Love

you wrote:

Ask him why he never thought that at the start.Sorry for being blunt but I think he played you fora fool and probably still is. If he knew this would be a problem from the start, he was thinking of you as an object to use and throw away.

i agree! you have to think before making the next step, esp in this case, what was he thinking?

you wrote:

Ask him why he went for it if he knew where it would lead? Its not as if it would have suddenly dawned on him that there would be problems. And don't let him treat you like a fool. His tears do not mean he did any different.

am sorry ..not trying to sound negative, but i dont really understand when people do this, i have come across a recent scenario..where a little brother told me that he is interested in an arab (and is a pakistani himslf) and i said to him if your thinking the long-term n islamically, and confident that your parents will accept her, then thats ok. Its just one of those things where youngsters dont think twice and they think its a joke!

x

1R4M wrote:

I feel for u

I honestly do

This guy was never serious about u tho

I hate to say it

thats most guys for u

u were only there for fun

its what they do

mess around with girls until their mummys tell them to marry a traditional nuslim girl frm back home

pigs

dont waste ur tears on that git

i liked this one 😉 x

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Raven wrote:

Romeo and Juliet, Act II, Scene VI

I didnt knw u were into Shakespear?[/quote]

..what u people like lol

x

[quote=Omrow]Salam

I am going to miss the Italian lady.

I wish she would not have gone.

But what can one do.

I pray she remains in good health thoughout her life.

I hope she finds peace and happiness in a man of her dreams.

Omrow[/quote]

aww somthing nice coming from omrow lol..i think u have matured a little lol x

[quote=ThE pOwEr Of SiLeNcE][quote=Omrow]

I pray she remains in good health thoughout her life.

I hope she finds peace and happiness in a man of her dreams.

Omrow[/quote]

ameen.[/quote]

sum-ameen. x

[quote=kat khan]

am sorry ..not trying to sound negative, but i dont really understand when people do this, i have come across a recent scenario..where a little brother told me that he is interested in an arab (and is a pakistani himslf) and i said to him if your thinking the long-term n islamically, and confident that your parents will accept her, then thats ok. Its just one of those things where youngsters dont think twice and they think its a joke!

x

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I'm assuming he's like.... 8 or something. Yeah little kids sometimes do that.

So, is the Loli gone?

no..i'm here omrow! 🙂

..i told i read what you write and the things i'm curious to know but only sometimes..because i can't follow often the forum in this periods..we finish the four-month period and we have to do some exams and test and i have to study more...

however don't worry about me and "my boy"...i told him don't search me more and i'll search him when i'll ready for a friendship...but now i don't ready for this because i'm in love and he hurt me..i know he didn't want to make me sad but he did it so i think it's better don't see him....

however thank you for all..it's a pleasure read your worries about me..i'm so happy for your solidality..but maybe god thinks he isn't the boy for me...

in italy we say..."when a little door is closing, a big door will open!"

..so i have to be happy for all...

😉

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I'm assuming he's like.... 8 or something. Yeah little kids sometimes do that.[/quote]

nooo..he isnt 8..hes 20 ish lol x

[quote=_LoLy_]no..i'm here omrow! 🙂

..i told i read what you write and the things i'm curious to know but only sometimes..because i can't follow often the forum in this periods..we finish the four-month period and we have to do some exams and test and i have to study more...

however don't worry about me and "my boy"...i told him don't search me more and i'll search him when i'll ready for a friendship...but now i don't ready for this because i'm in love and he hurt me..i know he didn't want to make me sad but he did it so i think it's better don't see him....

however thank you for all..it's a pleasure read your worries about me..i'm so happy for your solidality..but maybe god thinks he isn't the boy for me...

in italy we say..."when a little door is closing, a big door will open!"

..so i have to be happy for all...

😉 [/quote]

Good on you girl, keep up that attitude. It's sometimes best to move on, all the best.

Hmm.

[quote=kat khan]

[quote]I'm assuming he's like.... 8 or something. Yeah little kids sometimes do that.[/quote]

nooo..he isnt 8..hes 20 ish lol x[/quote]

Then he seriously needs to get serious!!!!

like, seriously?

[quote=The Lamp][quote=kat khan]

[quote]I'm assuming he's like.... 8 or something. Yeah little kids sometimes do that.[/quote]

nooo..he isnt 8..hes 20 ish lol x[/quote]

Then he seriously needs to get serious!!!![/quote]

yup! he sure does :)..I pray that god *almighty guides him to the right path.ameen x

[quote=kat khan][quote=The Lamp][quote=kat khan]

[quote]I'm assuming he's like.... 8 or something. Yeah little kids sometimes do that.[/quote]

nooo..he isnt 8..hes 20 ish lol x[/quote]

Then he seriously needs to get serious!!!![/quote]

yup! he sure does :)..I pray that god almight guides him to the right path.ameen x[/quote]

What are you doing guys???? :doubt: :roll:

Oh, this guy who's 20 is "marrying" someone as a joke. You know, the sort of thing an 8 year old might do.

kat khan: I'm assuming he's like.... 8 or something. Yeah little kids sometimes do that

nooo..he isnt 8..hes 20 ish lol x

The Lamp: Then he seriously needs to get serious!!!!

You wrote: like, seriously?

kat khan: yup! he sure does :)..I pray that god almight guides him to the right path.ameen x

Does that little x at the refer your path - the path of khan?

[quote=Omrow]

kat khan: I'm assuming he's like.... 8 or something. Yeah little kids sometimes do that

nooo..he isnt 8..hes 20 ish lol x

The Lamp: Then he seriously needs to get serious!!!!

You wrote: like, seriously?

kat khan: yup! he sure does :)..I pray that god almight guides him to the right path.ameen x

Does that little x at the refer your path - the path of khan?

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either that or the x is a kiss... :?

Salam

So she wants God to guide me to... her lips?

That might be the final destination for pram pushers.

It certainly is not mine.

By the way, nice blog Jedi.

Omrow

[quote=Seraphim][quote=Omrow]

kat khan: I'm assuming he's like.... 8 or something. Yeah little kids sometimes do that

nooo..he isnt 8..hes 20 ish lol x

The Lamp: Then he seriously needs to get serious!!!!

You wrote: like, seriously?

kat khan: yup! he sure does :)..I pray that god almight guides him to the right path.ameen x

Does that little x at the refer your path - the path of khan?

my apologies..i have a bad habit of putting the "x"..i wont next time 🙁 ws

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either that or the x is a kiss... :? [/quote]

[quote=The Lamp]Oh, this guy who's 20 is "marrying" someone as a joke. You know, the sort of thing an 8 year old might do.[/quote]

i wont be that harsh..i see it as someone is on the wrong path and seeking guidance :)..may allah t'ala guide him, i'allah.

ws

Does X still mark the spot?

From Islam-qa:

Ibn Taymiyah (may Allaah have mercy on him) said in Majmoo’ al-Fataawa (10/185):

If a man is in love with a woman, even if she is permissible for him, his heart remains enslaved to her, and she can control him as she wishes, even though outwardly he appears to be her master, because he is her husband; but in fact he is her prisoner and slave, especially if she is aware of his need and love for her. In that case, she will control him like a harsh and oppressive master controls his abject slave who cannot free himself from him. Rather he is worse off than that, because enslavement of the heart is worse than enslavement of the body.

Attachment to the opposite sex will not happen to a heart that is filled with love of Allaah; it only affects a heart that is empty and weak, so it is able to gain control of it, then when it becomes strong and powerful it is able to defeat the love of Allaah and lead the person into shirk. Hence it is said: Love is the action of an empty heart.

interesting.

I wonder if it means attachment to the extent of obsession where it starts affecting a persons relationship with Allah (SWT), ie that person is so lost in their parents love that they forget Allah (SWT). Other than that having attachment and love for your partner is perfectly acceptable within Islam if not encouraged so that husband and wife can live together happily.

and Islamic "love story"?

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