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How to control your anger

My nephew pulled out my keys (on this laptop), the 'A','S','3','4' have all been removed - so I'm pressing the sort of rubber button thing underneath. Anyway, i told him off and then stomped upstairs and shut the room door. Now i feel pretty bad.

The question is not whether i was right or wrong about telling him off but rather when someone is angry, how do they go about controlling it?

The only way i know is by sitting if standing, laying down if sitting etc (as the Hadith of the Prophet).

Does anyone know of other ways?

Keeping in mind that in the heat of the moment things are not always as simple as ABC.

Shokran!

Ashurah

Salaam

It's Ashurah. A holy time in a sacred month.

Make du'a, capitalise on a good time to pray.

Remember God's help to Moses AS and the children of Israel.

If Prophet's are alive, explain this please & why it's not insulting.

UPDATE: I have an answer. We believe he's alive in his grave, and at the time the words were spoken, he wasn't buried. I know for a fact by asking a Shaykh and Mufti that the timing is true [:
Still be glad to hear other people's point of view-as long as it ain't rude/disrespectful.

In a Sahih Hadith in Bukhari, it is narrated:
"Abu Bakr narrated 'Whomsoever worshipped Muhammad, let it be known, Muhammad is dead, and whomsoever worshipped ALLAH, ALLAH is the all-living and alive".

This hadith was narrated by Abu Bakr after the demise of the Prophet (peace be upon him), and Umar (peace upon him) threatened to cut off the heads of anyone who said Muhammad is dead. Abu Bakr then spoke these words aloud in front of all Sihaabah.

My CV

Types of CVs saved on my desktop:

The first is a CV with a list of P/T work (and now F/T) - mainly retail - and includes my main e-mail address.

The second is a Education based one - where i include all the experience within schools and with children -and includes my main e-mail address.

Then i have a copy of both of these under a different e-mail address.

Anyway the reason i'm here is:

On the education CV - since i have a gap between the experiences - do i fill these up with retail jobs? and if so I'm currently employed under two sectors - retail and educational - do i put down the retail as well?

I don't usually have a problem with my CVs but it seems all too fiddly now, sigh.

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