined, telling the imam he wouldn’t be ready for a few years due to his finances while he was pursuing his career after graduating. 

When my friend found out about the Shakespearean plot they undertook behind her back, she was mad. It created an uncomfortable dynamic between the brother and my friend–the brother thinking that my friend was interested in him and then believing he had rejected her. 

Years later, my friend is at a family party and she meets a woman she totally loves. It turns out the feeling is mutual. This woman calls my friend’s aunt telling her that she’s looking for her nephew to get married and she thinks my friend and him would be a great match. Guess who it turned out to be? You’re sitting at your computer screen yelling, NO WAY! Yes. Yes way. It turned out to be this brother from the MSA that our friends had tried to set my friend up with years ago. It took a lot for my friend to come around after resenting the scheme that caused her so much embarrassment, but they got married in the end! They are such a good match for each other! I hadn’t heard about this whole drama in undergrad, but my friend spilled the tea when she called me to tell me she was engaged to this brother. 

So many times we think that if we don’t act now while we’re both in college, that person will slip through our fingers. But that’s not necessarily true. When Allah subḥānahu wa ta'āla (glorified and exalted be He) has written for two people to be together, they will find each other in the end. Look at the years of a haram relationship they were saved from because the brother was simply mature enough to say, “This isn’t a responsibility I can manage for the next few years.” Masha’Allah. I love their whole story.

 – Getting Matched By A Community Member

Another good story coming out of my MSA was when a community member involved with the MSA matched two graduating seniors. The story goes that she thought they would be a great match, so she facilitated connecting them and their families to each other. I was so happy to hear that their story was such an innocent and beautiful one, because back then finding out people I respected were in haram MSA relationships really messed with my head.

 – Going Through A Shaykh

Remember that brother with a racist family who got a shaykh involved and then the sister was left heartbroken? Well, this same shaykh was approached by another brother in the MSA. He wanted to send a proposal to a sister in the MSA and so the shaykh facilitated it. Their families were connected and the brother and sister ended up getting married, alhamdulillah. The brother at the time was in graduate school and the sister was still in undergrad. This sister told me that her family was not even considering marriage for her and getting married would complicate how her college tuition would get paid for. There were some logistical hurdles they had to clear, but they figured them out. Even when a family may be hesitant for a child to get married due to how young they are or the fact that they still have to finish up college, coming honorably with a respected community leader can make a huge difference. Also, this brother is a very good guy and her father knew he would be foolish to stand in the way of a very good future for his daughter. Such a good ending!

Courtship Stories From The MSA: Somewhere In The Middle  – They Ended Up Married In The End…What’s The Big Deal?

Another woman I know wriggled her way into a relationship with a brother very early on in college. One of the individuals was in a very difficult position with their family, and so the move towards marriage took at least a few years. In the meantime, this couple had their haram relationship going–hanging on to the idea they’d get married one day. Things eventually worked out between the two of them and they got married! How exciting and what a relief, right? 

Well, their transition from an emotional relationship (mostly online) into a real-world relationship sharing the same space was not easy. This person mentioned being physically intimate was very difficult for them and after months of being married they still hadn’t managed to consummate the marriage. I’m not sure what compounding factors were making this aspect of their marriage so difficult, but maybe they were dealing with a lot of baggage from their years of enforcing the “halal gap” and had trouble bridging that gap after marriage. 

I know of another situation similar to that. This marriage ended due to a disconnect once the individuals finally got married. This couple had been secretly dating since high school, mostly contacting each other over the phone and messaging online. They finally got married after graduating from college. Having been together for almost a decade in a haram, mostly online relationship, these individuals had incredible difficulty with physical intimacy in addition to other defects in character they didn’t have a chance to uncover until after marriage. This one, sadly, ended in divorce.

There is a reason Islam has an “all-or-nothing” approach to romantic relationships. It’s unnatural to separate emotional intimacy and physical intimacy. Many times Muslims will be like celibate best friends when they’re in relationships they know they shouldn’t be in. Maybe there’s something that makes it incredibly difficult to turn off the guilt and reconnect all the layers of intimacy together once they finally get married.

 – Long Engagement And A Baby Soon After Marriage

Another couple from an academic program I was in has a story somewhere in the middle of a success and horror story because they were in an extended courtship that lasted for years before they married. Right after the program, a brother approaches a sister’s aunt to confide in her that he is interested in her niece for marriage and would like to speak to her to see if they are compatible. The aunt knows that the sister’s mother does not want her daughter to get married. Nevertheless, the aunt tells the brother to approach the sister and begin talking for marriage. The aunt gives them a period of time to get to know each other and decide to get married. The brother wasn’t on the sister’s radar at all, and so the sister wants to take her time. They end up talking to determine whether or not they want to get married for three years! Both had finished undergrad before they started speaking.

No doubt during these three years of determining their mutual compatibility, they’ve grown to become celibate boyfriend and girlfriend. In the meantime, the aunt has been slowly trying to get the mother to warm up to the idea that her daughter is ready for marriage. Sadly, the brother had not approached his family, either, and they did not consent to him getting married until after he finished graduate school. Eventually, both families agreed to let the two get engaged. A local imam had tried multiple times to reason with the families and allow the couple to have their nikkah at the engagement party so that they could operate their long-distance emotional relationship within halal boundaries. But no. Their engagement was also excruciatingly long and lasted for a few years. They finally got married after seven years, alhamdulillah. On the eve of their wedding, I was texting back and forth with the bride and she told me, “It’s been so long. I just want to finally give him a hug.” Shortly after their wedding, they had unexpectedly conceived their first child and were not thrilled about the timing. After being forced to wait so long to get married, they wanted some time to themselves before starting a family. This was the most heartbreaking moment for me to experience in their relationship. 

The mistakes here are many. The first is that the brother did not consult with his family before approaching the sister. The second is that the person he entrusted, the sister’s aunt, was not a worthy mediator who could take up the role of third-party messenger responsibly. The positives here are many. The brother approached a family member of the sister he was interested in. The couple began to talk about marriage as the intention out in the open, although there wasn’t enough oversight from a chaperone to help keep this period reasonably short. The couple got a local imam that both families knew and liked involved to help advocate on their behalf for a speedy marriage. The couple resisted physical temptations until they were married and didn’t have an issue moving to the physical after marriage. This situation is a mixed bag of good and bad and a great example to learn from. 

Final Thoughts

Navigating the marriage and courtship process can be overwhelming and confusing, so make sure you have a couple of trusted mentors to rely on to help guide you. Whatever the outcome may be with this particular MSA prospective, I pray you find your destined life partner sooner, rather than later. Most importantly, I wish you happiness with your spouse in this life and the next!

 

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Over Five Decades On: Bangladesh’s Crisis Of Islam, Politics, And Justice

13 February, 2024 - 10:56

As Bangladesh reflects on passing another Victory Day on December 16, the nation stands at a critical juncture, confronting some of the most challenging moments in its 52-year history. It is no exaggeration to claim that the country is grappling with almost insurmountable political, geostrategic, and human rights crises, compounded by recent elections held just last month that were marred by allegations of being neither free nor fair.

The people of what was once East Pakistan, now Bangladesh, endured significant persecution and discrimination from the rulers in West Pakistan, both politically and economically. The oppressive policies, language disparities, and neglect of East Pakistani needs led to widespread discontent and a push for autonomy. The refusal to acknowledge the Awami League’s electoral victory under Sheikh Mujibur Rahman in 1970, sparked an intense yearning for independence. The war in 1971 saw countless civilians killed, injured, sexually assaulted, and displaced in a spate of brutal violence by the Pakistan armed forces. Bangladesh emerged from these events, founded on the core principles of democracy, freedom of expression, and self-determination – principles that resonate with the tenets of justice and equality. However, under the Hasina regime, the nation’s trajectory seems to diverge sharply from the aspirations championed by her father.

Internal Election Issues and External Impact

The historical context of Bangladesh has firmly rooted the principle of ‘consent of the governed’ as a central value for its people. Yet, a stark discrepancy emerges when examining the electoral processes in Bangladesh since Sheikh Hasina’s ascendancy. Every election conducted under the Awami League regime, such as those in 2014, 2018, and 2024, has been widely perceived as biased, manipulated, and flawed. Despite being founded on democratic ideals, these consistent electoral irregularities highlight a troubling reality: politicians maintain power without a genuine mandate from a significant portion of the populace.

As Bangladesh has now concluded its 2024 election and the United States intensified pressure on the government for a free and fair electoral process, the role of India in Bangladesh’s politics has resurfaced in discussions. Following the U.S.’s announcement of a new visa policy in May 2023 to support democracy in Bangladesh, some Indian commentators have argued that it is ‘not the right time’ for such support and there is necessity for Delhi to ensure Hasina remains in power

Just prior to the election, GM Quader and Mujibul Haque Chunnu, the chairman and general secretary of the Jatiya Party respectively, met with Rajesh Kumar Agnihotri, the Minister at the High Commission of India in Bangladesh. Intriguingly, Agnihotri and seven other Indian embassy staff were accused of espionage and terrorism by Pakistan’s Ministry of Foreign Affairs.

For almost the whole year, the Jatiya Party (JP), the primary opposition in parliament against the ruling Awami League, was ambivalent about participating in the election. However, on November 22, Chunnu unexpectedly announced on Quader’s behalf that the Jatiya Party would contest in nearly all 300 constituencies. Acting as controlled opposition, this resulted in JP winning 11 seats that were not contested by the Awami League, and 62 independent candidates winning seats, with 58 of them being ruling party leaders.

This sudden shift had raised questions, especially considering Quader’s previous public statements about the likelihood of Western sanctions if the election proceeds under the current conditions. The only conceivable explanation seems to be intense coercion by external forces, possibly RAW (India’s foreign intelligence agency) agents, to lend a façade of legitimacy to this lopsided election by ensuring the Jatiya Party’s enthusiastic participation.

These recent electoral maneuvers are symptomatic of a broader pattern of policies that underscore Bangladesh’s subservience to Indian government interests, often at the expense of its own people.

Indo-Bangladesh Relations: A Tilted Scale Bangladesh Hasina

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Concerns among Bangladeshi analysts are growing over what appears to be an increasingly lopsided relationship favoring India under the Hasina regime. Bangladesh has extended significant support to India, including efforts to combat insurgency in its Northeastern region, providing transit access, granting India permanent use of key Bay of Bengal ports, and entering into a costly energy deal. Additionally, Bangladesh has agreed to a surveillance system installation in the Bay of Bengal and a water-sharing deal giving India control over the Kushiyara River, alongside deepening defense cooperation.

In stark contrast, Bangladesh’s interests have often been sidelined. The long-standing request for a Teesta River water-sharing agreement remains unaddressed; the India-Bangladesh border witnesses the Indian Border Security Force killing innocent Bangladeshis; the trade imbalance increasingly tilts in India’s favor; and Bangladesh has not garnered Indian support in handling the Rohingya refugee crisis.

In 2018, Sheikh Hasina, responding to a query about reciprocity from India, remarked that India would forever remember Bangladesh’s contributions. This comment reflects the ongoing imbalance in bilateral relations, sustained largely by India’s unwavering support for the Hasina government. Notably, in the wake of the controversial 2014 elections, India’s Foreign Secretary Sujatha Singh reportedly pressured the Jatiya Party, led by General H.M. Ershad, to participate in the election boycotted by opposition parties. In 2018, despite clear signs of the Awami League’s erosion of democratic norms and institutions, India’s support has remained steadfast. 

These actions have fueled perceptions in Bangladesh that India’s backing is crucial for the Hasina government’s survival, raising questions about the true independence of Bangladesh’s internal affairs and the origin of skewed foreign policy. 

Exploring Bangladesh’s Ummatic Identity

The 1971 Liberation War fostered an alliance between Bangladesh and India, with expectations that India’s support would extend its influence over Bangladesh’s policies and counteract Pakistan and Islam’s influence in the subcontinent.

December 16, 1971, marked Bangladesh’s emergence as a sovereign nation, followed by Sheikh Mujibur Rahman’s initiation of trials against local collaborators and accused Pakistanis. Although Rahman established seventy-three special tribunals, a general amnesty led to the release of most prisoners and convicted individuals.

The Awami League’s 2008 electoral victory reactivated the dormant ICT Act, leading to the establishment of two tribunals in 2010 and 2012. Notably, leaders of Bangladesh Jamaat-e-Islami, an entity representing moderate Islamism and a political rival of the Awami League, were mostly charged, echoing Geoffrey Robertson’s critique of ‘victor’s justice’ and selective amnesty applications.

These trials, however, have been marred by political motivations, procedural irregularities, and lack of due process. The verdicts often relied on circumstantial evidence and hearsay, undermining their credibility. The infamous Skype scandal, involving inappropriate communication between a judge and a prosecution witness, further tainted the trials. Changes in the composition of the bench during critical trials, including those of Nizami and Azam, raised questions about the fairness of the verdicts, as judges who delivered final judgments were not privy to all the evidence.

In an ironic turn, the trials intended to serve as a beacon of justice for the atrocities of the 1971 war have, through their politicization, unfairness, and corruption, instead revealed a profound desecration of the very ideals once fought for by Sheikh Hasina and her regime. This effectively amounts to standing on the graves of innocent Bengali civilians, a betrayal of the memories of those who perished due to injustice and oppression.

The repression of Jamaat and BNP by the autocratic Hasina regime poses a serious threat to the stability and security of Bangladesh as it undermines the prospects for peace and fuels extremism. The West’s Islamophobia, which brands “brown” communities as “terrorists,” and Bangladesh’s tendency to associate “extremism” with anything Islamic in the public sphere, demonstrate the impact of colonialism and Indian influence on the political landscape.

In fact, Muslim-majority Bangladesh has experienced an increase in terrorist attacks on religious minorities, secularist and atheist writers, and bloggers because of exacerbating the problem by fueling extremism rather than effectively addressing concerns of legitimate political opponents. Following 7/16, Hasina rightly criticized these acts because of them maligning the name of Islam, and her allies and other politicians looped in BNP to say they were behind the attacks to destabilize Hasina’s rule.

Interestingly, when Bangladesh expresses concerns about the rise of Islamist or Shariah influence within the Republic, their apprehensions evidently extend beyond groups like Ansarullah Bangla Team, Jamaat-ul-Mujahideen, or ISIS. Rather, they are often more focused on moderate Islamist and reformist movements, such as the Muslim Brotherhood and Jamaat-e-Islami, and their allies operating in Bangladesh. These movements seek to employ political participation and activism to advance their objectives, which center around upholding religious principles, stewardship of the Earth, and the establishment of justice and prosperity—an agenda that challenges the stability of the South Asian political order, particularly when backed by public opinion.

Historically, India has demonstrated a tendency to suppress these movements through intervention in South Asia. Notable instances include Indian suppression of Kashmiri resistance, Indian involvement in influencing the 2013 ICT, and the development of state-sponsored Hindutva extremism across the subcontinent.

Conversely, terrorist attacks perpetrated by groups like Jamaat-ul-Mujahideen and ISIS have often provided Bangladesh with the pretext to redefine free speech laws, impose censorship, suppress certain groups, mischaracterize others, and expand terrorist watchlists. Consequently, within the framework of liberal democratic Bangladesh secular societies, the concept of freedom of speech has become an instrument measured by its capacity to maintain a superficial sense of social order of the Hasina regime, primarily benefiting Awami League elites and their associates.

Since these events, thousands of mosques have operated under the direct authority of the Islamic Foundation, with government-funded imams and employees overseeing their operations. Even mosques not overseen by the Islamic Foundation are subject to oversight from governing committees dominated by local ruling party politicians and administration.

Imams across the country have reported continued government influence in their appointment and removal, as well as guidance on the content of their sermons. Government-issued written instructions often highlight certain Quran verses and hadith with the goal of ensuring sermons align with government policy and avoid contradicting it.

Furthermore, Bangladesh has set a concerning precedent by banning moderate preachers based on accusations of hate speech. One notable example is the banning of Peace TV, a channel associated with renowned da’ee Zakir Naik, following an unfounded link between his speeches and the events of 7/16.

In 2020, the Bangladesh government took further steps by banning Mizanur Rahman Azhari, one of the country’s most popular speakers, from preaching at congregations due to his perceived anti-government sentiment. These actions are purportedly justified under the guise of counter-terrorism efforts, but they ultimately serve to suppress powerful orators who advocate for justice and speak truths that contradict the government’s policies and agenda.

The Rohingya Crisis and Hasina’s Failures Bangladesh - Rohingya

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The Rohingya crisis, perpetuated by the longstanding persecution in Myanmar, has reached catastrophic proportions under Prime Minister Hasina’s watch in Bangladesh. For generations, Myanmar’s Buddhist majority and military have ruthlessly targeted the Rohingya minority, initiating what can only be described as a genocide to achieve a “Muslim-free” state. The systematic rape and massacre of Muslim women and children in Arakan and Rakhine states exemplify the extreme brutality endured by the Rohingya community.

Despite the harrowing conditions faced by the Rohingya, the international response has been grossly inadequate. Organizations tasked with protecting human rights have failed to take effective action, allowing the crisis to escalate to unprecedented levels. The mass exodus of Rohingya to Bangladesh has resulted in the establishment of Kutupalong refugee camp, now the largest of its kind in the world, near the Myanmar border.

Critically, Prime Minister Hasina’s administration must be held accountable for its role in exacerbating the Rohingya plight. While attempting to portray itself as a savior for Rohingya refugees since other South Asian countries did not assist, the government’s actions belie a different reality. Hasina’s alignment with India and its anti-Muslim agenda directly undermines any genuine efforts to address the crisis.

India’s reluctance to provide refuge to Rohingya from Burma, despite their shared border, is compounded by their internal policies that actively suppress Muslims, exemplified by the Citizenship Amendment Law (CAB). The primary objective of the CAB is to delegitimize Muslim citizenship, thus exacerbating the plight of persecuted minorities like the Rohingya. Myanmar’s exclusion from the list of nations specified in the bill, despite its geographical proximity to India, highlights the deliberate omission aimed at avoiding granting amnesty to Rohingyas. This decision contradicts the bill’s purported emphasis on providing refuge to religious minorities in India’s neighborhood, underscoring the discriminatory nature of India’s approach to the Rohingya crisis.

Under Hasina’s leadership, Bangladesh has failed to provide meaningful solutions to the Rohingya crisis. Despite hosting nearly a million refugees, the government has taken a passive stance, offering no initiatives to facilitate legal entry, prevent illegal immigration, or ensure the well-being of Rohingya within its borders.

Bangladesh has historically served as a temporary safe haven for millions of Rohingya refugees, with waves of migration occurring in the late 1970s and after 1991. However, despite this influx, the government has failed to implement significant initiatives to address the crisis effectively. As of September 2023, nearly a million Rohingya refugees have been registered and documented jointly by the Government of Bangladesh and UNHCR. Yet, under the Awami League’s leadership, Bangladesh has taken a passive role in defusing tensions along the Myanmar frontier. There have been no substantial efforts to facilitate the legal entrance of Rohingya, prevent illegal immigration, provide adequate assistance while they reside in Bangladesh, or create safer conditions for their potential return to Myanmar. Regrettably, Prime Minister Hasina has shown no inclination to engage in developing or contributing to either temporary or permanent solutions to the Rohingya crisis, leaving the plight of these refugees in a state of prolonged uncertainty and neglect.

Prime Minister Hasina’s track record regarding assistance for Rohingya refugees entering Bangladesh is marred by a lack of genuine interest in their plight. Instead of prioritizing humanitarian concerns, Hasina appears more preoccupied with safeguarding the country’s international image. This indifference has translated into minimal efforts to provide meaningful support for Rohingya seeking refuge, reflecting a disturbing lack of empathy and responsibility towards a vulnerable population in dire need of assistance.

Furthermore, the Hasina government’s failure to effectively address illegal immigration and ensure national security along the Myanmar border has had devastating consequences. Despite the recurring exchange of bullets, mortar shells, and rocket launcher explosions between Myanmar’s armed forces and insurgent groups, resulting in the loss of Bangladeshi lives, Hasina’s administration has remained conspicuously inactive. The absence of any substantive response from the government underscores a glaring negligence towards protecting its citizens and securing the nation’s borders, exposing a critical lapse in governance and leadership.

The Rohingya refugees in Bangladesh have faced inadequate care under the Awami League administration, particularly in the realm of education and economic empowerment. Although schooling is provided with the permission of Prime Minister Hasina, it is taught in Burmese in anticipation of their eventual return. However, this approach is flawed as Burmese is not widely understood among the Rohingya population, who predominantly speak a non-written language. Additionally, finding teachers proficient in Burmese poses a challenge. It would be more beneficial for Rohingya students to receive education in Bengali or English, languages that offer broader communication opportunities and access to global resources. Furthermore, Hasina’s administration has been reluctant to support initiatives for Rohingya to generate their own income or engage in livelihood projects. This dependency on humanitarian aid is unsustainable, especially considering the dwindling funding for such assistance. Moreover, Bangladesh’s decision to block high-speed internet access for Rohingya refugees in 2021 further isolates them from the outside world, hindering their ability to communicate and share information about their circumstances.

In terms of efforts towards repatriation, Bangladesh’s role in diplomatic engagement has been underscored by the international community, urging Prime Minister Hasina’s administration to engage in discussions with Myanmar and international partners. However, it is apparent that Bangladesh’s actions amount to mere lip service to the Rohingya cause, as Hasina’s government maintains close ties with India, which holds an agenda against Muslim minorities across South Asia that they are unwilling to jeopardize. Additionally, Hasina’s government maintains a strict stance regarding armed conflict in Myanmar, citing adherence to international law, particularly Article 3 of the Protocol Additional to the Geneva Conventions of 1949, which prohibits direct or indirect intervention in non-international armed conflicts in other states. Despite this, Hasina proposed the establishment of safe zones for Rohingyas in Myanmar under United Nations supervision. However, this proposal has been met with skepticism and criticism, with concerns raised about its potential harm and the historical failures of UN-supervised safe zones in regions such as Bosnia, Rwanda, Sri Lanka, and Iraq.

The Rohingya crisis, a glaring testament to the collective failure of both the Awami League and the international community, has devolved into a human rights catastrophe with no effective resolution in sight. Prime Minister Hasina’s administration, by prioritizing political alliances and national image over humanitarian obligations, has perpetuated the plight of nearly a million refugees, leaving them mired in a state of vulnerability and neglect, and underscoring the urgent need for a concerted, global response to address and rectify the ongoing genocide and displacement.

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As Bangladesh approaches yet another Victory Day, we find ourselves grappling with a paradox. The very ideals that drove our struggle for independence—democratic governance and the right to self-determination—are being suppressed under Sheikh Hasina’s regime. The degeneration of free and fair elections stands as a stark contradiction to the principles that fueled the liberation movement in 1971. The era since Hasina’s ascendancy has been marked by an alarming trend of forced disappearances, targeting not only political opponents but also ordinary citizens who dared to voice dissent. This chilling atmosphere has effectively stifled freedom of speech, a cornerstone of any democratic society.

With the upcoming election, little change seems imminent. However, it is imperative for Bangladeshis to assert our discontent with the current state of affairs. The undue influence of India in Bangladesh’s political landscape has transformed the country into a puppet state, undermining our sovereignty. The power to choose leaders, a fundamental right of the people, appears compromised by external interventions.

The true spirit of Victory Day will only resonate when Bangladesh acts in its own best interest, free from external domination. The day when Bangladeshis can freely elect their leaders without foreign interference will mark the actualization of the dreams and sacrifices of 1971. Moving forward, it is crucial for us to reclaim their agency and ensure our voices are heard and respected. Only then can our nation experience a true victory—a victory for democracy, freedom, and independence.

 

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From the MuslimMatters Bookshelf: Black (Muslim) History Month Reads

12 February, 2024 - 08:48

Black Muslims are an integral part of our Ummah, contributing to our communities in every way. From Islamic scholarship to humanitarian workers, from voices of justice to beloved parents and aunties and uncles, Black Muslims continue to do incredible work that is often not recognized by the rest of us. This Black History Month, pick up some of these wonderful reads by Black Muslim authors and share them with your family, your friends, and your local libraries!

 KIDLIT

 – “Salat in Secretby Jamilah Thompkins-Bigelow

Salah is the very foundation of our lives as Muslims, and this gorgeously detailed picture book shares this value in an incredible way.

Muhammad receives his first real sujjaadah (prayer mat) at the age of 7, with his father’s words ringing in his ears: “Never delay salat.” But when Muhammad realizes that he has to pray at school… the challenge is a little more than he expected it to be. It is when he witnesses his father living up to his principles no matter what that he realizes what it truly means to make salat the ultimate priority.

This book is absolutely stunning in so many ways – an example of how to powerfully share the importance of salah with children.

 – “Dear Muslim Child” by Rahma Rodaah

“Dear Muslim Child” is absolutely priceless: a literal love letter to every Muslim child, filled with love, light, and tenderness.

Rahma’s words are so powerful because in just a few lines, she is able to underscore everything from loving Allah subḥānahu wa ta'āla (glorified and exalted be He) to the spiritual elements of wudhu to the importance of salah. She is able to acknowledge Muslim children’s fears of being teased and harassed, and at the same time empowers young readers to turn to Allah subḥānahu wa ta'āla (glorified and exalted be He) for strength.

 – “The Masjid Kamal Loves” by Ashley Franklin

There is nothing more captivating than pure #MuslimJoy in kidlit, and “The Masjid Kamal Loves” is one of the most wonderful examples of it!

From the friends he meets at jumu’ah, to playful splashing while doing wudhu, to the imam’s wisdom and the smiles of other believers – this book highlights the very essence of loving the masjid and its experiences. The text is simple yet sweet; it is the illustrations, with their vivid colors and incredible details, that truly bring this entire story to life. There’s even some niqabi representation at the end!

Beyond charming, this is the perfect book to use in a masjid storytime or give as an Eid gift.

 – “Room for Everyone” by Naaz Khan

“Room for Everyone” by Naaz Khan, illustrated by Merce Lopez, is laugh-out-loud hilarious. This silly, rhyming story is set in Zanzibar, and is all about having the generosity of heart to ‘make room for everyone.’

The vibrant illustrations, the wonderful rhyming, and the message all combine to make a great read-aloud favorite. What I particularly loved about it was that it features a Muslim country and culture that is rarely ever even considered! Truly, this is a wonderful example of Black Muslim joy and representation.

ADULT FICTION

 – “River Spiritby Leila Aboulela

Leila Aboulela’s latest novel, “River Spirit,” is yet another example of brilliant, rich writing featuring characters and a setting unfamiliar to many.

The story opens in 1890s Sudan, where rumors of a man claiming to be the Mahdi turn into a revolution against Ottoman rule. Against this backdrop, we meet a wide cast of characters – most notably Akuany (later Zamzam), a village girl rescued by Yaseen, a young merchant from Khartoum who later becomes an ‘aalim from al-Azhar.

Akuany and Yaseen’s story – and the story of Sudan itself – is beautiful and painful, and we witness the many twists and unexpected turns of their journey through the eyes of many others: Musa, a fervent follower of the Mahdi; Yaseen’s mother Fatima and his wife Salha; Robert, a Scottish artist; and many others besides.

Aboulela’s writing is beyond stunning, and this unique approach to the narrative layers the book with incredible depth. History, human nature, politics, and more – Aboulela explores it all. The ending was unexpected and truly pulled at my heartstrings, and I was left with that beautiful achiness that signifies a story genuinely well-told (and a piqued curiosity to learn more about the historical events re. the Sudanese Mahdi).

 – “Bird Summons by Leila Aboulela

“Bird Summons” is a strange, sometimes dreamy, often heavy, and yet deeply evocative read. It is perhaps one of the most unique Muslamic fiction I’ve yet read – magical realism, with Muslim characters and deeply meaningful spiritual themes.

Readers of Aboulela’s previous books will recognize the emotional weight that her characters bear and navigate. In this book, we follow three very different Muslim women: young, beautiful, tragic Iman – widowed and divorced multiple times already; Moni the martyr-mother, clinging to her disabled son; and Salma, middle-aged and secretly resentful of her seemingly charmed life.

The three women embark on a road trip to the Scottish hinterlands, in search of Lady Zainab Evelyn Cobbold’s grave. Along the way, they must contend with one another and with themselves; the Hoopoe bird, of Qur’anic importance, appears with mysterious fables and the keys to their salvation. Aboulela’s words are simple and yet utterly powerful; she entwines the intimately spiritual and brutally human in starkly beautiful prose. Her exploration of faith, identity, and rising from personal tragedy is never comfortable and yet illuminating.

 – “Rekiya & Z by Muti’ah Badruddeen

“Rekiya & Z” is a story of the complicated friendship between two Nigerian Muslim women, Rekiya & Zaynunah, who come from dramatically different backgrounds but had bonded deeply at school. Now, as adults who have drifted apart, the two women find themselves pushed back together, and must unearth one another’s histories and navigate their new relationship.

The author does an incredible job of weaving together Islamic values throughout, making it relevant but not preachy – even and especially in the story arc of a “non-religious” character. She packs in so many elements: faith, niqab, polygamy, prejudice, trauma, grief, and loss.

 – “From Somalia, With Love by Na’ima B. Robert

Safia Dirie is a teenage girl living in East London with her mother, Hoyo, and two older brothers, Ahmed and Abdullahi. Though she was born in Somalia, she doesn’t really remember it — Safia’s a London girl, through and through. But now, after 12 long years, her father, Abo, has returned to the family from war-torn Mogadishu. Safia knew things would change, but nothing could have prepared her for the reality of dealing with Abo’s cultural expectations. Or that Ahmed, her favorite brother, would start to run wild. And she herself certainly didn’t expect to find her cousin Firdous’ party-girl lifestyle so tempting.

Safia must come to terms with who she is — as a Muslim, as a teenager, as a poet, as a friend, but most of all, as a daughter to a father she’s never known. Rooted in Somali and Muslim life, this poignant and beautifully written novel about one girl’s quest to find her own place in the world strikes a chord with young readers everywhere.

ADULT NON-FICTION

 – “Servants of Allah: African Muslims Enslaved in the Americas by Sylviane Diouf

Dr Sylviane A. Diouf’s book “Servants of Allah: African Muslims Enslaved in the Americas” tracks the journeys and experiences of African Muslims who found themselves shipped aboard slave-trafficking vessels and taken to the other side of their known world. From their induction into the Transatlantic slave trade, to their determination to uphold the five pillars of Islam – regardless of their circumstances – to the structure of the enslaved Muslim community, their prized (and dangerous) literacy, and their never-ending resistance against slavery, Diouf illustrates in incredible detail the powerful and painful experiences of enslaved African Muslims, and the legacy that they left behind in the Americas.

(Read a more detailed review here.)

 – “Beyond Bilal by Mustafa Briggs

“Beyond Bilal: Black History in Islam” by Mustafa Briggs is an easy-to-read introduction to the richness of Black history as it is intertwined with Islamic history.

The book begins with a discussion on the Blackness of figures such as Luqman and Musa 'alayhi'l-salām (peace be upon him), and moves on to how Islam was introduced to Africa, the glorious eras of Islamic African dynasties, and finally to Islam in America. I especially enjoyed the summarized history of Islamic African empires, and the brief introduction to notable West African scholars whose names I’ve come across more recently, such as Shaykh Ibrahim Niasse and Sh Hassan Cisse. The final chapter on female African Islamic scholars was also quite powerful.

 – “Warda: My Journey from the Horn of Africa to a College Education by Warda Mohamed Abdulahi

This memoir about a Somali girl’s journey across the Horn of Africa to America, fulfilling her dream of getting an education, truly stands out!

Unlike so many “inspiring stories” written by people of Muslim backgrounds, filled with anger towards their cultures/ family/ Islam and adoration of the West as a savior, Warda Abdullahi’s memoir is filled with love and respect towards her family, her culture, and Islam.

She makes a point of providing historical context to her family’s story, praising her grandfather for raising her and crediting her father for his determination to get her the best education possible. Even when topics like polygamy or FGM come up, Warda never falls into blaming Islam or trashing her culture – she recognizes the horrors of FGM gravely, without comparing her culture to the West.

Most importantly, her dedication to Islamic values holds throughout: from her fasting in Ramadan despite her massive school workload and Islamic center volunteering and family responsibilities; to maintaining her hijab staunchly & refusing to touch student loans because of the riba involved. In the end, the barakah is clear: through her relentless determination and hard work, she is able to cover almost the entire cost of her college tuition through scholarships alone.

 – “Better, Not Bitter by Yusef Salaam

“Better, Not Bitter” by Dr. Yusef Salaam is the autobiography of one of the Exonerated Five: five young men (four of them African American, one of them Latino) – boys, at the time – who had been arrested, charged, and convicted in 1989 for raping and assaulting a white female jogger in Central Park. Decades later, the real rapist confessed, and the men were finally freed. Dr. Salaam’s book won the 2021 Muslim Bookstagram Awards for its powerful tale of seeking justice, holding onto his faith in Allah subḥānahu wa ta'āla (glorified and exalted be He), and working through the trauma of racism and prison.

“Better, Not Bitter” stands out not just as a memoir of an injustice that epitomized America’s systemic racism, but as so much more: a glimpse of Yusef’s life before he was unjustly imprisoned; his mother’s strong, gentle guidance and unending advocacy for her son and others in dire straits; a spiritual journey of choosing not to allow one’s soul to be imprisoned even if one’s physical body is. Gratitude, self-discipline, introspection, education, and determination to “live with purpose” are recurring themes in Dr. Salaam’s book.

(Read a more detailed review here.)

 

Have you read any books on Black Muslims that you feel are worthy of a mention? Share your own favorite works by Black Muslim authors in the comments!

 

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“What Did You Just Say?” : The MM Open Letter Series I Dear Ms. Julia Hartley-Brewer

8 February, 2024 - 06:20

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Dear Ms. Julia Hartley-Brewer,

By now I’m sure that you are very familiar with the constructive feedback you’ve received regarding your disastrous interview with Palestinian MP Dr. Mustafa Barghouti early last month.

Here’s more.

Your track record as a so-called journalist is well known to be a continual stream of racism, bigotry, manipulation, and Islamophobia. This time, however, while interviewing Dr. Mustafa Bargouti on BBC and Talkradio, you really blew a fuse.

Quite frankly, speaking as an old crone, Muslim Irish American hippie, and frenemy, I must say that you proved how much of a failed feminist you are. Your choice to profile Muslim men as misogynists by using Dr. Barghouti as your scapegoat was wrong in oh so many ways.

Let me count the ways;

Your ignorance regarding Muslim women and men was a sad testament to the worn-out, stereotypical negative propaganda that has floated through the media atmosphere for years. This outdated brand of misinformation has been overused, and misconstrued, and is typical of a desperate attempt to detour from the issues at hand: the ongoing genocide of Palestinians.

Your disrespect towards Dr. Barghouti was not only publicly embarrassing but a stain on your character.

Those mistakes led you to wrong yourself even more by backing into a corner of arrogance and trumped-up victimhood, topped off with a complete lack of professionalism. You ignored so many opportunities presented during your interview with Dr. Barghouti to fearlessly embrace the Palestinian narratives he spoke of. Instead, you lost out on a golden moment to prove your worth as a respectable journalist.

Which leads me to ask; why did you choose journalism as a profession in the first place? As the world has witnessed, your performance was not that of a professional, objective journalist with an eye for the truth, but that of a hateful, ignorant sensationalist.

It’s not too late to remedy your character and lack of education, though.

Do some research. Differentiate between religious teachings vs negative cultural practices. Don’t let the thought of learning Palestinian history make your heart freeze either. Seriously, there’s no harm in reading and reading and reading to educate. And then read some more.

Volunteer. Strike out to parts unknown to you, and do something valuable, such as teaching English to refugees.

If you don’t, Julia, you’ll only be known as the woman who shamed herself in front of the entire world. What you don’t want to have on your record is your failure to communicate effectively in a fair and balanced approach to journalism.

Honestly, as a grandmother of grandchildren of multi-religious heritages, I am sick and tired of protesting this nonsense, but I have to, for their sake.

Let your freak fly. Shake loose of the fear-mongering and hate speech you have so pitifully adhered to. Go gray. Wear flats.

And then, someday, take yourself into your private adobe, turn on YouTube and watch your interview with Dr. Barghouti, again and again. Step away from yourself and analyze the journalist Julia Hartley-Brewer. Reflect. Ask yourself, why was I so angry, hostile, a bully? Is she the person I want my family to remember her by?

Julia, let me repeat, it’s not too late to start anew. Imagine that you get canned for your incompetence. Such a life-altering occurrence could very well be the highlight of your year. A new beginning.

It may be the catalyst for change you never knew you needed. Bend with the times. Embrace your twist of fate.

Take volumes of encyclopedias from the countless stories of Palestinians who currently, and for the past 75 years, have endured, patiently persevering under occupation from the brutality of the Israeli regime as examples to steadily move forward.

The narratives from Palestinians and their supporters do not belong to Western media outlets and Zionists. With Gaza and all occupied areas of Palestine undergoing genocide being openly visible through social media and professional media outlets, it is no wonder you scream on screen.

But it does no good for your Zionist cause. You have gifted us with the truth of how Israel has treated Palestinians for years. The world sees, has removed their blinders, and are mad as hell and not going to take this anymore.

Finally, I’m reminded of one of my favorite songs from the 60’s, “Turn! Turn! Turn!” by the Byrd’s, who lifted spirits during those trying times via some verses from the Bible, the book of Ecclesiastes.

As the song lyrics professed:

“To everything, turn, turn, turn

There is a season turn, turn, turn

 And a time to every purpose under Heaven

A time to gain, a time to lose

A time to rain, a time of sow

A time for love, a time for hate

A time for peace, I swear it’s not too late.”

These song lyrics are a reminder of our commonalities of humanity. We are all made from the same clay [Surah Al-Hijr: 15;26] you know.

So, Julia; turn, turn, turn…

 

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