Who would make the best Husband?
Posted on Friday, 24th June 2005 @ 9:31pm
Sup
They say you can marry a man for:
a.) his beauty (aka he's a pretty boy)
b.) his wealth
c.) piety
Its recommended you go for (c) but which one, or which other characteristics would you prefer?
PS Cooking isn't a characteristic its a skill.
25 June 2005
35 weeks 5 days
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25 June 2005
1 day 4 hours
Thats cuz the forum has lost all its data, you would have to re-register with the nick maryam, if you want..
24 June 2005
2 sec
or go to profile and change your name from there.
People say nothing is impossible, but I do nothing every day.
25 June 2005
1 day 4 hours
lol duh!!!
24 June 2005
17 weeks 5 days
instead of discussing who would make the best husband/wife we really should ask ourselves if WE would make the best husband/wives
we would only deserve and get the "best" if we are perfect as well
30 November 2005
3 days 2 hours
You said it girl!
Who is the cat of the Forum? MEZ!
Your damn right!
24 June 2005
17 weeks 5 days
yep I did
BTW considerate men make the best husbands-the type that make life easier for their wife and dont consider everything "the womens job"
25 June 2005
31 weeks 5 days
totally agree - those who like 2 divide responsibilities and are generally caring and show an interest in the wifes well-being in all situations whether the situation directly affects him or not
Live as long as you may, for verily you must die. Love whoever you wish, for one day you shall taste its seperation. And do what you will, you will be rewarded accordingly...
16 August 2005
13 weeks 5 days
I'm going to be the perfect husband.
I'm a generally pious fellow, pretty darn handsome if I do say so myself (and I did), doing well financially - I can cook.
Oh, and i'm modest.
Yessir - that Annette is one lucky girl.
25 June 2005
31 weeks 5 days
she better be lol nah im sure ul be the 'perfect' husband - it'l be a first but u can defo give it a go
Live as long as you may, for verily you must die. Love whoever you wish, for one day you shall taste its seperation. And do what you will, you will be rewarded accordingly...
30 November 2005
3 days 2 hours
How do you know that!
You might change in a few years time who knows!
Who is the cat of the Forum? MEZ!
Your damn right!
2 August 2005
7 weeks 2 days
coz its dave
The Lover is ever drunk with love;
He is free, he is mad,
He dances with ecstasy and delight.
Caught by our own thoughts,
We worry about every little thing,
But once we get drunk on that love,
Whatever will be, will be.
ɐɥɐɥ
25 July 2005
1 day 9 hours
A husband can only be as good as the wife he has IMO. But saying that i seen alot of marriages where you have each parnter at different extremes. Like the wife will be soft and the husband hard and vice versa. One will be demanding and the other considerate. It very rare to find a match, unless what i describe above is how it meant to be.
"A true Muslim is thankful to Allah in prosperity, and resigned to His will in adversity."
Quran
24 June 2005
17 weeks 5 days
I know a few men who get treated like crap from their wives
tis weird-
but I dont think that a husbands goodness is dependent on his wifes goodness
he should be a good husband REGARDLESS of what his wife is like
of course the wife should do her job do-but if she doesnt he shouldnt become evil
both will only be asked on the DJ of what they did
25 July 2005
1 day 9 hours
Tru, but what i seen in marriage there very few marriage where there a complete balance. It always one person who has to give and take, be it the husband or wife. If the wife has a short temper the husband is normally has patience. But it more common now, where you get no comprimise in marriage, so both may have short temper and that why marriage doesn't seem to be doing very well.
"A true Muslim is thankful to Allah in prosperity, and resigned to His will in adversity."
Quran
24 June 2005
17 weeks 5 days
personally I hate "opposites" marraiges
where one is short tempered and other is not
one is religious an other is not
I only know a handful of compatible couples
30 November 2005
3 days 2 hours
Yes but they should trust each other and listen to each other
to make the marrage work in the first place!
And one most improtant thing is that they should not keep any secrets from eachother and also involve each other in financal problems and discussion.
Who is the cat of the Forum? MEZ!
Your damn right!
2 August 2005
7 weeks 2 days
wow....she actually can say sumfin
The Lover is ever drunk with love;
He is free, he is mad,
He dances with ecstasy and delight.
Caught by our own thoughts,
We worry about every little thing,
But once we get drunk on that love,
Whatever will be, will be.
ɐɥɐɥ
30 November 2005
3 days 2 hours
I know this by certain couples!
Thanks for the compliment!
Who is the cat of the Forum? MEZ!
Your damn right!
25 June 2005
2 weeks 4 days
Sufi's make the best husbands.
25 June 2005
31 weeks 5 days
cant argue with that
Live as long as you may, for verily you must die. Love whoever you wish, for one day you shall taste its seperation. And do what you will, you will be rewarded accordingly...
25 July 2005
1 day 9 hours
lol, I could but i won't. But marriage is about compatibility, so the partner should compliment the other person character, doesn't mean they have to be exactly the same, be at least be of the same understanding in many respect. Of course Taqwa is the single most important aspect in someone and it sad that it seem very rare in people today.
"A true Muslim is thankful to Allah in prosperity, and resigned to His will in adversity."
Quran
25 June 2005
31 weeks 5 days
yeh its really sad - very hard finding pious god-fearing ppl but then again like some1 already mentioned we aint perfect ourselves...everyone should look at improving their own taqwa before insisting ta marry some1 with an exceptional level of it!
I agree with yuit I think the most one can find nowadays is some1 who has the same understanding as themselves on most aspects - more than that is probably expecting 2 much
Live as long as you may, for verily you must die. Love whoever you wish, for one day you shall taste its seperation. And do what you will, you will be rewarded accordingly...
30 November 2005
3 days 2 hours
true! true!
Who is the cat of the Forum? MEZ!
Your damn right!
28 August 2005
2 years 17 weeks
Who would make the best Husband?
Not meaning to brag . . . but the answer is clearly . . . .
ME!!
joke, yeh? lighten up med haters.
Ya ALLAH Madad.
Haq Chaar Yaar
30 November 2005
3 days 2 hours
Do not flatter yourself!
Who is the cat of the Forum? MEZ!
Your damn right!
2 August 2005
7 weeks 2 days
hey, no need for the n.b at the bottom
i whole heartedly i agree with you
Cmon folks....giv us a M.....giv us an E......Give us a D!
what do you get.................
SuperMed!!
The Lover is ever drunk with love;
He is free, he is mad,
He dances with ecstasy and delight.
Caught by our own thoughts,
We worry about every little thing,
But once we get drunk on that love,
Whatever will be, will be.
ɐɥɐɥ
24 June 2005
1 hour 3 min
Arent you supposed to be on holiday?
nosce te ipsum
2 August 2005
7 weeks 2 days
yes....i left my passport
why you wanna git rid of me
anyways, got the passport....keys...luggage...kids...phone....
doh, almost forgot...got the wife as well
shall be leaving you all again after 2nyt properly this tym had my extended break...done what i came to do
The Lover is ever drunk with love;
He is free, he is mad,
He dances with ecstasy and delight.
Caught by our own thoughts,
We worry about every little thing,
But once we get drunk on that love,
Whatever will be, will be.
ɐɥɐɥ
30 November 2005
3 days 2 hours
Ha Hyder you make me laugh!
If Seraph was here he would laugh to!
Who is the cat of the Forum? MEZ!
Your damn right!