Allah vs atheism: ‘Leaving Islam was the hardest thing I’ve done’
Amal Farah, a 32-year-old banking executive, is laughing about a contestant singing off-key in the last series of The X Factor. For a woman who was not allowed to listen to music when she was growing up, this is a delight. After years of turmoil, she is in control of her own life.
On the face of it, she is a product of modern Britain. Born in Somalia to Muslim parents, she grew up in Yemen and came to the UK in her late teens. After questioning her faith, she became an atheist and married a Jewish lawyer. But this has come at a cost. When she turned her back on her religion, she was disowned by her family and received death threats. She has not seen her mother or her siblings for eight years. None of them have met her husband or daughter.
“It was the hardest thing I’ve ever done – telling my observant family that I was having doubts. My mum was shocked; she began to cry. It was very painful for her. When she realised I actually meant it, she cut communication with me,” said Ms Farah. “She was suspicious of me being in contact with my brothers and sisters. She didn’t want me to poison their heads in any way. I felt like a leper and I lived in fear. As long as they knew where I was, I wasn’t safe.”
This is the first time Ms Farah has spoken publicly about her experience of leaving her faith, after realising that she did not want to keep a low profile for ever. She is an extreme case – her mother, now back in Somalia, has become increasingly radical in her religious views. But Ms Farah is not alone in wanting to speak out.
It can be difficult to leave any religion, and those that do can face stigma and even threats of violence. But there is a growing movement, led by former Muslims, to recognise their existence. Last week, an Afghan man is believed to have become the first atheist to have received asylum in Britain on religious grounds. He was brought up as a Muslim but became an atheist, according to his lawyers, who said he would face persecution and possibly death if he returned to Afghanistan.
In more than a dozen countries people who espouse atheism or reject the official state religion of Islam can be executed under the law, according to a recent report by the International Humanist and Ethical Union. But there is an ongoing debate about the “Islamic” way to deal with apostates. Broadcaster Mohammed Ansar says the idea that apostates should be put to death is “not applicable” in Islam today because the act was traditionally conflated with state treason.
Some scholars point out that it is against the teachings of Islam to force anyone to stay within the faith. “The position of many a scholar I have discussed the issue with is if people want to leave, they can leave,” said Shaykh Ibrahim Mogra, the assistant secretary general of the Muslim Council of Britain. “I don’t believe they should be discriminated against or harmed in any way whatsoever. There is no compulsion in religion.”
Baroness Warsi, the Minister of State for Faith and Communities, agreed. “One of the things I’ve done is put freedom of religion and belief as top priority at the Foreign Office,” she said. “I’ve been vocal that it’s about the freedom to manifest your faith, practise your faith and change your faith. We couldn’t be any clearer. Mutual respect and tolerance are what is required for people to live alongside each other.”
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Coincidence?
The number 7 seems to appear numerous times in Islamic text. This recent realisation has made this association extremely fascinating..
1- 7 circumambulation (Ta’waf) around the Kaa’bah during Hajj
2- 7 walks (back and forth) between Al-Safa and Al-Marwah
3- 7 heavens
4- When the Prophet (peace be upon him) was taken to heaven during Miraj he reported to have seen an angel with 70 000 heads, each head having 70 000 mouths, each mouth having 70 000 tongues and each tongue speaking 70 000 languages; all involved in reciting the praises of Allah Almighty (can't remember the reference for this)
5- 7 pebbles to be used each time for stoning of the Jamarat’
6- 70 000 angels write good deeds for one who recites durood shareef
Amigos, Amigas - Friends in Islam
What is a friend? According to the dictionary it's “a person who one knows and with who one has a bond of mutual affection". Ok, so the next question, who are our friends? Really think about it.
Who are the people that we choose to socialise with? Whose interests and goals match our own? Whose company do we love being in?
Most likely, you've started to think of those people that you've met at school, university or work, and perhaps for some of you, like me, you thought of your families too (yes seriously).
'Follow the Islamic way to save the world’ Prince Charles urges environmentalists
Prince Charles yesterday urged the world to follow Islamic ‘spiritual principles’ in order to protect the environment.
In an hour-long speech, the heir to the throne argued that man’s destruction of the world was contrary to the scriptures of all religions – but particularly those of Islam.
He said the current ‘division’ between man and nature had been caused not just by industrialisation, but also by our attitude to the environment – which goes against the grain of ‘sacred traditions’.
Outspoken: Prince Charles speaks to Islamic studies scholars at Oxford. He argued that man’s destruction of the world was particularly contrary to Islam
Charles, who is a practising Christian and will become the head of the Church of England when he succeeds to the throne, spoke in depth about his own study of the Koran which, he said, tells its followers that there is ‘no separation between man and nature’ and says we must always live within our environment’s limits.
The prince was speaking to an audience of scholars at the Oxford Centre for Islamic Studies – which attempts to encourage a better understanding of the culture and civilisation of the religion.
His speech, merging religion with his other favourite subject, the environment, marked the 25th anniversary of the organisation, of which he is patron.
He added: ‘The inconvenient truth is that we share this planet with the rest of creation for a very good reason – and that is, we cannot exist on our own without the intricately balanced web of life around us.
‘Islam has always taught this and to ignore that lesson is to default on our contract with creation.’
[Taken from: http://worldobserveronline.com/2013/08/08/follow-the-islamic-way-to-sav…]
Pakistan's Sect Free Mosque
ISLAMABAD – For any Pakistani Muslim, Islamabad’s Qutuba Mosque is no different from other houses of worship as far as the structure, style, and operation.
Yet, a small white banner placed right on the entrance of the mosque makes it unique.
The banner reads “This Mosque is meant for all the Muslims irrespective of their sects,” with two verses of Pakistan’s national Poet Allama Mohammad Iqbal reminding Muslims about the true spirit of prayer and urging them to shun their differences and get united.
“We have hundreds of thousands of Mosques here that represent Shiite, Sunni, Dubendi, Brelvi, and Ahl-e-Hadit school of thought, but there was not a single Mosque that represents Muslims rather than their schools of thought,” Zahid Iqbal, a local businessman behind the mosque idea, told OnIslam.net.
The idea of this unique sect-free mosque, located in Islamabad’s Margallah foothills, first came to Iqbal in 2010.
Facing some procedural problems, he had to declare a school of thought to avoid obstacles regarding future management of the mosque.
“I was asked to declare my school of thought. I said, I am a simple Muslim. I follow Qur’an and Hadit, but they (authorities) insisted,” Zahid said.
Supported by his friends, family members, and well—wishers, he managed to collect a sum of RS 30 million (300,000 dollars) to build the Mosque.
With a capacity of 350 worshippers, the mosque includes a modern library for books of representing different schools of thought and a separate section for women.
Pakistan, home of 180 million people, is a Sunni majority country with 85 percent Sunnis.
Shiites make up 10 percent of the total population.
Pakistan has had a decades-long history of Sunni-Shiite violence that have claimed thousands of lives during last 30 years.
Iran and Saudi Arabia are often blamed for using the Pakistani soil for their proxy war by patronizing the hardliner Shiite and Sunni groups respectively.
Open to All
Naming the mosque after the Qurtuba Mosque of Spain, Zahid said that mosque should be open to all worshippers of all sects.
“Not only Muslims, belonging to any sect, even non-Muslims can come here to seek the light”, he maintained.
“By branding ourselves on sectarian lines, we are not serving Islam. In fact, in that way, we prefer our schools of thought over Islam,” Iqbal said.
“What message we are giving to non-Muslims by hating and killing each other in the name of sects. We have forgotten the message of noble Quran that commands us to hold fast the rope of Allah and don’t divide ourselves into sects.
“Building this Mosque, I have tried to remind this forgotten message to the people,” he added.
The Mosque is run by a board of trustees which hired an Imam, who is doing his masters from International Islamic University, and a coordinator.
Both are Sunnis, but they say they do not mind if even a Shiite Imam leads the prayer there.
“I do not talk about non-issues that often ignite sectarian rivalry, in Friday sermons,” Qari Jehangir, the Imam told OnIslam.net.
“I mostly talk about why Islam is a practical religion? Where honesty, simplicity, altruism, thirst for knowledge, and other qualities that Islam demands from us, have disappeared,” he added.
Zahid and his colleagues were overjoyed with the public response.
“Indeed, it was a completely new thing for the people when they came to know the Mosque in their neighborhood does not belong to any sect”, he said.
“There has been a collective support and encouragement on the part of local community. People generally support and like this idea”, he said.
People from different sects are already praying together, however, he admits, they are not in great numbers.
“But we are not discouraged by the small number of people,” a confident Zahid maintained.
“We are in fact encouraged by the public response, and we are sure, Inshaullah our efforts will soon produce results.”
[Taken from: http://www.onislam.net/english/news/asia-pacific/463783-pakistans-sect-…]
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Idiots Guide To Marriage in Islam
What is the purpose of marriage in Islam? What are the benefits?
Marriage is a bond that makes it permissible for a man and a woman to have an intimate relationship. This would then allow a child to be born from that relationship and to have its name linked to both the mother and the father.
Can a boy/girl choose her own marriage partner?
Yes a boy or girl can chose their own marriage partners so long as it meets the criteria of Shariah (Islamic law). This means that they should be Muslim and their beliefs should not be of those that take them out of the fold of Islam. (1)
Do you need the consent of your parents to get married?
The Revival’s Guide to Ramadhan
What is Ramadhan?
Ramadhan is the ninth month in the Islamic calendar. During this month which is either 29 or 30 days, Muslims all over the world fast by abstaining from food and water from dawn until the sun sets.
Ramadhan is a blessed month in which the Holy Quran was first sent down as a guide to mankind with clear signs for guidance and judgement between right and wrong. It is also a time when the gates of Paradise are opened, the gates of Hell-Fire are closed and the devils are chained up.
Why do Muslims fast in Ramadhan?
Fasting in the month of Ramadhan has been prescribed by Allah Almighty and is one of the five pillars of Islam. Muslims fast to show their submission, commitment and worship to their Lord.
The Truth About Being A Single Muslim Mother
The issue of single Muslim mothers is fast becoming a prevalent one; with divorce on the rise it seems only logical that some of these statistics would also apply to Muslim households.
Why then are they not revered as they deserve to be and instead looked down upon and scorned by many communities? Is it really seen as so contagious that girls from ‘respectable’ families should stay away from these women in case they too, catch it?
Crimes In The Name Of God
My views on the Woolwich atrocity are exactly the same as the vast majority of the UK population - they are that of utter shock and disgust. The thought that in this day and age people are STILL carrying out these crimes in the name of religion and their “God” is just beyond belief and to this day I still refuse to believe that any religion would sanction this.
I personally believe that this is used as an excuse in today’s society and a way of trying to justify what has been done and what people plan to do. I challenge anyone to read any religious scriptures and highlight where in those pages, it tells you to carry out these crimes in the name of God.
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