Do you sometimes feel being religious sometimes alienates you from people around you. Or even cause you to loose friends?
"No im sorry, i cant come meet you coz unrelated guys and girls cant be alone togeather."
Or
"No im sorry, I cant go in there bcoz i dont want anything to do with a place that sells alcohol."
or
"Sorry I cant attend this party, coz free mixing ... not really allowed."
And
"No I cant look at you, anything more than a glance is strictly forebidden."
Im sure you guys can think of some of your own. But you get the general idea.
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31 March 2008
5 hours 14 min
I like the title
24 June 2005
42 min 18 sec
"lose".
and yes, it can be limiting.
But then again, I rarely meet people in halaal circumstances, so I doubt I would be much for socialising even if there were no restrictions.
People say nothing is impossible, but I do nothing every day.
7 October 2008
5 days 4 hours
Was the title of a movie recently, wasnt it?
But yeah, i do agree wit wat seraphy said. It is possible to loose some of your non-muslim friends like this
but we try to be as flexible as Islam allows. And in the end if my mates cant understand that then they aint as good as mates as i thought.
When life offers you a dream so far beyond any of your expectations, it is not reasonable to grieve when it comes to an end.
10 October 2005
1 week 6 days
Yep
been meaning to go an see that, looks good.
No not the gum drop buttons! – Gingy
31 March 2008
5 hours 14 min
Midnight, yh it's american comedy (not seen and can't be bothered to)
Naz, NAZ!
where have you been?
10 October 2005
1 week 6 days
Please refer to the no topic thread for a reply.
/whispers the Seraph gets very defensive if you try to go off topic on his thread or blogs.
No not the gum drop buttons! – Gingy
31 March 2008
5 hours 14 min
/whispers back: sorry
24 June 2005
4 hours 35 min
lol
What is this Chinese whispers? I dont mind a lil off topic. Just dont take up an entire page.
nosce te ipsum
25 May 2008
3 days 4 hours
hahahahahahaa
that was good!!!
25 May 2008
3 days 4 hours
"I would shake your hand but then we'd have to get married"
10 November 2008
15 hours 20 min
One word: NO.
I feel Islam is VERY modern, unfortunately the same can't be said for Muslims. Islam says you shouldn't STARE at people of the opposite sex, but looking them in the eye and having a general talk with them is not a way to Hell.
About booze and all that, most good friends will understand why you can't/won't so they'd respect that, right?
"If you stand for nothing, you'll fall for anything!"
Motto of Outlandish
21 November 2006
4 hours 26 min
I have lost many friends because of this. It's not that I said anything in the way you posted, but i DID stop clubbing and pubbing etc. , and this meant we drifted apart.
TBH, the friends that replaced them are much better, alhamdulillah!
The frown of a friend is better than the smile of a fool.