Finding a marriage partner...

i dont think marriage can be compared to anything, whatever commitment or any previous exp. (apart from marriage itself) you may have had. i dont think nowt compares...

im staying out of the marriage water, sounds like a good song..

Lilly

im staying out of the marriage water, sounds like a good song..

You've changed your tune! lol

ThE pOwEr Of SiLeNcE

Lilly

im staying out of the marriage water, sounds like a good song..

You've changed your tune! lol

#im staying out of the marriages waters
too many people, im gona get battered

im staying out of the marriage waters
i really got no idea what what im gona step on!
too many big fishes, im gona get done#

blah blah blah, dyou like it?

ThE pOwEr Of SiLeNcE

Lilly

im staying out of the marriage water, sounds like a good song..

You've changed your tune!

I agree.

What happened?

s.b.f

ThE pOwEr Of SiLeNcE

Lilly

im staying out of the marriage water, sounds like a good song..

You've changed your tune!

I agree.

What happened?

what are you girls TALKING about *shakes head side to side* tutututut...

😛

my friend is getting married this summer insha allah, so im guessin cos she set the ball rollin, i'll be next soon enough ( 🙁 )...why??? cos it just works tht way...none of my olders siblings were married, but as soon as my sister got married..BAM, BAM, BAM!
(BAM btw is the rest of them getting married)....so once im married ( a revvy user) it wont be long till one of you starts to hum #dum, dum da-dum....# :shock:
you cant fault my oh so logical reasoning right????

what is that i hear? ohh..its the pocahontaslike bilan slowly dying off...talk about going down with a fight...

Lillywhat is that i hear? ohh..its the pocahontaslike bilan slowly dying off...talk about going down with a fight...

hey! my name shall go down in history!! history i tell u!! as the one who has fought like no man/woman/child ever has!
'Battle of Bilan' im thinking of calling it..waddya think???? 😉

bilanmy friend is getting married this summer insha allah, so im guessin cos she set the ball rollin, i'll be next soon enough ( 🙁 )...why??? cos it just works tht way...none of my olders siblings were married, but as soon as my sister got married..BAM, BAM, BAM!

its already ended, pocahontas and her people didnt have gun, and as you can see from the bold bit...marriage does, you're done for...

we should create a topic "Bilan's bilans"

Lilly

bilanmy friend is getting married this summer insha allah, so im guessin cos she set the ball rollin, i'll be next soon enough ( 🙁 )...why??? cos it just works tht way...none of my olders siblings were married, but as soon as my sister got married..BAM, BAM, BAM!

its already ended, pocahontas and her people didnt have gun, and as you can see from the bold bit...marriage does, you're done for...

we should create a topic "Bilan's bilans"

hahaha LOL :lol:...i cant think of a better read... 😃 😃

all this talk about finding a marriage partner..but... what about ourselves?

how do YOU know that you're ready to become a "marriage partner"?

what would you say do you need to achieve to become a "good" marriage partner?

whats a "good" marriage partner?

just a wonderement...

oh u have nothing to worry about lills!

someone'll snap u up real quick and how quick??? now that just depends on u...haha 😂

How does one know its time to get married? Well my brother is getting married soon and like I just feel that I want to get married too so I can abstain from sins BUT I doubt my parents will want me to get married bcause am still 21 and going to go in to my final year in uni, well I've heard I need to be fianancially stable and have a job so I could support my future wife...I am willing to get married to anyone who my parents are happy with, the question is just how do I convince dem am ready for marriage as am scared of approaching dem as I have never had an emotional or close family talks with them!

rockyHow does one know its time to get married? Well my brother is getting married soon and like I just feel that I want to get married too so I can abstain from sins BUT I doubt my parents will want me to get married bcause am still 21 and going to go in to my final year in uni, well I've heard I need to be fianancially stable and have a job so I could support my future wife...I am willing to get married to anyone who my parents are happy with, the question is just how do I convince dem am ready for marriage as am scared of approaching dem as I have never had an emotional or close family talks with them!

Just marry a rich girl, then you're sorted.

That aint how Islam works!!!

rockyHow does one know its time to get married? Well my brother is getting married soon and like I just feel that I want to get married too so I can abstain from sins BUT I doubt my parents will want me to get married bcause am still 21 and going to go in to my final year in uni, well I've heard I need to be fianancially stable and have a job so I could support my future wife...I am willing to get married to anyone who my parents are happy with, the question is just how do I convince dem am ready for marriage as am scared of approaching dem as I have never had an emotional or close family talks with them!

aww :/ Before assuming your parents won't let you, you should ask them. Or tell your brother how you feel, and get him to approach them? I imagine lots of asians feel how you feel cuz of the whole not being "emotional or close" with family. kinda sad really :/

rockyThat aint how Islam works!!!

What do you mean?

It does not prohibit it.

You

rockyThat aint how Islam works!!!

What do you mean?

It does not prohibit it.

Why take the easy option in marrying a rich girl?

ThE pOwEr Of SiLeNcE

rockyHow does one know its time to get married? Well my brother is getting married soon and like I just feel that I want to get married too so I can abstain from sins BUT I doubt my parents will want me to get married bcause am still 21 and going to go in to my final year in uni, well I've heard I need to be fianancially stable and have a job so I could support my future wife...I am willing to get married to anyone who my parents are happy with, the question is just how do I convince dem am ready for marriage as am scared of approaching dem as I have never had an emotional or close family talks with them!

aww :/ Before assuming your parents won't let you, you should ask them. Or tell your brother how you feel, and get him to approach them? I imagine lots of asians feel how you feel cuz of the whole not being "emotional or close" with family. kinda sad really :/

Fnx 4 da advice (Y).....thing is am kinda scared of asking them :/ dont know why!

rocky

You

rockyThat aint how Islam works!!!

What do you mean?

It does not prohibit it.

Why take the easy option in marrying a rich girl?

Because she's worth it?

Besides, that is not what you were saying before.

You were suggesting that somehow that goes against Islam.

That is the only reason I stepped in - you can't make such a suggestion and then not back it up.

It may be a strike against your self esteem and ego etc, but that is not Islam but personal preference or culture.

It is important to be able to differentiate between the two.

ThE pOwEr Of SiLeNcE

rockyHow does one know its time to get married? Well my brother is getting married soon and like I just feel that I want to get married too so I can abstain from sins BUT I doubt my parents will want me to get married bcause am still 21 and going to go in to my final year in uni, well I've heard I need to be fianancially stable and have a job so I could support my future wife...I am willing to get married to anyone who my parents are happy with, the question is just how do I convince dem am ready for marriage as am scared of approaching dem as I have never had an emotional or close family talks with them!

aww :/ Before assuming your parents won't let you, you should ask them. Or tell your brother how you feel, and get him to approach them? I imagine lots of asians feel how you feel cuz of the whole not being "emotional or close" with family. kinda sad really :/

btw ny idea of how 2 delete my account on here?

no problem/you're welcome for the advice 🙂 and try and face your fears 😉 I'm sure it won't be nearly as bad as your head makes it out to be! Honestly why does your head imagine the worst possible scenarios?!

There's no way for you to delete your account, unfortunately. Why do you want to delete your account, anyway?

ThE pOwEr Of SiLeNcEno problem/you're welcome for the advice 🙂 and try and face your fears 😉 I'm sure it won't be nearly as bad as your head makes it out to be! Honestly why does your head imagine the worst possible scenarios?!

There's no way for you to delete your account, unfortunately. Why do you want to delete your account, anyway?

Yeah Inshallah i will try soon....

Because I hardly ever use the forums and only come on here to read new issues of the revival mag!
& I feel like a total idiot when am talking about myself on here :S

rocky
& I feel like a total idiot when am talking about myself on here :S

why do you feel like an idiot? No one knows you, so does it matter?

@ BIlan: SNAP me?! now that is too advanced G-talk..please translate

@Rocky, thank you for being the ONLY one (¬_¬) who answered my Questions! inshallah if you talk to your parents they wont be half as scary.

dont delete your account, when you read the mag, you can alwasys comment on the different articles, and if you have any Q's etc... you can always post. ITs better than posting as anonymous, coz then we'd know "these Q's are from Rocky"

and dont feel dumb.. afterall, we all have something in common, Revival, so we cant be THAT bad.

ok, i shall shut up now.

feeling stupid is probably an important of the leraning process.

If you are like me and think you know everything, then the chances of you learning something diminish.

Youfeeling stupid is probably an important of the leraning process.

If you are like me and think you know everything, then the chances of you learning something diminish.

lool, so its more a case of you sharing ur oh so great wisdom?? :p

@ Lilly! snap isnt slang at all!!! 'To snatch or grasp suddenly and with eagerness' (from the dictionary 😉 )

btw, my issue is, you find a potential partner,but what happens THEN to get to the stage of 2 people being married???? :s..confused.com!

bilan

btw, my issue is, you find a potential partner,but what happens THEN to get to the stage of 2 people being married???? :s..confused.com!

what do you mean? Is this before the potential realises he is "the one"?
You ask him if he wants to marry you too?

ThE pOwEr Of SiLeNcE

bilan

btw, my issue is, you find a potential partner,but what happens THEN to get to the stage of 2 people being married???? :s..confused.com!

what do you mean? Is this before the potential realises he is "the one"?
You ask him if he wants to marry you too?

ahh these marriage people, why cant they see it like it is..making it all so difficult. Even your QUESTION Bilan is confusing...

so..from your dico def. I have to wait for someone to "snap" me? dude..that doesnt sound right...

nyways! you sexist ayeeyo! are you tryna say I cant find a marriage partner, i have to let the marriage partner find ME? urgh.. this is getting all too close and personal...

you completely dodged my question. ANSWER THE QUESTIONS o.o

Ocean

You

rocky

You

rockyThat aint how Islam works!!!

What do you mean?

It does not prohibit it.

Why take the easy option in marrying a rich girl?

Because she's worth it?

😂

love it!

I admire Gold diggers for all their hard work and enthusiasm.

That's what the Prophet ﷺ did but obviously he didn't marry Khadija because of her MONEY but it was her wealth that provided Islam good financial support for YEARS. geinus how it all worked out really.

It's called Allah's Qadr, beats all. anytime 😃