what you want in a marriage partner

Guest —

hey this better not get locked or I will be totally vexed man!!!


This ones for all the single people out there!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


I just want a line NO MORE. About what you want in your marrrage partner.


NO DISCUSSIONS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! just a simple one line.


Anything over one line please DELETE Mr Admin!!!!!!!!!! SO only there first line will be shown.

Don't even bother to say salam just write your one line and leave.


I'm sick of all the long posts where they get away from the point of the topic!!!!

so think.


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MuslimSisLilSis — Sat, 4 Feb 2006 - 14:32

[quote="Omrow"]Come on people. Don't go off the topic.[/quote]


:roll:


yes, lets all go back to the topic so the omro can post his list about what he wants in a partner


this should make hilarious viewing


I'm sure being a qualified mouse extermintor wud be at the top of his list


Sirus — Sat, 4 Feb 2006 - 15:25

[quote="MuslimSisLilSis"]the boy KNOWS not to aim any higher then that


sensible lad :twisted:[/quote]


lol...ermm....what else could you aim for...thats higher anyway!


cant exactly marry a frishta now can i :roll:


and no Mez, it aint obvious....i was inclined to say.....


Four Women 😂


Sirus — Sat, 4 Feb 2006 - 16:01

British Law only stops me from marrying more than one woman, legally - in the sense that the courts will only recognize the 1 wife


but i can marry 3 more under Shahria law


in the words of Mask...."Somebody stop me" :twisted:


iRazor — Sat, 4 Feb 2006 - 16:15

[quote="Fresh Prince"]British Law only stops me from marrying more than one woman, legally - in the sense that the courts will only recognize the 1 wife


but i can marry 3 more under Shahria law


in the words of Mask...."Somebody stop me" :twisted:[/quote]


Also, when asked, he can jus say he has one wifey, and 3 mistresses 😂


Therz always a way around evry law.


Power to the people.


Why do many women feel betrayed when there hubby decides to marry sum1 else, or if its mentioned, they kick up a fuss.


You — Sat, 4 Feb 2006 - 16:29

[quote="razor"]Why do many women feel betrayed when there hubby decides to marry sum1 else, or if its mentioned, they kick up a fuss.[/quote]


Because it makes them feel inadequate? maybe they feel their love is not being returned?


iRazor — Sat, 4 Feb 2006 - 16:30

[quote="Fresh Prince"]lol 😂 agreed, why the fuss!


but not 3 mistresses, Astagfirullah![/quote]


no u clown.


i meant that if u marry 4 times in this country, which is against the law here.


Then u jus say u got 1 wife, and the other 3 are mistresses. then they'll big u up, but if u tell em u married to more than one, off to prison u go.


iRazor — Sat, 4 Feb 2006 - 16:33

[quote="Admin"][quote="razor"]Why do many women feel betrayed when there hubby decides to marry sum1 else, or if its mentioned, they kick up a fuss.[/quote]


Because it makes them feel inadequate? maybe they feel their love is not being returned?[/quote]


Thats wat ive always thought it is.


But, i wanna hear it from a female, they may be able to elaborate.


N hayder, y u keep bangin on bout 4wives, u seriously gna marry more than one? 😂


If so, why?


if not, then y u keep goin on bout it?


yashmaki — Sat, 4 Feb 2006 - 16:53

yes admin knows the female species well. But try to see it from our perspective. If you're married to someone for a while no problems marriage is going great, you have a child things couldn't be better. But you decide to have another wife no particular reason other than "you can". It's gona make your wife feel like she's not good enough for you. She will feel unwanted, neglected and unloved. All those years spent sharing special moments together will suddenly be taken away from her. She will be the spare tyre. Coz let's face it the novelty of a new wife, will mean the husband naturally spends more quality time with her, rather than the first wife. The first wife, will also have to share moments with a strange woman, and try and be amicable with her. Now that is asking a lot of any human being. How many brothers could make such a sacrifice if the tables were turned.


It may sound rosy to you, but the situation is extremely difficult for most sisters. Only a very few can handle it. In arab countries polygamy is a normal part of the culture, so it's not so difficult to swallow. But sisters in the west are raised differently, you can't expect them to accept a second wife as easily and be happy with it.


Mez — Sat, 4 Feb 2006 - 20:14

You said it Yash!!!


And according to Islam, you would have to get her permission to

get married again, if they can not have children!!

However you will have to treat both of them equally and spend time with

each of them equally, not to mention giving each of then equal amount of spending money!!!


But I will totally feel sorry for Hyderr if that happens, how is he going to cope!! 😛


Omrow — Sat, 4 Feb 2006 - 23:27

Salam


[quote="razor"]i wanna hear it from a female, they may be able to elaborate.[/quote]


Notice that in the replies given, the word "jealousy" is being avoided. That is for reasons that are abundantly obvious to men.


Their lives would be so easy, if only they were honest.


While men specialise in invasion, women spealise in evasion.


Omrow


Sirus — Sun, 5 Feb 2006 - 01:48

lol


Razor, no i aint gona do it, but its an option im entitled to ponder upon 🙂


and Yash + MS raised sum gud points, but you can treat them equally...or try ur best


and why would the 1st feel old - bah! not true! plenty of love to go round for everyone 😂


MuslimSisLilSis — Sun, 5 Feb 2006 - 11:42

[quote="Fresh Prince"]


and why would the 1st feel old - bah! not true! plenty of love to go round for everyone :lol:[/quote]


erm hello


if wife number one is aged 40 and stupid husband brings home wife number two aged 20


how can wife number one NOT feel old?


Sirus — Sun, 5 Feb 2006 - 11:54

[quote="MuslimSisLilSis"]:roll:


u'd be lucky to get one


so quit dreaming[/quote]


:shock:


[size=7]thats not nice[/size] 😢


ftr.....im only messin about the 4 wives


Guest — Sun, 5 Feb 2006 - 12:47

[quote="Fresh Prince"][quote="MuslimSisLilSis"]:roll:


u'd be lucky to get one


so quit dreaming[/quote]


:shock:


[size=7]thats not nice[/size] 😢


ftr.....im only messin about the 4 wives[/quote]

:roll:


Why don't you go and hijack somebody else's thread :roll:


Honestly some people and their manners :evil: