Today i decided that i would hand out the mags, so i took one box and off i went to the Masjid - waited until some guy came (the office lot) to ask if i could hand them out inside the Masjid (i was hoping for a table and a chair so i could hand them out and have some on the table beside a lovely box for donations - which i bought from the stall beside The Revival stall at the GPU).
ANYWAY, while explaining why i was there and handing him the magazine, he looks at the cover and says 'this is not good'.
He continued and said that the man and woman were holding hands and it was encouraging something - or something - not sure about the last bit. So yeh i replied (politely) saying that they were married (well that's what the picture represented). Then he goes that he would have to talk to the other 9 - i think - members so they could come to a decision and to come back next friday.
So i told him (just so he knew) that i'd hand them out, outside the Masjid then and he goes no blah blah, i told him (politely again) that i'm allowed to hand them out outside yada yada (you know because you don't need their permission if it's not on their 'ground').
Interestingly, i found this other woman also felt that it's not allowed in Islam to show affection in public - including hand holding - is that true because that just sounds like it's straight off the weird-cultural-issue wagon. (As always: i could be wrong)..
In the end, after standing there (in the cold - sob sob) i had handed out the whole box - 80 mags i think? (and explained to those who wanted to hear what it was all about)
I think they have to check that what you're giving out is appropriate - which is totally understandable but i was a little O...K.. about the whole 'this is not good' thing - don't knock it man.
Anyway this community officer was there so i was like hey, i'm allowed to blah blah right? and she was like yeh as long as blah blah (it's not promoting terrorism i guess - she didn't say that in so many words though) and i was like, so yeh do you want one, she said later - got chummy with her lol ๐
well.... firstly a massive congratulations for your effort an dsticking to your guns. I love your commitmnet and enthusiasm mashallah....
to distribute outside in the cold afetr being refused permission for 'committee' is fantastic! many ppl would have just walked away or gone home!
if you stand outside the mosque you dont need to ask permission. I never do an dnever had any probs in all my time...
if ppl have issues with married couple holding hands on the cover then god help us.
That which the right hand poseth; surely that is an inference to holding hands ?, and why would it be 'not allowed'. Was this a 'Barelvi' mosque per chance ?.
Having in a future issue on the website something like "Ya Shaykh, can a husband and wife hold hands in public? what are the Islamic ettiquettes between married people?"
Having in a future issue on the website something like "Ya Shaykh, can a husband and wife hold hands in public? what are the Islamic ettiquettes between married people?"
What's wrong with that :?
Like there are certain times me and Abasse get told not to hold hands or be arm in arm when we are with family or something. But I've always assumed it's alright when your out and about or around people you don't know.
I think it IS a big issue - the concept of showing affection i mean. We need to learn to love one another and if people have issues with affection within marriage - it should be discussed - plus i want to know the answer (yes i could just research it online but that would only benefit me and not the other lot wondering about the answer too) ๐
I think if people do have issues of affection within marriage they wouldn't exactly mention it...
I'm not sure if its as big an issue as it should be because , well if you love someone sometimes you would naturally show affection especially within a marriage. But I also know some people who Do love each other but find it difficult to show affection just because they didn't received it themselves in childhood.
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Bijou Tue, 2 Nov 2010 - 07:12
Re: Issue 17
The man's ring it totally messed up! And that's clearly visible on the front page of the magazine!
Otherwise I enjoyed reading parts of the magazine. ๐
A lot of junk food adverts though...
Henna91 Tue, 2 Nov 2010 - 21:13
Re: Issue 17
I can't read any of these articles? :S
You Tue, 2 Nov 2010 - 21:24
Re: Issue 17
They should be up soon.
LookingToSee Tue, 2 Nov 2010 - 22:06
Re: Issue 17
cant wait!!!
Sajid Iqbal Wed, 3 Nov 2010 - 23:19
Re: Issue 17
Half the articles have been uploaded... the rest will be up probably by tomorrow...
Sajid Iqbal Thu, 4 Nov 2010 - 22:57
Re: Issue 17
All the articles are available to read now!
Enjoy and please provide your feedback and comments.
Sajid Iqbal Thu, 4 Nov 2010 - 23:06
Re: Issue 17
pdf versions should be uploaded by weekend inshallah
rocky Sun, 7 Nov 2010 - 21:37
Re: The Revival- Issue 17 Out Now!
Dis really good...The Revival is nuffin without "Ali & Jamal" where is it =(
TPOS Tue, 9 Nov 2010 - 16:58
Re: Issue 17
It looks messed up there but i think it looks fine on the actual mag :S
Truth's_Razors Fri, 12 Nov 2010 - 15:48
Re: Issue 17
Today i decided that i would hand out the mags, so i took one box and off i went to the Masjid - waited until some guy came (the office lot) to ask if i could hand them out inside the Masjid (i was hoping for a table and a chair so i could hand them out and have some on the table beside a lovely box for donations - which i bought from the stall beside The Revival stall at the GPU).
ANYWAY, while explaining why i was there and handing him the magazine, he looks at the cover and says 'this is not good'.
He continued and said that the man and woman were holding hands and it was encouraging something - or something - not sure about the last bit. So yeh i replied (politely) saying that they were married (well that's what the picture represented). Then he goes that he would have to talk to the other 9 - i think - members so they could come to a decision and to come back next friday.
So i told him (just so he knew) that i'd hand them out, outside the Masjid then and he goes no blah blah, i told him (politely again) that i'm allowed to hand them out outside yada yada (you know because you don't need their permission if it's not on their 'ground').
Interestingly, i found this other woman also felt that it's not allowed in Islam to show affection in public - including hand holding - is that true because that just sounds like it's straight off the weird-cultural-issue wagon. (As always: i could be wrong)..
In the end, after standing there (in the cold - sob sob) i had handed out the whole box - 80 mags i think? (and explained to those who wanted to hear what it was all about)
Got a box left though,
Still, Successss ๐
TPOS Fri, 12 Nov 2010 - 15:50
Re: Issue 17
Why do you need their permission? it's everyone's mosque :/
Truth's_Razors Fri, 12 Nov 2010 - 15:57
Re: Issue 17
I think they have to check that what you're giving out is appropriate - which is totally understandable but i was a little O...K.. about the whole 'this is not good' thing - don't knock it man.
Anyway this community officer was there so i was like hey, i'm allowed to blah blah right? and she was like yeh as long as blah blah (it's not promoting terrorism i guess - she didn't say that in so many words though) and i was like, so yeh do you want one, she said later - got chummy with her lol ๐
Sajid Iqbal Fri, 12 Nov 2010 - 17:02
Re: Issue 17
well.... firstly a massive congratulations for your effort an dsticking to your guns. I love your commitmnet and enthusiasm mashallah....
to distribute outside in the cold afetr being refused permission for 'committee' is fantastic! many ppl would have just walked away or gone home!
if you stand outside the mosque you dont need to ask permission. I never do an dnever had any probs in all my time...
if ppl have issues with married couple holding hands on the cover then god help us.
s.b.f Fri, 12 Nov 2010 - 17:06
Re: Issue 17
These blah blah conversations sound interesting.
Truth's_Razors Fri, 12 Nov 2010 - 17:13
Re: Issue 17
Alhumdullillah
Lol they were!
LookingToSee Fri, 12 Nov 2010 - 18:46
Re: Issue 17
they do.
Truth? was this in your local area? or...down the East End?
Anonymous345 (not verified) Fri, 12 Nov 2010 - 19:18
Re: Issue 17
That which the right hand poseth; surely that is an inference to holding hands ?, and why would it be 'not allowed'. Was this a 'Barelvi' mosque per chance ?.
You Fri, 12 Nov 2010 - 19:21
Re: Issue 17
I am quite sure that is about charity, unless you are talking about something else.
This may be a good question for the shaykh...
Truth's_Razors Fri, 12 Nov 2010 - 19:31
Re: Issue 17
@ Lil - yup local area
@ Anon - not sure what B.. means =S
@ You - if you're talking to me explain please
[*Not with it today*]
You Fri, 12 Nov 2010 - 19:41
Re: Issue 17
Having in a future issue on the website something like "Ya Shaykh, can a husband and wife hold hands in public? what are the Islamic ettiquettes between married people?"
Truth's_Razors Fri, 12 Nov 2010 - 19:48
Re: Issue 17
Ohhh.
Yup that would be a good idea - we all should really write these Q's down somewhere then pick them each issue.
TPOS Fri, 12 Nov 2010 - 19:52
Re: Issue 17
There is a thread to write them in...
Truth's_Razors Fri, 12 Nov 2010 - 19:55
Re: Issue 17
Ok that's it, i am seriously going to bed - my brain isn't functioning today.
TPOS Fri, 12 Nov 2010 - 19:56
Re: Issue 17
great! enjoy! ๐
Truth's_Razors Fri, 12 Nov 2010 - 20:04
Re: Issue 17
=0 You don't need to sound so happy - goshhh
ZzZzZ
TPOS Fri, 12 Nov 2010 - 20:05
Re: Issue 17
I'm happy because you're getting some beauty sleep! and you're gna be nice and fresh later and sleeping = health
Grinno grinning? ๐
Bijou Sat, 13 Nov 2010 - 14:30
Re: Issue 17
What's wrong with that :?
Like there are certain times me and Abasse get told not to hold hands or be arm in arm when we are with family or something. But I've always assumed it's alright when your out and about or around people you don't know.
You Sat, 13 Nov 2010 - 14:45
Re: Issue 17
I have no idea. Just it would be good to hear if there is a reason for why some people say so.
On the other hand, on the grand scale of things, its not the biggest of issues, so space could be better utilised.
Truth's_Razors Sat, 13 Nov 2010 - 20:02
Re: Issue 17
I think it IS a big issue - the concept of showing affection i mean. We need to learn to love one another and if people have issues with affection within marriage - it should be discussed - plus i want to know the answer (yes i could just research it online but that would only benefit me and not the other lot wondering about the answer too) ๐
Bijou Sat, 13 Nov 2010 - 20:15
Re: Issue 17
I think if people do have issues of affection within marriage they wouldn't exactly mention it...
I'm not sure if its as big an issue as it should be because , well if you love someone sometimes you would naturally show affection especially within a marriage. But I also know some people who Do love each other but find it difficult to show affection just because they didn't received it themselves in childhood.
Pagination
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