Salaams Everyone,

I recently had a very mubarak dream and I have decided to go on a journey of self reformation.

I would like to apologise to all the sisters on the forum for my anti wife/women attitude. I know I have caused a lot of hurt to many of you. Please find it in your hearts to forgive a misguided brother.

I will still be on the forum but will hopefully only contribute where necessary, eg. when things that are not permissible in Islam are advocated or made permissible. I consider myself a student rather than a teacher.

So, to everyone who has been so patient with me, make dua allah accepts me and guides me onto the path of siratul mustakeem. I have not been long on the forum and don't know many people, but in this short time I have made more enemies than friends, and that is not a good thing. The BIG, MEAN, GREEN MACHINE, is hopefully becoming more human.

To the few that I do know,

Lilly - I just love to make you angry, you really don't know how to get angry, but that's what makes you different. Always remain the way you are. I am quite sure you will make an "EXCELLENT" wife, and don't let anyone tell you otherwise, not even me.

You - YOU seem to have some weird interpretations of hadith, I suggest when in doubt check with the scholars, thats why they are there. Nothing more dangerous than making false interpretations. Insha allah, guidance will be yours. One more thing, you don't have to oppose everything people say, you can agree some of the time, it's not a sin. Anyway all da best.

Isha al Maghribi - Is the spelling right? I hope so. Have a wonderful wedding and hope you have a very happy married life with your new husband and hopefully you will have more kids, but not too soon, otherwise you will have a whole football team by the time you're 25. Oh yes, B is the better option for the wedding dress, but if you like A that is fine too.

Power of Silence - Practice what you preach, learn to be silent more often, just kidding. Give Fefe a big HUGG from me, be careful you don't crush his bones. Don't forget to silence injustice and oppression, NO! that does not mean you gotta kick my butt. All da best with the studies.

To all those whom I have missed above, all da best and remember me in your duas.

Huuuuh!! I hate good-byes they make me go all soft. COMMON, GREENEEEEEEE
GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR!!

Salaams.
Yours
zdc