Friend or Foe
Posted on Thursday, 10th July 2008 @ 10:47am
So who in your eyes is a friend and who do you consider is a foe?
How does your dictionary describe them?
Is it a must to have a friend or a foe? if yes then why? but if no... then why do people believe they should just-in-case?
Warnig: no backbitting infront or behind anyone's back!
19 August 2007
3 weeks 2 days
Who're my friends? Most nice people I know.
Who's my foe? Let me think....... 1) Love to live, no I'm just joking!
1) Tyrants
2) Proper Bullies
3) Arrogantly ignorant people
Chin up, mate! Life's too short.
10 May 2006
4 hours 49 min
Stealer!
9 May 2008
3 weeks 3 days
salams,
this subject just makes me boil with anger. I am far too "nice" for my own good. As a result after my yrs as a student i realised my best friends weren't really good friends at all. I have become so bitter I think it's better not to have friends, stick with your spouse, siblings and other close family members at least if they let you down you can forgive more easily. Why become personal with strangers let them into your life from childhood only to realise they are nothing but fakes?
True friends are loyal, honest, reliable, caring, thougtful. They don't backbite as soon as you've left the room. Sorry to say this but a large proportion of women like to chit chat about other girls even their so called mates. If it were possible i'd keep male friends only, but since it's not permitted in Islam I'll stick with my husband, and one friend who has remained "real" since nursery school.
Humans are social creatures so i think they need friends, it's good to share your life with other people and therapeutic to get things off your chest when the chips are low, so even though i sound bitter i'm not against having friends, just against allowing any old joe to be my mate, i/e you're in the same seminar group so you may aswell be friends with girl x. I now have a strict criteria for what I want in friends, just as I looked for criteria when getting married. Why?, because friends effect my level of faith, and my views on other subjects. If I'm practising but have mates that don't they can have a negative effect on my level of faith even if I don't own up to this. So I choose enemies carefully and friends more carefully...?
21 November 2006
10 hours 25 min
I met all my best, best, bestest friends in the mosque, so yeah, I agree.
Winter is the Springtime of the Muslim. Because Allah (swt) has made the nights long for worship, and the days short for fasting!
31 March 2008
9 hours 42 min
*Courage:
(i'll show u what a foe really is! NOT!)
*MuslimBro:
... i knew you were gna say that!
*Hajjar dear: good reply... friends are only good until something personal comes ... i miss all me friends coz they r in Brady and i'm stuck in mani... but without friends one will not be anything except a depressed wrinkled scrouge...
*Ya'qub: i wish i were a male... atleast i cud go to mosque more often!
Sky's the limit. True or false?
31 March 2008
9 hours 42 min
Being a friend and maintaining friendship is a responsibility, never really had "best friends" but Alhamdulillah what ever i was given was good... it was good company, but now that we r in uni and every1's doing their own thing and following routes that divide us... should we move on? (that seems like using the pal for your benefit and then you look away not even remembering the name!)
i don't know if i have foes...i don't even know if some1 considereds me as one... just in case any1 here was hurt by what i said then please accept sincere apology from me...
don't get me wrong but i've seen some ppl men to be precise who prefer the company of women... and no its not the company that u might be imagining but they relate better to women than men of their own limit... how come? and nothing "haram" is ever seen form him.
Sky's the limit. True or false?