Is HE Asking For It?

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"angel" wrote:
well if you men use your head sensibly then maybe you wont have to answer in a stupid manner to a "stupid" question..here's an example

wife: hun do you think i am fat?
hubby: no not at all sweety, maybe you would look nicer and so would i if we both regurlarly visited the gym

simple problem solved, hubby goes to gym to keep fit an in the process his wife is also fit!

wrong. Answering a stupid question with a stupid response is a means of communication that also implys we're annoyed with your question. And that example is not even realistic. It would go more like this:

wife: hun do you think i am fat?
hubby: compared to what?

If she wants to keep fit, why dont she just come out and say it. It would be far less problomatic.

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"Seraph" wrote:

wrong. Answering a stupid question with a stupid response is a means of communication that also implys we're annoyed with your question. And that example is not even realistic. It would go more like this:

wife: hun do you think i am fat?
hubby: compared to what?

man i hope all men aint insensitive like you!! that is so mean..i only blame the girl for been fat if she eats like a pig and dont care bout her health but same applies to men, they dont look attractive with big bellies in fact its very very off-putting!

"angel" wrote:
"Seraph" wrote:

wrong. Answering a stupid question with a stupid response is a means of communication that also implys we're annoyed with your question. And that example is not even realistic. It would go more like this:

wife: hun do you think i am fat?
hubby: compared to what?

man i hope all men aint insensitive like you!! that is so mean..i only blame the girl for been fat if she eats like a pig and dont care bout her health but same applies to men, they dont look attractive with big bellies in fact its very very off-putting!

lol, comeon dont tell me youre that naive. That example was just me having a bit of a laugh. Biggrin

Like i said b4, men... not really too bother about it, we'll go to the gym and we may watch our waist line but we're not gonna fret over it. Women can either except it or they can't.

Bottomline: Theres more women in the world than men.

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"Seraph" wrote:

lol, comeon dont tell me youre that naive. That example was just me having a bit of a laugh. Biggrin

Like i said b4, men... not really too bother about it, we'll go to the gym and we may watch our waist line but we're not gonna fret over it. Women can either except it or they can't.

Bottomline: Theres more women in the world than men.

There aint nothin wrong with women wantin a nice figure and looking after themselves but its goin to far when thats the only thing on her mind,but yeh more women tend to be worried bout how they look etc more so then men, i find men who are to in2 themselves well gay!!

IF a woman was really fat/smelly etc

she'd KNOW it-she don't need some smart aleck to point it out

only in very rare cases are woman oblivious to such things

men on the other hand NEED to be told

cos they have a tendency to walk around thinking their God's gift even if they aint got nothing going for them

"MuslimSisLilSis" wrote:
men on the other hand NEED to be told

cos they have a tendency to walk around thinking their God's gift even if they aint got nothing going for them

lol Blum 3

"MuslimSisLilSis" wrote:

cos they have a tendency to walk around thinking their God's gift even if they aint got nothing going for them

wrong again.

Guys tend to keep fit till they get married after that they're too busy trying to earn a living and dealing with bills to bother keeping fit. Bsides who're they keeping fit for; they're married, stuck with that person for the rest of their life.

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"Seraph" wrote:

Guys tend to keep fit till they get married after that they're too busy trying to earn a living and dealing with bills to bother keeping fit. Bsides who're they keeping fit for; they're married, stuck with that person for the rest of their life.

same applies for the women

they're too busy running after six little brats and cooking food all day long to worry about looking fit for their husband

the fat guy with a beer belly whom they're gonna be stuck with for the rest of their life :roll:

that aint right though..husband n wife should always try to please each other and looking decent is part of it

i agree

but some men think that its a womens job to sit there and look pretty

whilst he himself becomes fatter and more smelly

these men need to snap out of it n realise that everything works both ways...especially in a marriage

"MuslimSisLilSis" wrote:
i agree

but some men think that its a womens job to sit there and look pretty

whilst he himself becomes fatter and more smelly

dats sooooo tru

"MuslimSisLilSis" wrote:
i agree

but some men think that its a womens job to sit there and look pretty

whilst he himself becomes fatter and more smelly

Wait a min nobody is forcing anyone too look pretty.

If she thinks she's fat stop asking us and do something about it woman. It obviously bothers her, if it doesnt than nobody really cares so get over it.

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"Seraph" wrote:
"MuslimSisLilSis" wrote:
i agree

but some men think that its a womens job to sit there and look pretty

whilst he himself becomes fatter and more smelly

Wait a min nobody is forcing anyone too look pretty.

If she thinks she's fat stop asking us and do something about it woman. It obviously bothers her, if it doesnt than nobody really cares so get over it.

so your tellin me if you had an overweight wife, it wouldnt bother you?

"angel" wrote:
"Seraph" wrote:
"MuslimSisLilSis" wrote:
i agree

but some men think that its a womens job to sit there and look pretty

whilst he himself becomes fatter and more smelly

Wait a min nobody is forcing anyone too look pretty.

If she thinks she's fat stop asking us and do something about it woman. It obviously bothers her, if it doesnt than nobody really cares so get over it.

so your tellin me if you had an overweight wife, it wouldnt bother you?

I was referring to her... as in if it bothers 'her'...

I'd love my wife one way or the other... in sickness and in health, for richer for poorer... etc etc etc... but thats not the point here.

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Guy is asking for it if he's LAZY

I cant stand lazy men

every morning me/sis and a cousin who's staying with us wake up around 9-9:30

whoever goes in the kitchen first makes breakfast

then my good for nothing brother and my even lazier cousin wake up around 12:00 and do my head in to make them breakfast

silly lazy boys-why cant they make their own cornflakes?

I blank them-and dont care if they starve

my sister sumtimes makes breakfast for my cousin-but she did say to him the other day "I'm only making you breakfast cos ur a guest in my house-but please dont be so lazy"

then Mum comes home couple of hours later with the shopping giving me a lecture for not feeding the boys?!

ARE THEY BABIES? they are 16 year old boys!!!!

why do some guys expect women to wait on them? i blame the mothers

even my sister said to mum last night that "its cos of mums like you that our boys are lazy and make life difficult for their wives"

boys should pull their own weight

I'm always training my brother to pull his weight-so that his future wife donthave a reason to complain

I do this by not making him breakfast-ever- so that when he's hungry he's forced to make his own

I NEVER iron his clothes-then he has to do it cos he cant exacty leave the house looking like a tramp

I NEVER hoover/clean his smelly room...and when the mess becomes unbearable he does it himself

Pakistani boys are lazy and our mothers are to blame for this

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