Time for me to get married
So - it's about time I got married.
I found a woman who was willing to take me regardless of the mess I was.
So, I went to her to get married. Arranged everything (food, guests outfits etc etc)
Then came the day of the Nikkah. The Imam said "How much "Haq Mehr" you putting down?"
I thought "You what? what's one of those?"
So my dad said the amount while I still wondered what this was.
Sheepishly I asked "What is the Haq Mehr?"
So the Imam began to explain "It's a payment that a man makes to his wife before the Nikkah. It's purpose is to protect the woman. So that she has something to fall back on if the marriage fails. So she can get by for a bit until she sorts stuff out."