Would You Marry YOU?
One of the first things that most people think about when preparing for or thinking about marriage, are the characteristics or qualities of the person they would like to marry. Some people think about how they want their potential husband or wife to look - perhaps they think about such things as hair and skin color. Some men may look for a wife who is an excellent cook, and some women may look for a husband who is very religious.
Think outside of yourself for a moment: If you were someone else, would you marry you? I don’t mean you, as you would like to see yourself weeks, months or even years from now. Nor do I mean you as you imagine yourself after you have had a chance to change a few of your bad habits, improve your character, fix yourself up, or you after you begin to practice your religion more seriously. I mean you, as you are TODAY.
I believe that if some people were to be completely honest with themselves, they would have to admit that they, themselves, do not possess the kind of qualities or characteristics they would want in a husband or wife.
If after taking a good long, honest look at yourself in the mirror you cannot honestly say that you would make a good husband or wife in your present condition, then before you pick up the pen to enumerate a list of all the fine qualities you are looking for in a wife or husband, instead, why not list some of the qualities that you need to work on, and then embark on a program to change these bad qualities so that someday soon when Allah does bless you with a good wife or husband you will be worthy of such a person?
After all, isn’t the divorce rate high enough already?
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I want EVRYONE to answer this honestly-Even if your already married
Would You Marry YOU?
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30 comments
Beast Fri, 8 Jul 2005 - 10:04
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No.
*DUST* Fri, 8 Jul 2005 - 10:10
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wow, i never thought of it that way... (wel i did, but i thought by the time i'm ready for marriage i would've changed those bad qualities, not in terms of "TODAY"!)
i'm sad to say, "No" 🙁
MuslimSisLilSis Fri, 8 Jul 2005 - 10:21
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If I was a tad less annoying and mean...and didnt spend so long in the bath and wasnt so lazy THEN i'd marry myself
Omrow Fri, 8 Jul 2005 - 10:28
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Salam
Oh yeah, but Im just not gonna ask myself. No way. I love me. But not as much as I would love a pure woman of God. One has to love the other more than oneself inorder be a true lover. One who cannot, or does not, has no beloved.
Omrow
100 Fri, 8 Jul 2005 - 11:43
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MuslimSisLilSis,
Always with the typos but anyway.
No, I will not marry you. But I do think you are wonderful.
Omrow Fri, 8 Jul 2005 - 12:32
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Salam
Whoa. Wait a minute man.
Why did you say that you would you never merry the furball ?
Whats wrong with her ? Do you know something that the rest of us dont ?
She is a bit furry that's all. But thats not a problem. A short visit to the hairdresser would sort it out.
She is a uniquely intelligent woman. She has eight top qualities. And only two bad ones.
Incidentally, did she ask you to marry her ?
Omrow
100 Fri, 8 Jul 2005 - 13:33
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Well, I'm Jewish and really I don't think it's cool for me to come here for marriage proposals or the like, but if these lovely ladies ever want to know what I'm all about they can PM me. See Omrow, technical, not romantic reasons. If you're paying attention, she has aked everyone to marry her, but she always mistypes and ended up asking us to marry you, of all people.
I'm done with that joke. I would definitely marry me provided I could still spend time with my friends.
sonia Fri, 8 Jul 2005 - 20:06
sonia
no i wouldnt
laila Fri, 8 Jul 2005 - 21:29
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i've always said it and always thought about it before getting married that I pitied the man who married me. So before marriage my answer was 'no i would not marry me'.
after marriage tho and after many years i do believe that i would marry me. Whats changed I've grown up a bit, mellowed a bit
Seraphim Fri, 8 Jul 2005 - 22:23
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Eeerrr what was the question again?
Can i fone a friend?
*DUST* Fri, 8 Jul 2005 - 23:43
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i guess thats kinda what i'm hoping will happen - inshaAllah, after marriage i will change accordingly...
Omrow Sun, 10 Jul 2005 - 12:17
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Salam
She will undergo metamorphosis after bearing two children.
No doubt she will become dumber and fatter.
Omrow
*DUST* Sun, 10 Jul 2005 - 13:54
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hmm, and there i was thinking latifah's sharp answer was enough to shut u up... but it looks like ur garbage-filled mouth knows no bounds.
if ur sad enough to form a personal vendetta against someone u dont even know, then u really are the lowlife of this forum (even mujahid hasn't yet stooped to that level!)
go get a life u sad loser. :roll: (btw that involves overcoming ur childish insecurity - believe it or not, you arent always going to be right about everything...) :roll:
Omrow Mon, 11 Jul 2005 - 14:36
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Salam
She still has this small hope.
Omrow
Seraphim Wed, 13 Jul 2005 - 22:42
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Hope is a waking dream
MuslimSisLilSis Sun, 17 Jul 2005 - 17:20
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100man
title of the thread is
would YOU (100man) marry YOU (100man)
its a simple Q which requires a simple answer
but cos u misunderstood a simple Q and instead read it as "Would YOU marry Lilsis"
I dont think that YOU shud marry YOU
cos YOU get confused too easily
muslim_kuri Mon, 18 Jul 2005 - 10:22
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very well explained lilsis...couldnt be any simpler! 😛
MuslimSisLilSis Tue, 19 Jul 2005 - 14:10
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the reason why I posted this thread is cos
i know too many ugly people desiring fit people
uneducated people desiring eductaed people
dark skinned people desiring light skinned people
non religious desiring religious people
and waaay too many impure people desiring pure people
the double standards present is a Joke
even they themselves woudlnt marry themselves but think they're God's gift to others :roll:
yuit Fri, 25 Nov 2005 - 16:19
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I know you say u only 14 Judda, but there no need for these childish games. I remember when I was younger it was normal to insult the girl you fancy just too get her attention but surely time has moved on, haven't they . Is that what you trying to do Judda.
:oops:
Poor judda :roll:
judda Fri, 25 Nov 2005 - 16:21
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PUR-LEASE :roll:
Dave Sat, 26 Nov 2005 - 21:48
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I'd love to marry me.
Unfortunately that presents somewhat of an existential crisis as it were and so I must settle for the next best thing
An international supermodel/neurosurgeon
or Miss America
Omrow Mon, 28 Nov 2005 - 12:18
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Salam
I suggest that administrators give a severe reprimand to this moron Muj.
He is a complete ass.
Omrow
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100 Mon, 28 Nov 2005 - 13:17
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Thank you. 100man, whaddya say? Would you marry me?
100man Mon, 28 Nov 2005 - 13:18
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You're such a sweetheart! Of course I'll marry you!
100 Mon, 28 Nov 2005 - 13:20
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Yippee!
MuslimSisLilSis Mon, 28 Nov 2005 - 17:16
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Muj AND judda have been personally offending me
in the forum AND via PM's
but the admins couldnt care less
maybe I should do what the Freak does and start posting thier sick PM's on the forum :roll:
Beast Mon, 28 Nov 2005 - 17:21
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It's the only way anything'll get done.
Go for it.
I'm gonna need to see the proof ----- OldModOnTheBlock
Although I never said that, it would be interesting. But not Appropriate ----- NewModOnTheBlock
MuslimSisLilSis Mon, 28 Nov 2005 - 17:24
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LOL
u just want some exitement in ur sad little life
get back to work on ur dissertation :twisted:
I not one to repeat sick stuff-I might be cheeky, rude, annoying and sumtimes mean
but I do have my shame
fizzy1 Mon, 28 Nov 2005 - 19:41
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i wd marry me.
nothing wrong with me, think im mature enough at mo.
but maybe i get a bit moody at times. damn time of the month. does that count?
Seraphim Mon, 28 Nov 2005 - 20:53
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Not to guys no...
That stuff aint gonna fly with us.
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