Whiter than Milk

Happy New Year!

Most Jewish girls I talk to are pretty white but so long as we clicked different roots would be just as nice, attractive even.

A lot of what people look for a partner is about biology and wellbeing.

What the last generation looked for may no longer be current.

People who worked in the searing heat of the sun had dark skin. Thus lighter skin hinted at affluence.

When there were times of food scarcity, people would look for partners with a bit of meat on them - it once again indicated affluence and future security.

There was a programme on TV a while ago called "make me white" where the face cream the presenter used made her skin darker. However the skins health did improve and many thought that it had gone lighter.

I think alot of people still make a big deal out of it.

Fair skin is an attractive feature but not the bee all and end all. IMO the wrapping is less important than the chocolatey goodness inside 😃

[quote=Seraphim]I think alot of people still make a big deal out of it.

Fair skin is an attractive feature but not the bee all and end all. IMO the wrapping is less important than the chocolatey goodness inside :D[/quote]

Hmmm..imagine people had chocolate flavoured arteries.

I drink more than milk. I must have a dark complexion than!

Skin colour...has never really ever bothered me ever and I hope it remains that way!

The whiter the better, I don't want to bump into her in the dark. I would'nt say like milk, but atleast halfway decent. Too dark just puts me off.

so decency is linked with skin colour. so the darker a person is the less decent they are?

As for bumping into ppl in the dark, try using a light, or better yet your eye sight, or erm brain that would help.

disgusting comment, some tact wouldn't go amiss. finding a certain colour more attractive than another is fine and dandy, but the way you expressed it was rank!

I doubt he(?) means that type of decency - more what he considers "decently attractive".

Each to their own and people, you have a right to not marry someone you don't want to for whatever reason. That could be both/either you not being satisfied by their looks or them not being satiffied with yours.

Not a big issue really IMO.

[quote=You]There was a programme on TV a while ago called "make me white" where the face cream the presenter used made her skin darker. However the skins health did improve and many thought that it had gone lighter.[/quote]

Yep, remember watching it.

Skin colour shouldn't matter to me but it does. I don't want to become any darker. If I'm walking down the road, I'll usually take the side which has shade, or if I'm standing around for something/someone, I'll try and stand under the shade of a tree/building. Its not something I normally think about, I just do it.

PS. I have used Fair and lovely cream when my mum bought a dozen when we went back home.

Great stuff - someone who admits caring for his appearance!

These days however a (real!) tan is a greater sign of affluence as it means that people can go on holiday etc and hey ho, its considered more attractive!

have fun being white

Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder.

So by saying whiter skin is beautiful, then it just shows how limited a mind you really have.

[quote=MuslimBro]

Skin colour shouldn't matter to me but it does. I don't want to become any darker. If I'm walking down the road, I'll usually take the side which has shade, or if I'm standing around for something/someone, I'll try and stand under the shade of a tree/building. Its not something I normally think about, I just do it.

PS. I have used Fair and lovely cream when my mum bought a dozen when we went back home.[/quote]

OMG :O That is pretty shocking! especially coming from a guy!! fair and lovely and other creams just bleach and ruin the skin don't they?

Dude, don't worry, you can't be that ugly! 😛 😃

These are my thoughts on the matter.

To add to that, i admit one of the first things i notice and associate with beauty is the person's skin colour but i find both tanned and fair attractive. Also in that ^ i've mentioned how personality is more important. However its not jsut that its important but for me a persons personality changes the way i see them. Even if i initially thought a person was beautiful, if they've got a horrible personality i will look at them and think they're ugly. and vice versa.

This thread is making me hungry.

I may go and make myself some toast with white bread and then maybe white chocolate chipped cookies.

[quote=s.b.f]white chocolate chipped cookies.[/quote]

yum! im gna have one too 🙂

[quote=s.b.f]This thread is making me hungry.

I may go and make myself some toast with white bread and then maybe white chocolate chipped cookies.[/quote]

I dunno, i quite like brown chocolate.

Could fixation on the fairness of skin be partly because of an inferiority complex amongst certain cultures?

[quote=Seraphim][quote=s.b.f]This thread is making me hungry.

I may go and make myself some toast with white bread and then maybe white chocolate chipped cookies.[/quote]

I dunno, i quite like brown chocolate.[/quote]

I thought people preferred white chocolate over brown?

It's not about the appearance anyhows, its all about the taste. I suppose white chocolate can get a bit too sweet? Thoughts?

I've never really cared about skin colour...

But, my brother( as weird as he is) was once saying that a good couple (appearance-wise) consists of the guy being darker than the girl. (what?) He's always spending a fortune buying all these weird tanning products; which totally freak me out, because they're not possibly going to work on his deadly Aryan skin! So, I guess being fair, isn't all it's cracked out to be....

[quote=Seraphim]Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder.

So by saying whiter skin is beautiful, then it just shows how limited a mind you really have.[/quote]

I agree totally.

[quote=Isha Al-Maghribi] my brother( as weird as he is) was once saying that a good couple (appearance-wise) consists of the guy being darker than the girl. (what?) He's always spending a fortune buying all these weird tanning products[/quote]

Oh dear.

Milk is a very beneficial drink to have. Milk can generally make our body healthy, it can also make your skin glowing and thus can provide you with essential B vitamins that are important for hair growth. having enough milk on a daily basis can prevent you from having hair loss or any hair problems. To me, doesn't really matter what skin color you have, whats important is the inner being of an individual.

[quote=Hajjar]so decency is linked with skin colour. so the darker a person is the less decent they are?

As for bumping into ppl in the dark, try using a light, or better yet your eye sight, or erm brain that would help.

disgusting comment, some tact wouldn't go amiss. finding a certain colour more attractive than another is fine and dandy, but the way you expressed it was rank![/quote]

Tact? What's the reason for that, I am not commenting about a specific person who's feelings may be hurt, just a generalisation.

The whole decency thing really made me laugh.

[quote=alicia0945]Milk is a very beneficial drink to have. Milk can generally make our body healthy, it can also make your skin glowing and thus can provide you with essential B vitamins that are important for hair growth.[/quote]

So that's your excuse for drinking milk. 😉

why do you need an excuse to drink milk?

[quote=MuslimSister]Salaam,

I grew up hearing my gran reminding me to drink a lot or milk - cos apparently Milk keeps you white but tea makes you dark.

Wasalaam[/quote]

Serious,Is that true? Or is it an old wives' tale?

Never heard that one before...

[quote=alicia0945]Milk is a very beneficial drink to have. Milk can generally make our body healthy, it can also make your skin glowing and thus can provide you with essential B vitamins that are important for hair growth. having enough milk on a daily basis can prevent you from having hair loss or any hair problems. To me, doesn't really matter what skin color you have, whats important is the inner being of an individual.[/quote]

Thank You Dawud for this AWESOME comment.

MILK VS TEA. Milk wins, hands down.

WOOT WOOT!!!

[quote=Lilly]MILK VS TEA. Milk wins, hands down.[/quote]

Tea can have milk in it.

[quote=MuslimBro][quote=Lilly]MILK VS TEA. Milk wins, hands down.[/quote]

Tea can have milk in it.[/quote]

tea NEEDS milk.

[quote=Lilly]

Thank You Dawud for this AWESOME comment.

MILK VS TEA. Milk wins, hands down.

WOOT WOOT!!![/quote]

Who are you thanking?

[quote=Lilly][quote=MuslimBro][quote=Lilly]MILK VS TEA. Milk wins, hands down.[/quote]

Tea can have milk in it.[/quote]

tea NEEDS milk.[/quote]

Then its a draw...?